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PropertiesRe: President Tinubu To Launch Abuja’s ₦2.4 Trillion “city Walk” Gateway Megaproject by DextrousD: 2:14pm On Jul 14
Please just give 24/7 ELECTRICITY.
Christianity EtcRe: Ex-Muslim Habibat Salawudeen Completes 144-Hour Bible Reading GWR Attempt by DextrousD: 9:55am On Jul 13
jesusjnr2020:
Ex-Muslim Habibat Completes 144-hour Bible Reading Guinness World Record Attempt

After six straight days of reading the Holy Bible aloud, Habibat Salawudeen completed her 144-hour Guinness World Record bid for the longest Holy Bible reading marathon.

Habibat, who hails from Kogi state, used to be a Muslim until her conversion to Christianity a few years back.

She said, her real goal it is not just about breaking the GWR, but to inspire people around the world to read the Bible.

She also said she had been mentally, physically preparing for the marathon for four years now.

Her Guinness World Record Attempt which took place in Port Harcourt, began on June 22 and was concluded on June 29.

Watch video:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5BGVlUrcki0?si=9PXz6xwzv09WIACp
She is delighted to have seen the Light .

Oh Yes!

Glory to Eternal King Jesus 👑
Christianity EtcRe: 100 Of Some Of The Miracles And Deeds Of Jesus by DextrousD: 4:23pm On Jul 12
Godspowerpro:
(NO ONE EVER LIKE HIM):

Psalm 150:6 KJV‬
[6] Let every thing that hath breath Praise the LORD. Praise ye the LORD
GODSPOWERPROJECT


HEALINGS
1. Healed a deaf and mute man – Mark 7:31–37
2. Healed the nobleman's son – John 4:46–54
3. Cast out an unclean spirit in the synagogue – Mark 1:23–26
4. Healed Simon Peter's mother-in-law – Mark 1:29–31
5. Healed many sick at Capernaum – Matthew 8:16
6. Cleansed a man with leprosy – Matthew 8:2–3
7. Healed the centurion's servant – Matthew 8:5–13
8. Healed a paralytic lowered through the roof – Mark 2:1–12
9. Healed the man with a withered hand – Mark 3:1–5
10. Raised the widow's son at Nain – Luke 7:11–15
11. Healed a woman with an issue of blood – Mark 5:25–34
12. Raised Jairus' daughter – Mark 5:35–43
13. Restored sight to two blind men – Matthew 9:27–30
14. Healed a demon-possessed mute – Matthew 9:32–33
15. Restored a crippled man at the Pool of Bethesda – John 5:1–9
16. Healed a man possessed by many demons (Legion) – Mark 5:1–20
17. Healed the Syrophoenician woman's daughter – Mark 7:24–30
18. Turned water into wine – John 2:1–11
19. Restored sight to a blind man at Bethsaida – Mark 8:22–25
20. Delivered a boy possessed by an evil spirit – Mark 9:17–27
21. Restored sight to a man born blind – John 9:1–7
22. Healed a crippled woman bent over for 18 years – Luke 13:10–13
23. Healed a man with dropsy – Luke 14:1–4
24. Cleansed ten lepers – Luke 17:11–19
25. Restored sight to blind Bartimaeus – Mark 10:46–52
26. Restored the ear of Malchus – Luke 22:50–51
27. Healed another blind man near Jericho – Luke 18:35–43
28. Healed another blind man in Galilee – Matthew 12:22
29. Healed many who touched His garment – Mark 6:56
30. Healed all who came to Him – Matthew 12:15

MIRACLES OVER NATURE
31. Calmed the storm – Mark 4:35–41
32. Walked on water – Matthew 14:25–33
33. Fed the five thousand – Matthew 14:13–21
34. Fed the four thousand – Matthew 15:32–38
35. Miraculous catch of fish (first time) – Luke 5:1–11
36. Miraculous catch of fish after resurrection – John 21:1–11
37. Cursed the barren fig tree – Mark 11:12–14
38. Caused the fig tree to wither – Mark 11:20–21
39. Coin found in a fish's mouth – Matthew 17:24–27
40. Multiplied loaves and fishes – John 6:5–13

