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Thanks for your opinion everyone...

Thanks all for your inputs...

Please my question is that, do you think masturbation is enough ground to divorce.



I am not seeking any further solution again...

Freestainworld:
I don't think your romance with her is very lively, you need to position a woman's brain in a way she will even be wetting before you touch her, how often do you talk silly with her? , how often do you play like couples and best friend? , you think it's a sin to do that? no my brother, she's your wife and you are free to explore yourselves.

Sir, you won't understand, we've crossed this line already. Trust me. I licked ice cream, suck breast, while talking dirty, she finds it annoying. Doctors couldn't examine her. She can't deep her fingers into her vaginal, claiming fears.



I left my first relationship cos I was getting addicted into sex. And when I met her, I decided to be free from sex till marriage.


The most annoying parts is that she's not seing it as a problem.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga you married a Log of wood

Please explain better?.

Righteousness89:


What does he mean by No!

He said it's a physical thing, not spiritual, though I didn't tell the pastor that she's masturbating cos I was not taking it serious until last week that I saw it on her phone.

Righteousness89:
I Don't Think so..

What She Needs is Prayers, Deliverance and Godly Counseling

I told her pastor this, he said no, . The pastor is a regional overseer of leading deliverance ministry in this country.

MajesticKris:
Hehehehe I laugh you in spanish..
Guess you're the type that GO TO THE PROMISE LAND WITHOUT pre-intimacy ..

She hasn't Gotten that vibe from you that will make her open up to u freely...

You have to explore her since you now know she likes being Touched....

She needs your touch not you Di,*k...

Make her feel you... Secondly she didn't commit any sin... You're the sinner here

Thanks for your feedback. I have done all this. She finds me giving her BJ irritating. She can't use her finger to touch vaginal herself. I don't think there's anywhere I haven't touched.

Nairaland people.


I have been married for a year past , I dated my wife for good 4 years without sex.


After our wedding, she was still refusing sex, anytime we tried, she will be closing up her pelvic. Tightening it up, we seek counsel from her pastor, her parents, everyone had meddled but all still remain the same. We went route of medicals, I spent so much on examination and surgery. After all this, all things is still same. I thought she was not sexually active or doesn't love me.


But on going through her browser, I discovered she had been watching pornography movies, to be sincere, she told me like 2-3 times into this marriage to have masturbated. I can't get my destiny affected if I venture into adultery. I don't want my generation habits to catch up with me.


Jesus only prescribed adultery as the only ground for divorce in Christian homes.

Do you think masturbation is adultery and it's a ground for me to send her packing?. Do I have any fault in this?. I am tired


Mod, please don't push to front page to avoid rodents. So sorry for my choice of words. Thanks