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Abdul Adam56: Shhh.Shut up,shes pregnant believe me, if i wil c her,i wil tel ha 2 keep d pregnant 4 u,u are a cheater u dnt luv her,dat is wat is happenin 4 people lik u,u wnt 2 use her nd dumped her?God catch u shege

NO bro, i dont cheat and i loved her so much, until now dat i'm feeling seriously betrayed

acidtalk: Call or send her a text.

If its not too late let her take all those pills dey swallow after the finishing shag*ging.

My worries for you is are you sure this lady doesn't have any sexual disease she plans on spreading (maybe as a revenge or something)? Just my concern.

She has been faithful to me. my only problem is why she didn't tell me, at least, so i could use protection since i had already told her that this is my fear. She said she felt that if she told me, i would have changed my mind.

she's my gf, she loves so much that i'm even scared of her... Actually when we started i didnt meet her a virgin, but she was my first and we've been faithful to each other since then. Right from the beginning, she sometimes would ask me not to use con.dom which i refuse and bacause of that i'm always afraid of getting intimate with her because i didn't want to have a child now, considering the fact that i just finished my NYSC last year and i'm not buoyant to that level yet. But i remember she once told me when i was serving that she can have a baby for me even then, but i begged her that it wasn't time yet that i didn't want to produce a child i wont be able to take care of and i dont want to impregnate a girl and deny her cos of the expenses involved. So we moved on like that, but after some time, when she discovered i was avoiding bleep, she moved out of the city where i was staying to stay with her sister, but as conji will have it, we talked and i explained to her the reason why i was always afraid of getting intimate since i've also heard that even con.dom can tear if care is not taken. Somehow she said she will come during her safe period. So she came and since i'm not the one calculating it for her, on our second period after she came back, she then asked me if i shot inside and i told her yes, then she started telling me that she thinks her safe period had elapsed (please note that she did not tell me this before d s.ex). I was wroth because to me it was as if after telling her what i feared the most, she now used it against me, and when i tried to tell her how i felt, she got angry and left without contacting me. Now i can't even ask her to know if she's pregnant or not. Pls fellow Nlanders i need your objective opinion about this matter as right now i think i've made up my mind that i cannot marry her since she could behave like that, but at the same time, i cant bear my child not knowing me (that is, if she is pregnant). Please i dont know what to do now, i need your advice. thanks so much.....
Please those sanctimonious people should please keep their opinions to themselves because the people i need here are adults that will reason and give their opinions irrespective of religion

@Cindy i commend u 4 bringing up dis topic. my take, almost evry1 here hs a fbk account whr dey revealed demselves, so dis place is cool 4 anonymity. u may stil make som real friends here over time... bt d opportunity 2 express oneself freely is d luxury dat NL brings. side note: u can make dis more fun by adding a poll to it. let us vote!!!!