Lol, these ones no even Sabi act, the woman gan sef no try, married woman go nack you wetin no good, which one be she be married woman, even smaller girl sef no dey use that line, dem no try
Whonogo: Just call some area boys let them offload the goods. Afterwards, they will push (bounce) the mini truck back to the road. Load the goods back. Compensate them with small cash, thank them and be more careful next time!
DickenClarq: Is it your husband responsibility for you to look good?
He is already feeding and housing both you and the children Madam.
The same way you spent on yourself when you were still single and attracted him, you can still do that as his wife.
YES! He can decide to surprise you with gifts e.g New hair, make-up, fancy dresses, jewelries etc once in awhile but if he don't get you those stuffs, better get a job and get them for yourself.
Kalatium: One of the most confusing things about relationships is this:
Someone who barely made an effort while you were together suddenly becomes thoughtful after the relationship ends.They never remembered your birthday before, but now they are the first to wish you well. They rarely checked on you before, but now they want to know how you are doing.
Naturally, you begin to wonder:
"Why couldn't they be like this when we were together?"
The truth is, there isn't one answer.
Sometimes, losing a good partner forces people to confront their shortcomings. Regret can be a powerful teacher. They genuinely reflect, mature, and become more emotionally aware. People do change.
Other times, what looks like change is something else entirely.
It may be loneliness or it may be guilt. It may be curiosity about whether you've moved on. It may even be the realization that finding another partner with your qualities is harder than they expected.
A kind message or a birthday greeting, by itself, is not proof of personal growth.
Real change is not measured by one emotional moment. It is measured by consistent behavior over time.
This is why it is important not to confuse attention with transformation. If someone truly changed, you won't have to guess. Their actions will remain consistent long after the emotions settle.
At the same time, avoid assuming every ex who reaches out has bad intentions. Human emotions are complex. Some people genuinely regret their mistakes. Others simply miss the familiarity of the relationship.
The wiser approach is neither blind skepticism nor blind optimism.
Observe. Take your time. Let patterns speak louder than promises.
People can change, but genuine transformation is demonstrated through sustained actions, not occasional gestures.
What do you think? Have you ever seen someone become a better partner only after the relationship ended? Or do you believe most people simply reveal who they have always been?
Maybe they have tried, but they see say, nothing dey outside
There's this question I want to ask. Please can a woman choose a man whom she want to marry? Because there was a time I kept chasing my ex and she told me that I shouldn't pressure her,that shes the one who has the power to choose but I think she was wrong. From my own perspective so far,I think and believe it's a man who has the ability to choose the kind of woman he wants to settle down with and the time to do so.
So ,my brethren,what do you think about it ? Does a woman has the ability to choose the kind of man she wants to settle down with?
Yeas women can choose who to marry, my wife today. Choose someone that's already ready to pay her dowry, and do a wedding. Mind you, I was still a barber apprentice, bro no dime sef for house rent, then I was squatting with my aunt and her husband. She told me and I was like, well you can go. But she said no, and choose to stay with me. So yes, women can also choose who to marry. But it all depends on the family,
Stephen0mozzy: That you can see a soulmate. Just dey play. There's no soul mate anywhere.
There's no man for every woman. There's no woman for every man.
Love is work, and you must swallow your ojukokoro pride if you want to enjoy the beauty of love while using patience not to run mad by the challenges love poses too.
Yes, it takes team work for anything to work fine, even where you work, it's all about collective effort. My brother, if you see that one person, that makes you smile.. abeg try to put in effort for una to keep the smile going on
Dtruthspeaker: That women are good and that they love. Meanwhile, when a girl looses her vee, God, Love and everything that is good, goes and the girl becomes a Ash.
Another Lie is that an OS can Love.
Another lie is that good guys win the girl. Meanwhile in real eyeity it is the bad guy who wins and the good guy over loses Big Time. Only to now see that in real eyeity girls actually flee from good guys and even hate them.
Then another lie is when they make it look like women love and need faithful guys whereas, real eyeity shows that it is the badt guys they love.
Another lie is that women love sex soooo much, even nearly more than money and that maybe the man would run away from their sex meanwhile in real eyeity, women get easily tired from sex and they cannot wait for it to be over. And this is where you see that they are actually happy with 2minutes men and it is only because they hate men is why they shoot men with it.