RAISING THE DEAD
41. Raised Jairus' daughter – Luke 8:49–55
42. Raised the widow's son – Luke 7:11–15
43. Raised Lazarus from the dead – John 11:38–44

CASTING OUT DEMONS
44. Delivered a man in the synagogue – Mark 1:23–26
45. Delivered two demon-possessed men – Matthew 8:28–32
46. Delivered the Gerasene demoniac – Luke 8:26–39
47. Cast a demon out of a mute man – Matthew 9:32–33
48. Delivered a blind and mute demoniac – Matthew 12:22
49. Delivered the Syrophoenician woman's daughter – Matthew 15:21–28
50. Delivered the epileptic boy – Matthew 17:14–18

ACTS OF COMPASSION
51. Forgave the sins of the paralytic – Mark 2:5
52. Forgave the sinful woman – Luke 7:48
53. Defended the woman caught in adultery – John 8:3–11
54. Blessed little children – Mark 10:13–16
55. Wept with Mary and Martha – John 11:35
56. Called Zacchaeus to salvation – Luke 19:1–10
57. Invited Matthew the tax collector – Matthew 9:9
58. Restored Peter after his denial – John 21:15–17
59. Prayed for His disciples – John 17:1–26
60. Prayed for His executioners – Luke 23:34

TEACHING THROUGH ACTION
61. Was baptized to fulfill righteousness – Matthew 3:13–17
62. Resisted Satan's temptations – Matthew 4:1–11
63. Called the first disciples – Matthew 4:18–22
64. Chose the twelve apostles – Luke 6:12–16
65. Was transfigured – Matthew 17:1–8
66. Was acknowledged by the Father at His baptism – Matthew 3:17
67. Was acknowledged by the Father at the Transfiguration – Matthew 17:5
68. Was anointed at Bethany – John 12:1–8
69. Entered Jerusalem triumphantly – Matthew 21:1–11
70. Cleansed the Temple (first time) – John 2:13–17

AUTHORITY AND SERVICE
71. Cleansed the Temple (second time) – Matthew 21:12–13
72. Washed the disciples' feet – John 13:4–15
73. Instituted the Lord's Supper – Luke 22:19–20
74. Predicted Peter's denial – Luke 22:31–34
75. Predicted His own death and resurrection – Matthew 16:21
76. Predicted the destruction of the Temple – Matthew 24:1–2
77. Sent out the Twelve – Matthew 10:5–8
78. Sent out the Seventy-two – Luke 10:1
79. Gave the Great Commission – Matthew 28:18–20
80. Ascended into heaven – Acts 1:9

SIGNS OF DIVINE AUTHORITY
81. Declared Himself the Bread of Life – John 6:35
82. Declared Himself the Light of the World – John 8:12
83. Declared Himself the Good Shepherd – John 10:11
84. Declared Himself the Resurrection and the Life – John 11:25
85. Declared Himself the Way, the Truth, and the Life – John 14:6
86. Declared Himself the True Vine – John 15:5
87. Declared Himself the Door of the Sheep – John 10:9
88. Declared Himself the Alpha and Omega – Revelation 22:13
89. Declared all authority belongs to Him – Matthew 28:18
90. Promised the Holy Spirit – John 14:16–17

HIS SACRIFICIAL WORK
91. Prayed in Gethsemane – Matthew 26:36–46
92. Submitted to arrest without resistance – John 18:4–8
93. Bore the cross – John 19:17
94. Was crucified for humanity's sins – Luke 23:33
95. Forgave the repentant thief – Luke 23:42–43
96. Declared "It is finished" – John 19:30
97. Rose from the dead – Matthew 28:5–6
98. Appeared to Mary Magdalene – John 20:11–18
99. Appeared to Thomas and removed his doubt – John 20:24–29
100. Appeared to over 500 believers after His resurrection – 1 Corinthians 15:6


Jesus is Lord
Jesus is LORD 👑
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 9 by DextrousD: 5:04pm On Jul 11
Bigbabyy0:
Biometrics 1 June - priority
Ukvi interview- 09 June
Additional documentation- 09 June ( 2 hours after interview and sent same day)
Visa Approval: 10th July 2026


Do you know my El-roi
Thanks to everyone…I trust God
Always believe in God… he will show you mercy

My second attempt 👌 1st attempt was delayed and withdrawn
Second one ..God did
Hallelujah, congratulations!

