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Am in a relationship where my gf is more older than me (6 years to be precise). She is in her thirties and desperate about marriage. She is even proposing to me many time where I should be the one 2. This has always brought abt fighting in our relationship. Actually, am not in for marriage with her and I have told her that numerous time and even advice us to break up but she just wanna stay with me cos she love me hoping someday my mind would change asking her to marry me bt the issue here is though she might be loving and caring but there so many feature she exhibit that make me see her as not the right person to marry and moreover marriage is the last thing on my mind for nw as I have a map of my life to fulfill. She is the nagging type, possessive and always want to be on bed. More so, little thing tat people would laugh over always causes problem and fight in our relationship. I don't see mysef into a marriage as I still ve a long way to go and there as been much lessons in the relationship that am scared of even marriage. How do I handle this matter now. Though I pity her but I don't want to be forced into marriage or marry out of pity.

Guess I need ur advice.