goslowgoslow: Let us see if kidnapping will stop when your Lord and Savior Atiku or Obi gets there. Regardless how do you who they voted. Always making senseless comment!
I watch many young guys, most my age, that have one or two children. I see how they struggle and toil day and night. Yet, almost nothing to show for it, children expenses, sometimes ungrateful wifes, make them look older than their age.
As for me, still in my mid 30s, will prolly settle down soon hopefully. But, if I'm to pick between settling down now, and be living like most of my friends, or wait a little longer and live the life i want, I'll gladly wait.
Then sometimes, one or two of them will call me and start complaining about finances, how i should help them or borrow them 20 or 40k. Me, I just give them what I know I can afford, cause I dont borrow people money, to avoid stories.
Most people think because I have a house I stay, and a car I drive, I'm automatically ready for marriage. But, I still have a little mile ahead to cross.
If you are practicing celibacy, your story is not bad.
But if you are committing fornication, that one no good o.
obonujoker: Any Culture or tradition, that does not glorify God is already satanic and immoral.
As Christians, true children of God, we are to separate ourselves from such practices - 2 Corinthians 6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. 6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
You cannot call yourself a Christian and you do Masquerade, you do Ifa, you do New yam festival, You do Amadioha , You do Ogun, you do Ojude Oba, You do Raping culture festivals... You may not attend but you sponsor and support with you money...
As a child of God, A Christian, going to church with Bible, you must choose one, whether you follow God or follow the traditions of men inspired by the devil and His agents. See what Apostle Paul wrote about his own- Galatians 1:14 And profited in the Jews' religion above many my equals in mine own nation, being more exceedingly zealous of the traditions of my fathers. 1:15 But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother's womb, and called me by his grace,
God had to separate him from all those traditions.
Remember the day you accepted Jesus, is the Day you decide to follow Him and do the will of God. May the Lord help us
And if you are still blinded by traditions and Cultures, Remember none of them can connect you to God. Jesus has paid the final price. Anything outside Jesus Christ leads you to damnation.
Interesting15: Wisdom For Destiny Daily Devotional *(5th April 2026)*
by Sunday-Akanni M.
TOPIC: Defeating Death Like A Boss
Scripture: "He is not here; for He is risen, as He said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay." Matthew 28:6
*Message*
After Jesus was killed and placed in the tomb, there was great silence everywhere. When it seems hope is lost, joy was silently brewing, gently approaching, reaching its climax when the KING of Glory resurrected gloriously from the grave - nothing could hold Him bound in darkness!
Hallelujah! Jesus is risen! Hallelujah! Glory to God!
The strength of His resurrection is a display of the truth of His words, that in Him is Life. We can believe for sure that He is KING over all, including death. Death has been successfully tormenting and traumatising mankind for many years. But the strength of Jesus's resurrection humiliated death, stripped it of his powers, and rendered it disgraced.
In the strength of His resurrection, you, too, can humiliate death like a boss. You can forever enjoy eternal life that proceeds from God as you stay connected to Him in spirit and in truth, through faith in Jesus Christ. God is only interested in a relationship with mankind, possible through Jesus Christ. This is when life, the life God dispenses into your spirit, will keep empowering you to live the quality life He has ordained for you - a life that can't be hindered by sin, satan, death, sickness, poverty, etc.
As you are connected to Him, you become a dispenser of life, chasing death (both spiritual death and its other expressions) away from your space. In the strength of His resurrection, go and make Jesus proud!
*Prayers/Confessions* In the Name of Jesus, whatever item of death lurking around my life and territory, is swallowed up by the power that raised Jesus from the death!
*Further Reading* John 14:6 *1-year Bible Reading Plan* Judges 15-17; Luke 9:18-36
This emotional video shows a powerful moment inside a Nigerian prison where inmates joined Christian missionaries in a deep session of praise and worship. What started as a simple visit quickly turned into a touching and unforgettable experience.
Many of the prisoners appeared emotional, reflective, and deeply moved during the worship session. This viral moment has sparked reactions across the internet, with many people shocked by what they saw.