I've been waiting to hear good news from you.

Glory to King Jesus👑🔥🔥❤️
EducationRe: Three Nigerian Students Win Gold At International STEM Olympiad In Rome by DextrousD: 8:55pm On Jul 07
RomanceRe: I Don’t Feel Butterflies In My Stomach Anymore! by DextrousD: 8:12pm On Jul 06
Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?
Bro.. Jesus is coming soon o.

God does not like sin oooo.

He will forgive you today, if you repent.🙏🏼
Car TalkRe: Passing Water Tanker Saves Mercedes-Benz SUV from Total Destruction In Enugu by DextrousD: 10:54am On Jul 01
Lovelink1991:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HlpEuLMGLnM?si=k1Hzz0PcDcGl6Elt

A man was lucky to see firefighters who he never expected came to help him put out his burning car in Enugu.

It was burning very terribly to an extent that everybody was screaming when the firefighters coincidentally came in.




God is wonderful, at the very right time!
Christianity EtcRe: Faith On The World Stage: World Cup Players Are Boldly Proclaiming Christ by DextrousD: 7:55pm On Jun 21
FamilyRe: The Marriage Secret I Learned The Hard Way by DextrousD: 5:27pm On Jun 15
Kingpele:
The devil have taken over most marriages in Nigeria...greed and selfishness is never the plan of God for marriage...rather two people comes together to make a home, sweating it together to rise a godly children....marriage suppose to be sweet for couples who are truly committed to eachother...I have been married for more than 15 years ,my wife have never disrespected me whether I fail into hard times and not ...the important thing is for husband and wife to know that they are now bound together as one body and work hard or help eachother develop and reach their full potentials ...that's love ... that commitment....money is a means to an end but not the ultimate goal of woman who is raised in a good home
This is the best answer on this thread
Christianity EtcRe: What Does It Mean To Be Seated Together With Christ? by DextrousD: 8:44pm On Jun 14
h777:
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE SEATED TOGETHER WITH CHRIST?

The scripture says:

«"For HE raised us from the dead along with CHRIST and seated us with HIM in the heavenly realms because we are united with CHRIST JESUS." (Ephesians 2:6, NLT)»

This is one of the most profound revelations concerning the believer's identity and position in CHRIST. It reveals that through our union with CHRIST, GOD ALMIGHTIEST has given us a place with HIS SON in the heavenly realms.

The believer is not merely a forgiven sinner waiting for heaven. The believer has already been raised with CHRIST and seated with HIM in the heavenly realms. This is a present spiritual reality.

The key to understanding this verse is the phrase, "because we are united with CHRIST JESUS." Everything that belongs to CHRIST has become accessible to those who are in HIM. HIS death became our death. HIS resurrection became our resurrection. HIS exaltation became our exaltation.

When CHRIST died, our old life under sin was brought to an end in HIM.

When CHRIST rose from the dead, we received new life in HIM.

When CHRIST was seated in the heavenly realms, we were given a place in HIM.

To be seated with CHRIST means that we now share in the privileges of our union with HIM. We have been brought into fellowship with GOD ALMIGHTIEST. We have been accepted in CHRIST. We have access to the FATHER through HIM.

It also speaks of authority. CHRIST is seated far above every ruler, authority, power, and dominion. Because we are united with HIM, we participate in HIS victory over sin, death, and the powers of darkness. We do not stand before GOD ALMIGHTIEST as defeated people, but as those who are joined to the victorious CHRIST.

