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What does it mean if your boyfriend/gal you've broken up with (ex) though he/she didn't agree or say anything to the break up still keeps your things at his/her place and is taking a lot of time to return it back to you? He/she keeps saying he would bring them but doesn't and each time you say you want to move on they wouldn't say anything. Nothing stops he/she from taking them n dropping them somewhere or better still tell you to pick it up outside. It's not hard so what does that mean??

@ Steve4nja
i'm yet to hear from him, what exactly happened, the girl has said her part that they did the but he denies it,that's all. until we talk then i can actually finalise but as for talking things ova, im done with that, it's up to him to make the effort to find a way n talk not just sit there n chill.

@Godspalm

I understand what u are saying but what would u say in my situation. He was always wrong yet cos of my heart I always made up, until he reached his limit, I decided to stay off, now he called me once, wouldnt it be a good idea to at least admit he was wrong? No one is playing game here, he's been offending me then i'm silent , then he calls

@ troOe
u r right but Gucci_Babe just answered that if only he would listen. Men have difficulty listening. I've tried all I could, sit n talk but he's proving stubborn. I dont know why my heart is too soft cos i still love him

@ Templa

We haven't broken up, maybe I did with him in my mind but even though, he doesn't want to and still has my things u know so I guess that's the strategy he's using to make sure he still has me.

@Gucci_Babe

it's a hard thing oo, I miss him, this lesson is even weighinh me down not only cos i miss him but i cant bear thinking he's feeling sad n such.

As 4 me, he's at fault yet he still has this ittle pride so im keeping my distance too 2 see his next step but it aint easy. even if he's not thinking bout me, im thinking bout if he's ok n happy? i wish i could call him now but i gotta do wat i have to do rite?

@ lonelypal
sigh i guess so but why must this alws happen when two pple really love eachother? well he has to show me how serious he is too, calling twice isn't enuf, i want to wait n see his next step 4 sum1 that claims he is in love, right

@ sistawoman

I've thut bout it so many times, met other pple, still my mind tells me to make up with him n work things out


@ Karmamod
Confused bout what?

@sistawoman

so good to hear from u again. At work now, just thut I'd browse thru. Well u know my story, as @ now, he called me bout 3days ago twice but i dodnt answer n he left me a message, saying he knows i would n't answer but he can understand. Haven't herd from him since then and i havent called him, trying to leave it 2 2 more wks but truthfully I miss him.

@ lonelypal

what would u do if u r in my shoes?

I'm in that condition too, he's called me after the misunderstanding and of course, didn't answer but damn! I miss him so much, trying to extend it to 2 more wks then after wards maybe call him. That's life.

Lmao, this thread is damn funny!


@shinatu lmao, when u saw his name

Stephen i came here for help, you already have a girl i suppose, so why dont u take urself out of my post?. I didn't invite u, i've already gotten the answers i need from matured people, say all you want to say but at the end it's up to me. If any of u saved my pics on ur PC's no peace, it's my privacy. stephen LEAVE ME ALONE n go face ur life.

@ edoyad,
Help me tell him, Thanks.

I would curse whoever that has my pics on their pc's, leave me alone. Stephen i dont want you, it's not by force, leave me n my pics alone. Ypu are only trying to see me in person that's why u r doing all these, but it wont work, u'll neva see me.

@ Stephen P

my pics arent for advertisement, MAKE SURE, I repeat MAKE SURE, u dont have any of my pics with u ok?!

@ na2day

was very busy @ work n it's best 2 ignore such peeps she knows herself.

May God forgive u Librangyps.

Did i invite u to my post? i dont want you, dont u get it? is it by force? well idleness isnt good, thats where the devil works best. if u talk too much, i put my pic again, JEALOUS CREATURE.

people my offence is posting my pic on here n someone or something is beefing me. i know i'm pretty, pls people tell her/it that it's from God not my doing.

do people tell u u r ugly, dont worry that's what make up is there for or better still embrace urself that way n like i said b4 dont make me curse u cos that aint in my nature. you arent invited to my post. is it by force?

my own case ignorance. it's best to ignore a fool.

This is my first post on here, leave my post alone, do i matter that much to you?! it's not my fault if u r ugly, accept the way God created you instead of whining n beefing people u know r pretty n im talking bout moi. Aint got ur time anymore, dont make me curse u cos it aint in my nature.

Leave my post, u aren't wanted!

Sigh

Ignorance is The Best answer For a Fool!

when i put my post, i didnt invite people like u, it's not by force! people that mattered have done their part.

@ Librangyps go find something useful and do instead of beefing. It's not my fault im pretty, it's from God and I thank God for blessing me with such beauty.

@ librangyps

jealousy aint a good thing sista!!

u r confused stephen p. i dont know what u have up ur sleeves but im not down with it. i dont have to put or be another person to get what i want ok?! i am ME n will be ME! dont have time 4 u anymore


To those that helped me, thanks once again cos heartbreak isnt a good thing to experience but i feel much better.

lmao!! @ stephen p

Now i know why they say some people on here just give useless answers and talk rubbish! But i Thank those that helped me n gave me answers i needed. Much love to Y'all!

Stephen P, U r pathetic. Do u think im looking 4 a date on here or what?? i cant be wasting my time on these. I mean this is absurd. Someone is doubting who i am?? wow! well some things are just best ignored and i came here 4 help not useless talks.

And besides i was really hurt and didnt want to involve people around me yet, thats why i came online and found this site. As 4 the ims, n email, just to get advice n not 4 advertisement, doubting Thomas  

well ive gotten the help i need so no need 4  all these.

Stephen P, Librangyps, n the rest doubting, I dont have to put any effort or listen to you. is it a crime to be beautiful?? n like i said beauty isnt about everything, i meet guys, i have lots of admirers but this is someone 1 promised 2 be faithful to and did what i had to do n got hurt, beauty has nothing to do with heartbreak. ok?!

i was 21 when i met him so do the calculation urselves cos u r beginning to piss me off n im gonna have to take down my pic.

@ Queenisha, heres anoda pic, when u see it let me know so i could remove it.

@ Queenisha

that's a true talk, ive decided to move on.

dicks is a name n not the other lmao

@dreeldee

lmao, thats the beginning of every dick n harry, ill treat u right like a queen n all that then along the line, pls girls help me fill that out. Though not all guys some of u guys are sweet n real! ya know

y'all are wonderful except 4 idupaul who forced himself here. wel ive decided to move on n yeah the age difference is much. Love why did u carry me 2 him?

@ queenisha

heheheh who is davidylan?