Can people truly change no matter their past? This video raises important questions about transformation, second chances, and hope. Watch till the end and share your thoughts.
Spainever: This is false . People living abroad also have families in Nigeria . Insecurity affect everybody . People abroad also feel the heat because when a family member is kidnapped it can cause heart attack . Moreover a better Nigeria will reduce unnecessary pressure on them . Are they holding Nigeria from progressing ?
PurityOrNothing: You were not made to be hunted. You were not fashioned to be taken advantage of, violated, or silenced. You were created with dignity, wrapped in worth, and clothed in a value that no person has the right to strip away. And yet, the reality of the world we live in demands that we speak honestly — because awareness is not fear. It is wisdom.
Sexual abuse does not only happen in dark alleys to careless women. It happens in homes, offices, schools, religious centers, and vehicles. It is committed most often not by strangers, but by people the victim already knows and trusts — relatives, colleagues, romantic partners, and spiritual leaders.
Understanding this is not meant to paralyse you. It is meant to wake you up.
Predators share predictable patterns. They look for vulnerability — someone isolated, emotionally wounded, or new to an environment. They test boundaries before crossing them, beginning with small inappropriate touches or comments to assess how much you will tolerate. They use trust as a weapon, spending weeks or months earning it before exploiting it. And they rely on your silence — your shame, your fear of not being believed, your reluctance to cause trouble.
One of your greatest tools of protection is your willingness to speak.
Beyond practical awareness, pray consistently for the gift of discernment. Many women have shared that something inside them *knew* — that there were warnings their spirit flagged that their minds reasoned away. Do not silence that inner voice. It is not rude to trust your instincts. It is wisdom.
Guard Your Gates
Every city of value in the ancient world had walls — not because the people inside were weak, but because what was inside was worth protecting. You are a city of great value. You need walls. Those walls are your boundaries.
Boundaries are not acts of hostility. They are acts of self-respect — and self-respect, rooted in the understanding that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), is entirely consistent with godly character.
You need boundaries across four key areas:
Physical — who is allowed to touch you, how, and in what context. Going alone to a private location with someone you do not deeply trust crosses a boundary before anyone else does anything wrong.
Emotional — protecting your heart from people who are working unusually hard to become your emotional anchor, creating dependency and obligation before their intentions are clear.
Digital — never sharing intimate images with anyone. Once an image leaves your hands, you lose all control over it permanently.
Verbal — shutting down conversations that drift toward sexual territory or inappropriate comments. You do not need to laugh politely. A calm, firm "I am not comfortable with that" is entirely sufficient.
Setting boundaries is difficult because women are often conditioned to be agreeable, to keep the peace, and to avoid being seen as difficult. But hear this clearly: anyone who responds with hostility simply because you enforced a personal boundary has just revealed exactly why that boundary was necessary.
Recognize the Red Flags
Danger rarely announces itself. It arrives wearing a smile — friendly, familiar, and convincing. Learning to read warning signals early gives you time and options.
Watch for the person who disregards small nos — how someone handles a minor refusal reveals everything about how they will handle an important one. Be cautious of anyone who moves unusually fast to build closeness or creates a sense of loyalty before trust has been genuinely earned. Notice when someone consistently steers you away from your friends and family — isolation is a predator's tool, not a sign of love.
Other red flags include: consistent boundary testing; guilt or obligation used as currency ("after everything I've done for you..."; disrespectful language toward women generally; and a pattern of uncomfortable behaviour that multiple people have experienced with the same person.
When the red flags are flying for someone you care about — a partner, a family member, a pastor you respect — it is tempting to rationalize. But your love for someone does not neutralize a threat they pose to you. Recognizing a red flag is not a betrayal. It is self-preservation.
Use Your Voice
Your voice is a weapon. It has stopped predators, protected the innocent, and brought the guilty to account more times than history can record. And yet it is the tool women are most often conditioned to set aside.