This seating also speaks of rest. CHRIST completed the work of redemption and took HIS seat in the heavenly realms. Therefore, the believer does not strive to earn acceptance before GOD ALMIGHTIEST. Our confidence rests in what CHRIST has already accomplished.

Furthermore, being seated with CHRIST reveals our heavenly citizenship. Though we live on earth, our life is hidden with CHRIST in GOD. Our inheritance is heavenly, our hope is heavenly, and our destiny is secured in CHRIST.

Therefore, to be seated together with CHRIST means that through our union with HIM, GOD ALMIGHTIEST has given us a place in the heavenly realms. We share in CHRIST'S life, CHRIST'S victory, CHRIST'S authority, and CHRIST'S standing before the FATHER. Though we walk on earth, we belong to the heavenly realm, and our position in CHRIST is established forever.
Hallelujah somebody!!!!! Praise God!
EducationRe: Mothers Of 46 Kidnapped Oyo Schoolchildren Cry (video) by DextrousD: 9:33pm On May 17
goslowgoslow:
Let us see if kidnapping will stop when your Lord and Savior Atiku or Obi gets there. Regardless how do you who they voted. Always making senseless comment!
Is everything about politics to you?

Where is your humanity?

Are you sure you are still even a human being.
RomanceRe: My Heartbreak Is Beyond Reasonable Doubt by DextrousD: 1:01am On May 12
REPENT! JESUS IS COMING SOON!
FamilyRe: I Change Am For My Mama This Morning by DextrousD: 11:42am On May 05
JackDaAlienz:
There is a very annoying behavior my mother has.

She will send you messages like

Go to block b and collect xx from Sandra

That is it. She will keep mute

You ask her mummy any other thing, she will say NO

Then when you open door and you are 1 foot going out.
SHE WILL STOP YOU AND ADD ANOTHER INFORMATION LIKE TELL SANDRA BLA BLA

Then you stop and listen and say okay

Before you make another step
She will call you back and say 1 more thing

Today she did it this morning
And I changed it for her angry angry
Which kind nonesense behavior be this??

I told her if you want me to go pick something for you. Tell me all information at once.

Not when I'm going out you start calling me back to tell me additional information.
Bro... that's why she's your Mum oo.

You can't complain, enjoy your Mum while she's here.

Na to respect her like that.

Cos She won't be here forever.
TV/MoviesRe: If You Know About This You Are A Great Legend by DextrousD: 2:44pm On May 03
stan4b:
Marriage is not an achievement.

I watch many young guys, most my age, that have one or two children. I see how they struggle and toil day and night. Yet, almost nothing to show for it, children expenses, sometimes ungrateful wifes, make them look older than their age.

As for me, still in my mid 30s, will prolly settle down soon hopefully. But, if I'm to pick between settling down now, and be living like most of my friends, or wait a little longer and live the life i want, I'll gladly wait.

Then sometimes, one or two of them will call me and start complaining about finances, how i should help them or borrow them 20 or 40k. Me, I just give them what I know I can afford, cause I dont borrow people money, to avoid stories.

Most people think because I have a house I stay, and a car I drive, I'm automatically ready for marriage. But, I still have a little mile ahead to cross.
If you are practicing celibacy, your story is not bad.

But if you are committing fornication, that one no good o.

Happy Sunday bro
Christianity EtcRe: You Can't Be A Christian And Still Join In Pagan Traditions by DextrousD: 11:53pm On Apr 19
obonujoker:
Any Culture or tradition, that does not glorify God is already satanic and immoral.

As Christians, true children of God, we are to separate ourselves from such practices -
2 Corinthians 6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,


You cannot call yourself a Christian and you do Masquerade, you do Ifa, you do New yam festival, You do Amadioha , You do Ogun, you do Ojude Oba, You do Raping culture festivals... You may not attend but you sponsor and support with you money...

