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PhonesRe: How Much Time You Spend On The Internet? by dessi(f): 11:29pm On Apr 07, 2006
@ gbenga_9ja : u should install also Strong DC++ , my bf downloaded limeware cos he didnt found nigerian music here , but with strog DC i download much better , i mean the speed is cool . take care smiley
CareerRe: Do You Really Love Your Job? by dessi(f): 5:23pm On Apr 07, 2006
Hm, yes i like my job. I dont love it, the only thing i would love is to winn at lotery cheesy But this job i like it cos i can work from home, when i wanna and how much time i wanna , the salary is pretty cool , the company is from USA so they give me better salary than in Romania . How to not like it when they pay me even when i write on Nairalanf forum ? grin
PhonesRe: How Much Time You Spend On The Internet? by dessi(f): 5:06pm On Apr 07, 2006
Oh, i work from home so im always on internet, when im not working i chat with friends form other city/countrys , only when im with my baby oga i dont use internet, but im still online . grin First thing in the morning is to open computer and check my email, when i go in hometown for visit my mother i dont have computer/net there , but i always dream that im chating on yahoo lol So yes, im soooo adicted to this lipsrsealed and all my friends are like that ! very bad, i think , somebody stop me ! cool
CultureRe: Why Must Nigerians Abroad Marry Nigerians? by dessi(f): 9:44pm On Apr 02, 2006
Yeeeh it was the worst joke lipsrsealed , anyway yesterday i made to EACH friend of mine a very bad joke and they all was very angry on me , but finaly we was outside in town together , and my baby oga tryed to make me happy , cos im still MAD on him grin
Did u recieved some bad joke yesterday ? cheesy
CultureRe: Why Must Nigerians Abroad Marry Nigerians? by dessi(f): 8:31pm On Apr 01, 2006
Hello friends ! I dont know if u have there 1 April , here we must make jokes in that day, to foolish people , so my boyfriend and his roommate (another nigerian) told us yesterday that the relationship its over , and i cryed 26 hours, no sleep and stuff , and today he called me laughing to tell me that it was ONLY A JOKE for 1 April , shocked undecided what kind of joke it that i dont know , but well, im back hoping to visit Lagos with him , now grin But i will try to take it easy , cos if he will dump me for real i will be , finished. Ok,thats all for now smiley
CultureRe: Why Must Nigerians Abroad Marry Nigerians? by dessi(f): 7:17am On Apr 01, 2006
Well , my cute black boy just dumped me and the reason was "no reason, just like that" huh And I still dont imagine how i will be with a white man anymore , or with anybody else , so , anyway,I still hope to visit one day Lagos cos i read so much about it and i think its something "must see" . This is life , after i have done so much , now i got nothing . cry Then , no need to open a new topic for me , cos i dont have anymore what to ask/write ,but i will read u in the future cos u are nice guys kiss
CultureRe: Why Must Nigerians Abroad Marry Nigerians? by dessi(f): 9:47pm On Mar 29, 2006
Tks for yr answer Seun smiley Well I dont know where he will settle , maybe if he have better oportunitys in Nigeria he will prefer to return, i dont know , but thing is that I would go for him till the end of world and back . cool And i am asking about how u treat there white ppl because here in Romania I can feel the rasism ,unfortunatly , and i dont wanna my baby oga have problems with that , so maybe i would like better to live in other country . As for me, i cannot imagine myself being with a white man anymore LOL
I ve met only few nigerians ,they are not so many here, but they are all cool persons and what i like the most is that they have a very nice way to respect their parents . And i do apreciate that very much , i dont know but for me they are much better educate and with some fear of God that mostly europeans ppl . Maybe im wrong , but anyway i hope one day i will go in Lagos at least for visiting that town and meet more nice nigerians . cheesy
Well, i still wait negative opinions here ! I guess im a little pesimistic tongue
CultureRe: Why Must Nigerians Abroad Marry Nigerians? by dessi(f): 9:04pm On Mar 29, 2006
Uhm, hard topic for me . lipsrsealed I am white , my boyfriend is from Nigeria, he study here , and i REALY hope to marry him one day . I dont know, why should i belive that is better for him to marry with a nigerian girl ? I know i love him , i would do the best for us ,and i can respect other cultures and i wanna learn about that (one of the reason i am here !) .So why am I worst than a nigerian girl ? cry True, its easyer to marry a person from the same country/area/culture/religion as u are, but easyer does not means BETTER ! I also never thought i can fall in love with a black guy , never had this ideea, but how i can put myself against love ? And what reason to do that ? With family problems it can be the same, maybe his family will not like that he is with a white girl (but they dont have nothing against) and my family for sure they will not like him at the begining. But again, why should i care ? With this ocasion i would like to ask u friends how the white people are treated in Nigeria ? I mean, if i will ever move there i will have problems just because im white and not black ? And pls be honest , i can afford negative answers grin Tks, and God help us ! (im sorry again for my bad english )
TravelRe: March 29 Total Solar Eclipse In Nigeria by dessi(f): 4:47pm On Mar 29, 2006
Hello friends , we had in Europe - Romania also a partial eclipse today , i got few pictures for you , hope u will like them . We live so far away, but the sun its only one for everybody grin

FamilyRe: "Do Not Speak Indigenous Languages To My Child": How Right Are Such Parents? by dessi(f): 7:05am On Mar 22, 2006
Yes mlks_baby, u right ! Its very important to know 1 international language, and i guess english its the most used. But anyway in Nigeria english can be learned at school ,right? My nigerian boyfriend speaks very well english, and i guess some igbo (not sure, but sounds something like that ), but he learned very well romanian language . grin And if i will ever have kids with him for sure we will teach them all the languags we know !! Ive noticed that my "baby oga" (he`s the boss! ) talk with him friends some strange english , "Sup ?" instead of "what`s up?" for example , but i guess this is not a dialect in nigeria ,maybe its their way to be cool haha . Well i was just surfing the internet to find out more about Lagos , but im happy i`ve meet u guys, and i think i will look over this forum more .
FamilyRe: "Do Not Speak Indigenous Languages To My Child": How Right Are Such Parents? by dessi(f): 5:53am On Mar 22, 2006
Oh , what can i say , i am now with one nigerian here , so if he dump me i will come to you and we`ll cry together : me for this boy, and u for the romanian girl . But hey, we must decide in what language/dialect to cry cheesy
FamilyRe: "Do Not Speak Indigenous Languages To My Child": How Right Are Such Parents? by dessi(f): 5:33am On Mar 22, 2006
Hello, im from Europe - Romania ,and i didnt study english never in my life, so i hope u understand me at least 50% smiley In my opinion its much better for a person to know as many languages/dialects he can . And the best oportunity is when u are little kid, because then u dont realize that u are "studying" something . And i dont see any reason why a kid form Nigeria to not study also english and his native dialect . In Romania we have indeed few diffrect accent, if we come from diffrent areas, but usualy its only about accent, and only little diffrent words, so here we can understand everybody.But anyhow, i speak with the accent of my area, even if i moved from hometown , because its like a proud for me . And even like somebody here told us, that in maybe 500 years one dialect will disapear, so what ?? We live now, not in future, and since that dialect exist, and our parents used it, i dont undersand why to not teach our kids the same ?! Its about tradition ,and why not to conserve this ? We got here nigerian students and they know very well english, this is very cool, but also they talk between them their dialect, and its ok, speaking the native language its like u are home always smiley
huh, i think nobody will get my point , well i will improve my english and i`ll be back !

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