No is a complete sentence It does not require justification, apology, or negotiation. It does not become more valid when delivered loudly, nor less valid when delivered quietly. A person who responds to your no with pressure, guilt, or persistence is not having a conversation — they are attempting to defeat you.
When something happens in the moment — a comment, a touch, a look that lingers too long — name the behaviour directly: *"You just touched me without my permission."* Naming strips ambiguity from the act and puts the person on notice. Use bystanders when available. Exit confidently when necessary. You do not have to win the argument. Getting yourself out is always the victory.
And if something has already happened — report it when you are able. Not only for your own justice, but because the person who violated you has almost certainly done so before and will do so again if unchecked. Your voice, raised in formal report, may protect the next woman.
If you are not ready to report, that is okay. But tell someone — a trusted friend, a counsellor, a crisis line. Getting your experience out of isolation is itself an act of courage and a beginning of healing.
A Final Word
Whether this is preparation or reflection — whether you are reading this before anything has happened or long after — the truth remains the same:
You are not prey
You were made by a God who calls you by name, who sees every wound, grieves every violation, and is in the business of making beautiful things from broken ones. Nothing that has been done to your body changes your standing before Him. Nothing diminishes the worth He placed in you before you drew your first breath.
Walk in that dignity. Guard it. Teach it to every woman within your reach.
"She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future." — Proverbs 31:25
PurityOrNothing: *Purity or Nothing Global Movement* DAILY PURITY DIGEST
Date: *14th February 2026*
Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day
Scripture: "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8
*THE PURE WORD*
Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.
The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.
The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).
Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.
So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).
Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship
So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".
This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God
That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.
Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!
Run into the waiting arms of Christ!
*Confession:* I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Alaefulu: So NL can be this cool and encouraging,am happy seeing comments of encouragement for the writer.even some ladies are even saying words of encouragement,thats nice oooo
Omo me sef shork... several nice and encouraging comments.
Obviouslyblunt: Going through the comments here, i’m terribly appalled by you Africans. If she is making genuine effort to make peace and turn a new leaf, may God give her the strength and continue to forgive her for her past misdeeds. I wish her happiness and everlasting peace and comfort.
shadrach77: Human beings are funny. Nigerians most especially. When she was a bad girl people were complaining. Now that she has turned to a good girl the same people are still finding ways to bad mouth her. That tells you one thing, you can't please the world so just please yourself and your Maker
"And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:" {Hebrews 9:27}
No prayers can save the dead; No sacrifices can appease the dead; No 'akara' distribution for eating Can save the dead; No seventy virgins for the dead: Heaven is not some sort of brothel Where carnal sexuality is... What is the basis of the faith Whose founder has no power Over death and the grave?
My brother, thank you, only Jesus has power over the grave and death o
PurityOrNothing: *Purity or Nothing Global Movement* DAILY PURITY DIGEST
Date: *13th January 2026*
Topic: Pray Concerning Their Sexuality Too
Scripture: "The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective." - James 5:16
*THE PURE WORD*
If you're a parent, your prayers for your children's sexual purity are one of the most powerful investments you can make. Consistent, specific intercession creates spiritual protection and prepares them for battles they'll face.
Pray specifically for your children's purity: protection from sexual temptation, wisdom to recognize and avoid dangerous situations, strength to resist peer pressure, development of biblical convictions about sexuality, and future spouses who are also pursuing purity.
Pray about specific challenges: their exposure to sexual content through media and peers, relationships they're developing, emotions and insecurities that might make them vulnerable, and decisions they're facing about boundaries and standards.
Pray against spiritual attacks targeting their sexuality. The enemy wants to destroy their purity, distort their understanding of sexuality, and damage their future marriages. Your prayers build spiritual protection around them.
Your prayers matter even when your children are making poor choices. Continue praying faithfully, trusting that God hears and responds even when you don't see immediate results. Seeds planted through prayer often bear fruit years later.
Also pray for yourself as a parent: wisdom to teach about sexuality appropriately, courage to have difficult conversations, ability to model purity in your own life, and grace to respond well when they struggle or fail.
