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Am in a relationship where my gf is more older than me (6 years to be precise). She is in her thirties and desperate about marriage. She is even proposing to me many time where I should be the one 2. This has always brought abt fighting in our relationship. Actually, am not in for marriage with her and I have told her that numerous time and even advice us to break up but she just wanna stay with me cos she love me hoping someday my mind would change asking her to marry me bt the issue here is though she might be loving and caring but there so many feature she exhibit that make me see her as not the right person to marry and moreover marriage is the last thing on my mind for nw as I have a map of my life to fulfill. She is the nagging type, possessive and always want to be on bed. More so, little thing tat people would laugh over always causes problem and fight in our relationship. I don't see mysef into a marriage as I still ve a long way to go and there as been much lessons in the relationship that am scared of even marriage. How do I handle this matter now. Though I pity her but I don't want to be forced into marriage or marry out of pity.

Guess I need ur advice.

you knew she nags, 6yrs your senior and you were going out with her? at her age she is allout for marriage and you would do her a whole lot of good if you can just let her move on with her life.

It's your life, if you don't want to marry someone, don't. I am pretty sure you didn't go into this relationship promising her marriage. Move on with your life, and let her move on with hers.

[color=#9900ff]Like Nike, just do it. Break it off[/color]

Open up 2 her b4 she tie u down with pregnant or juju and next time date ur agemate.

Quit wasting her tym & urs. Since u kno u aint going 2 marry her, it wuld be beta 4 u 2 breakup d relationship asap.

poster

This is the time for you to be a man and break up with her wether she agrees or not you are your own person and no one can force you to be in a relationship you dont want to be in so grow some ballz and break up with her it will be for her own your own good. do it today

Call it quits

@poster
may i ask you what attracted you to that girl (and keeping you there) since everything you wrote about her has been nothing but negative stuff?!