As a child of God, A Christian, going to church with Bible, you must choose one, whether you follow God or follow the traditions of men inspired by the devil and His agents. See what Apostle Paul wrote about his own-
Galatians 1:14 And profited in the Jews' religion above many my equals in mine own nation, being more exceedingly zealous of the traditions of my fathers.
1:15 But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother's womb, and called me by his grace,


God had to separate him from all those traditions.

Remember the day you accepted Jesus, is the Day you decide to follow Him and do the will of God. May the Lord help us

And if you are still blinded by traditions and Cultures, Remember none of them can connect you to God. Jesus has paid the final price. Anything outside Jesus Christ leads you to damnation.

May the Lord bless and save us. Amen
Very powerful and true, OP.

God bless!
Christianity EtcRe: Those Who Will Miss Heaven Will Cry. by DextrousD: 11:51pm On Apr 19
cutecommend:
The greatest doom a person can have is for his soul to leave his body and appear in eternity with a judgement of hell fire.

Missing heaven is the greatest heartbreak any human can experience. It is a hopeless situation in a hopeless end of hopelessness.

Do you know some people you know that died may be in hell fire? But you are still alive with the chance to repent and accept Jesus today.

Follow Jesus today and do your best not to miss heaven.
Thank you, OP.

I pray people's eyes and hearts are opened.
Christianity EtcRe: Defeating Death Like A Boss (picture) by DextrousD: 9:35pm On Apr 05
Interesting15:
Wisdom For Destiny Daily Devotional *(5th April 2026)*

by Sunday-Akanni M.

TOPIC: Defeating Death Like A Boss

Scripture: "He is not here; for He is risen, as He said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay." Matthew 28:6

*Message*

After Jesus was killed and placed in the tomb, there was great silence everywhere. When it seems hope is lost, joy was silently brewing, gently approaching, reaching its climax when the KING of Glory resurrected gloriously from the grave - nothing could hold Him bound in darkness!

Hallelujah! Jesus is risen! Hallelujah! Glory to God!

The strength of His resurrection is a display of the truth of His words, that in Him is Life. We can believe for sure that He is KING over all, including death. Death has been successfully tormenting and traumatising mankind for many years. But the strength of Jesus's resurrection humiliated death, stripped it of his powers, and rendered it disgraced.

In the strength of His resurrection, you, too, can humiliate death like a boss. You can forever enjoy eternal life that proceeds from God as you stay connected to Him in spirit and in truth, through faith in Jesus Christ. God is only interested in a relationship with mankind, possible through Jesus Christ. This is when life, the life God dispenses into your spirit, will keep empowering you to live the quality life He has ordained for you - a life that can't be hindered by sin, satan, death, sickness, poverty, etc.

As you are connected to Him, you become a dispenser of life, chasing death (both spiritual death and its other expressions) away from your space. In the strength of His resurrection, go and make Jesus proud!

*Prayers/Confessions*
In the Name of Jesus, whatever item of death lurking around my life and territory, is swallowed up by the power that raised Jesus from the death!

*Further Reading*
John 14:6
*1-year Bible Reading Plan*
Judges 15-17; Luke 9:18-36
Hallelujah somebody!!!
Christianity EtcRe: Prisoners Repenting And Giving Their Lives To Christ by DextrousD: 10:24pm On Mar 25
Kingsley34:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8J8yRg1aBkg&pp=ygUXUHJpc29uIHdvcnNoaXAgTmlnZXJpYSA%3D

This emotional video shows a powerful moment inside a Nigerian prison where inmates joined Christian missionaries in a deep session of praise and worship. What started as a simple visit quickly turned into a touching and unforgettable experience.

Many of the prisoners appeared emotional, reflective, and deeply moved during the worship session. This viral moment has sparked reactions across the internet, with many people shocked by what they saw.