Prayer doesn't replace teaching, boundaries, and conversation, but it undergirds everything else you do. Never underestimate the power of a parent's prayers for their children's purity
*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
jesusjnr2020: Most tattooed man in Brazil Finds Jesus, Undergoes Painful Laser Removal
After finding Christ❤️ Leandro de Souza is a Brazilian man who gained fame as the "most tattooed man in Brazil," covering 95% of his body with ink, but is now undergoing painful, extensive laser removal after finding evangelical Christian faith and wanting his outside to reflect his inner transformation
helinues: A religion that won't allow you to make some personal decisions based on the event you are personally experiencing can be regarded as cult.
Free will is restricted in religion. Don't do this, don't do that , don't do those when we are not living in stone age
Yep, God gives commandments because He created us, loves us and He wants what is best for us.
For instance, do you know why a Car or plane manufacturer would design an instruction manual for its product? Its because:
1) They were the ones who created it. 2) They want what is best for the car. 3) And care about its safety and the driver at large.
So why does God give commandments? because He cares for you.
The bible says "Flee from sexual immorality." - 1 Corinthians 6:18a.
Think about it, if a man disobeys this instruction, and he's infected with a terminal disease, will he not suffer the consequences?
So because God loves you, He chose to give you His instruction.
He even went as far as to give us Eternal Life. Although this costed him dearly,
But He gave it freely for you, nonetheless, if you will accept.
John 3:15-16 KJV That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. [16] For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
jesusjnr2020: How Christianity Brainwashed Me So Much
Christianity has brainwashed me so much that I used to be a habitual thief but now i steal no more.
Christianity has brainwashed me so much that I'm no longer the cheat I used to be.
Christianity has brainwashed me so much I stopped watching porn.
Christianity has brainwashed me so much I am no longer addicted to masturbation.
Christianity has brainwashed me so much I now find it easier to pray for my enemies and to forgive those who offended me as Christ taught us.
Christianity has brainwashed me so much that I was a sinner and heading for eternal destruction in hell fire, but now I am living a life of righteousness and walking the narrow path that leads to eternal life in heaven.
Christianity is such a brainwashing tool, it washed my brain of all the filth of foolishness and ignorance, but filled it with wisdom and knowledge of the truth that has set me free so now I'm free indeed.
This kind of brainwashing that Christianity has given me has been very good for my life, in fact I need more of its brainwashing in my life.
CyynthiaKiss: Nobody is against immigration, but illegal means is what is destroying countries, after all most Ist world countries were built by immigrants .. As if that is not enough, some of those immigrants always move around with their bad behaviour, telling people they met on ground how they should live their life .. Isn’t that madness ? Any migrant that came to Europe through visa will never misbehave, because of the stress involves in getting visa..
In Uk for example, immigrants from Pakistan, Iran , Iraq other Islamic countries have taken it upon themselves to be misbehaving , and be imposing their useless ideology on people, the same ideology that made you to flee your country .These are people that came illegally, and Uk government gave them an asylum on humanitarian basis,only to turn around and start behaving like senseless people they are with their useless behaviour.. They are the ones giving good immigrants in Europe bad names. The unfortunate part of their behaviour is that when the wave of anti immigrantion policy comes, it will sweep everyone both good and bad immigrants..
This is not even actually all about immigration, it’s an Islamic radicalism that is prevalent among Muslim migrants..
They should integrate with the society they found themselves in, and stop this Islamic nonsense or they should go home !
givedemwotowoto: Tech billionaire Elon Musk expressed agreement with President Trump’s warning to Europe end illegal migration else it will destroy them, delivered at the United Nations in September 2025.
Tinubu Doesn’t Need Nigerians' Votes to Win — He Needs INEC and Judges, Odinkalu Says
Nigeria’s political space has erupted after a respected rights advocate, Professor Chidi Odinkalu made a blistering claim: President Bola Tinubu does not need the votes of Nigerians to hold power. Instead, he argues, he needs just INEC and judges to win elections in Nigeria.
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; disrespectful language toward women generally; and a pattern of uncomfortable behaviour that multiple people have experienced with the same person.