Ehen, another semi lie is that women love looond Di....s. Whereas, in real eyeity they like all di....s and do not discriminate against any tool even the biro cover guy. (Remember, she also bleeps women happily so how can she complain about a guy with a Klyto?
Let me stop here i see say na only me dey talk.
When a lady loves you, na you go run from sex. Some of you here haven't found the right one, or some of you are just forming what I don't know. Who told you women don't like sex, why are they more women doing OS than MEN, abi you think say na only women be OS
blamingthedevil: Students jubilating for receiving their Stipends. I just don't know why opposition will go against this noble thing. Our students are studying now without any disruption yet people who claim they want to rule this country are angry.
Students jubilating for receiving their Stipends. I just don't know why opposition will go against this noble thing. Our students are studying now without any disruption yet people who claim they want to rule this country are angry. pic.twitter.com/0EMsTOxxrG
oz4real83: Low quality education in Nigeria is the reason for your not seeing groundnut leaves till 19 years old, despite doing agricultural science in primary school and secondary school 💔😡. Groundnut, beans are very popular specimen in schools. Education in Nigeria is more of theory than practical, it is only in Nigeria a graduate of computer science will register with roadside computer schools in order to get practical knowledge of computer science 💔💔💔
WhiteIverson: Same way if you go to your browser and search "fat person", it brings up images of MEN but if you search "plus size person", it brings up images of WOMEN.
And we are meant to believe that there's no gender BIAS.
[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140145303]Lady says relationship ended after discovering boyfriend was a vulcaniser
A lady has stirred reactions on social media after revealing that she ended her relationship upon discovering that the man she was dating was a vulcaniser.Men's Interests
In a video circulating online, she claimed the man had opened a container shop for her without initially disclosing his occupation.
According to her, she later found out he was a vulcaniser and decided she could not continue the relationship because she was unwilling to settle for less.
She added that following her decision, the man asked his associates to retrieve the container shop he had set up for her.
Speaking in Yoruba, she said …
“The person I am dating opened a container shop for me but I didn’t know he is a Vulcanizer, and I can’t dates a vulcanizer, so he asked his people to come and carry the container he opened for me”
“The person I am dating opened a container shop for me but I didn’t know he is a Vulcanizer, and I can’t dates a vulcanizer, so he asked his people to come and carry the container he opened for me”
, the people are only pushing the container to another location, the owner of the container does not know the girl ooo, she's just saying that to catch cruise, lol
[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140145303]Lady says relationship ended after discovering boyfriend was a vulcaniser
A lady has stirred reactions on social media after revealing that she ended her relationship upon discovering that the man she was dating was a vulcaniser.Men's Interests
In a video circulating online, she claimed the man had opened a container shop for her without initially disclosing his occupation.
According to her, she later found out he was a vulcaniser and decided she could not continue the relationship because she was unwilling to settle for less.
She added that following her decision, the man asked his associates to retrieve the container shop he had set up for her.
Speaking in Yoruba, she said …
“The person I am dating opened a container shop for me but I didn’t know he is a Vulcanizer, and I can’t dates a vulcanizer, so he asked his people to come and carry the container he opened for me”
obacasmir: You need to ask for wisdom... You mean ancelotti should terminate his contract with Brazil because of Italy?
Pep has made it known he's taking a year break from football to be with his Family especially his wife, rest and travel.. That's the major reason he stepped down as city coach, do you want him to drop that plan because of coaching Italy?
What respect are you talking about here? You even said they don't command respect in other aspects of life? 😃. Like what exactly?
It's Italy who's not even showing respect because the world knows pep won't accept any job in the world right now regardless of the country or club.. Do some of you just comment for the sake of just writing?
Please think critically before you write o.
If only they read sports news from different places, and not only nairaland, they would have sense
Adeoye11: Woh at this point whatsoever your opinion is is true jare. Even if you say men are looking for marriage to make heaven , you are still right. I don have strength to be debunking any news from a person without experience.
Our fault is allowing women take the place of men in the world.
A lady has gone viral after making a controversial claim about why many men are eager to get married. According to her, men's obsession with marriage is largely driven by the desire for "free sex and a chef" at home.
Her remarks have sparked intense reactions across social media, with some agreeing, others strongly disagreeing, and many weighing in on the realities of modern relationships, marriage, and gender expectations.
Is her opinion rooted in reality, or is it an unfair stereotype? Watch the full story and join the conversation.