Can people truly change no matter their past? This video raises important questions about transformation, second chances, and hope.
Watch till the end and share your thoughts.
Hallelujah! Only King Jesus can make you free!
FamilyRe: Interfaith Couple Who Are Fasting Together by DextrousD: 3:43pm On Mar 15
TooMuchStuff:
How could a spirit filled Christian married a Muslim

Even a Muslim girlfriend is a taboo let alone married

Na so confusion de take start. Mixed Multitude
Omo... boss, I no fit marry lady from another faith o
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Donates Laptops To School, Fulfills Promise To Students(Photos/Video by DextrousD: 11:44pm On Mar 13
TravelRe: Anti Japa Crew Vs The Japa Crew, Who Is Lying? by DextrousD: 1:56pm On Mar 12
Spainever:
This is false . People living abroad also have families in Nigeria . Insecurity affect everybody . People abroad also feel the heat because when a family member is kidnapped it can cause heart attack . Moreover a better Nigeria will reduce unnecessary pressure on them .
Are they holding Nigeria from progressing ?
Good response 👍🏼
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by DextrousD: 8:53pm On Mar 09
Release date
26 March 2027 (USA)

This month!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by DextrousD: 8:52pm On Mar 09
Release date
26 March 2027 (USA)

ANTICIPATE!

Christianity EtcRe: A Lady's Guide To Protecting Her Body From Sexual Abuse by DextrousD: 2:18pm On Mar 01
PurityOrNothing:
You were not made to be hunted. You were not fashioned to be taken advantage of, violated, or silenced. You were created with dignity, wrapped in worth, and clothed in a value that no person has the right to strip away. And yet, the reality of the world we live in demands that we speak honestly — because awareness is not fear. It is wisdom.


Sexual abuse does not only happen in dark alleys to careless women. It happens in homes, offices, schools, religious centers, and vehicles. It is committed most often not by strangers, but by people the victim already knows and trusts — relatives, colleagues, romantic partners, and spiritual leaders.

Understanding this is not meant to paralyse you. It is meant to wake you up.

Predators share predictable patterns. They look for vulnerability — someone isolated, emotionally wounded, or new to an environment. They test boundaries before crossing them, beginning with small inappropriate touches or comments to assess how much you will tolerate. They use trust as a weapon, spending weeks or months earning it before exploiting it. And they rely on your silence — your shame, your fear of not being believed, your reluctance to cause trouble.

One of your greatest tools of protection is your willingness to speak.

Beyond practical awareness, pray consistently for the gift of discernment. Many women have shared that something inside them *knew* — that there were warnings their spirit flagged that their minds reasoned away. Do not silence that inner voice. It is not rude to trust your instincts. It is wisdom.

Guard Your Gates

Every city of value in the ancient world had walls — not because the people inside were weak, but because what was inside was worth protecting. You are a city of great value. You need walls. Those walls are your boundaries.

Boundaries are not acts of hostility. They are acts of self-respect — and self-respect, rooted in the understanding that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), is entirely consistent with godly character.

You need boundaries across four key areas:

Physical — who is allowed to touch you, how, and in what context. Going alone to a private location with someone you do not deeply trust crosses a boundary before anyone else does anything wrong.

Emotional — protecting your heart from people who are working unusually hard to become your emotional anchor, creating dependency and obligation before their intentions are clear.

Digital — never sharing intimate images with anyone. Once an image leaves your hands, you lose all control over it permanently.

Verbal — shutting down conversations that drift toward sexual territory or inappropriate comments. You do not need to laugh politely. A calm, firm "I am not comfortable with that" is entirely sufficient.

Setting boundaries is difficult because women are often conditioned to be agreeable, to keep the peace, and to avoid being seen as difficult. But hear this clearly: anyone who responds with hostility simply because you enforced a personal boundary has just revealed exactly why that boundary was necessary.

Recognize the Red Flags

Danger rarely announces itself. It arrives wearing a smile — friendly, familiar, and convincing. Learning to read warning signals early gives you time and options.

Watch for the person who disregards small nos — how someone handles a minor refusal reveals everything about how they will handle an important one. Be cautious of anyone who moves unusually fast to build closeness or creates a sense of loyalty before trust has been genuinely earned. Notice when someone consistently steers you away from your friends and family — isolation is a predator's tool, not a sign of love.

Other red flags include: consistent boundary testing; guilt or obligation used as currency ("after everything I've done for you..."wink; disrespectful language toward women generally; and a pattern of uncomfortable behaviour that multiple people have experienced with the same person.

When the red flags are flying for someone you care about — a partner, a family member, a pastor you respect — it is tempting to rationalize. But your love for someone does not neutralize a threat they pose to you. Recognizing a red flag is not a betrayal. It is self-preservation.

Use Your Voice

Your voice is a weapon. It has stopped predators, protected the innocent, and brought the guilty to account more times than history can record. And yet it is the tool women are most often conditioned to set aside.

No is a complete sentence It does not require justification, apology, or negotiation. It does not become more valid when delivered loudly, nor less valid when delivered quietly. A person who responds to your no with pressure, guilt, or persistence is not having a conversation — they are attempting to defeat you.

When something happens in the moment — a comment, a touch, a look that lingers too long — name the behaviour directly: *"You just touched me without my permission."* Naming strips ambiguity from the act and puts the person on notice. Use bystanders when available. Exit confidently when necessary. You do not have to win the argument. Getting yourself out is always the victory.

And if something has already happened — report it when you are able. Not only for your own justice, but because the person who violated you has almost certainly done so before and will do so again if unchecked. Your voice, raised in formal report, may protect the next woman.

If you are not ready to report, that is okay. But tell someone — a trusted friend, a counsellor, a crisis line. Getting your experience out of isolation is itself an act of courage and a beginning of healing.

A Final Word

Whether this is preparation or reflection — whether you are reading this before anything has happened or long after — the truth remains the same:

You are not prey

You were made by a God who calls you by name, who sees every wound, grieves every violation, and is in the business of making beautiful things from broken ones. Nothing that has been done to your body changes your standing before Him. Nothing diminishes the worth He placed in you before you drew your first breath.

Walk in that dignity. Guard it. Teach it to every woman within your reach.

"She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future." — Proverbs 31:25
Thank you so much sir.

God bless
Christianity EtcRe: Scientists Confirm Biblical Earthquake At The Moment Of Jesus' Crucifixion by DextrousD: 11:44pm On Feb 27
Jesus is LORD
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 9 by DextrousD: 7:58pm On Feb 21
Daberechi376812:
I didn’t know the delay will be like this. This is too much for me God please don’t let me loose my faith. Have mercy on me.
Please do not loose your faith o.. All things work together for good, to those who love God ❤️
Christianity EtcRe: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by DextrousD: 5:26pm On Feb 14
PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *14th February 2026*

Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day

Scripture:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Thank you for this accurate message sir.

God bless
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Alaefulu:
So NL can be this cool and encouraging,am happy seeing comments of encouragement for the writer.even some ladies are even saying words of encouragement,thats nice oooo
Omo me sef shork... several nice and encouraging comments.

I hope Nairaland continues this way
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Testifies About Reconciliation With Ex-husband; Churchill Reacts by DextrousD: 6:29pm On Jan 26
Obviouslyblunt:
Going through the comments here, i’m terribly appalled by you Africans. If she is making genuine effort to make peace and turn a new leaf, may God give her the strength and continue to forgive her for her past misdeeds. I wish her happiness and everlasting peace and comfort.
Amen o, thank you
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shadrach77:
Human beings are funny. Nigerians most especially. When she was a bad girl people were complaining. Now that she has turned to a good girl the same people are still finding ways to bad mouth her. That tells you one thing, you can't please the world so just please yourself and your Maker cry
Omo... me sef tire o.

I thank King Jesus for her life jare.

Congratulations to her 🎊
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olusegunemmanuel:
NO FORGIVENESS AFTER DEATH

"And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:"
{Hebrews 9:27}

No prayers can save the dead;
No sacrifices can appease the dead;
No 'akara' distribution for eating
Can save the dead;
No seventy virgins for the dead:
Heaven is not some sort of brothel
Where carnal sexuality is...
What is the basis of the faith
Whose founder has no power
Over death and the grave?
My brother, thank you, only Jesus has power over the grave and death o
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