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which is why i'm moving out. he just did this last week, it's not like i've been putting up with him going out every night. but that's still too many nights. I moved in with him because i needed a place to stay for the month and i was going to move out march first but he convinced me to stay. now i see it's to use me

what do ya'll recommend?

I guess it's cuz were still new in the relationship that moving in together put a lot of stress. i know moving out is the right thing to do. i'm just tired of cleaning and cooking for him and if he's going to start talking to other people i'm done. but i have the movie tickets and his lame excuss was he must of held them for somebody cuz he didnt go to the movies and who would he go with, cuz i'm his girlfriend. like i'm just suppose to believe that crap!

I figured that. if i move out i think he'll see i'm serious. i dont need him and i can find someone that treats me better.

I have no proof that he went to the movies. but i also feels he's ready to move on. see he doesnt have a car right now so i know the only reason why i'm there is cuz he's using me. that's why i'm moving.

I know the signs are there and i have the proof. i'm not looking for anyone to tell me the stay cuz i'm moving out on the first. i'm just wanted to know how anyone else out there would handle this

Okay so here's the deal. 3 weeks after I started talking to my boyfriend, his ex-girfriend started poppin up. she kept telling me that he's been trying to get back with her and that they've been together or whatever. So every time I run into her or she starts stuff, he has an excuse or a reason for everything. He keeps saying he doesnt want to be with her and she's lying. we've been together for 7 months now. Every reason he's given me for the stuff she's been saying could of been the truth so i just gave him the benefit of the doubt. we moved and i told him i never want to see her again she needs to never know where he stays. we've been living together for a month now and now he's talking to different girls at his job on the phone when he's home. he claims they're his "fake sisters" who he's known forever but there's this one in particular who he's always talking too. his phone always rings and he looks at it and doesnt answer, he claims he doesnt feel like talking to people, which could be true, but all the time though anyways, friday he got home at 5am and the night before him got home at 4 am, claims he was hanging with the boys playing spades or whatever. sunday i decided to ask fo his phone and i start to look through his tex messages but i was stupid i shouldnt of asked him for it but it's always with him. anyways, the texts were saying "what are you doing later" or "I dont know you be creative" or other stuff like that so i questioned him and he started to try to take the phone. we got into a huge fight but we made up. last night i was doing laundry and found 2 movie tickets in his pocket for 12am dated the same day he got home at 5am. the signs are there, and i cant believe it. and i already planed on moving on the first into my own place cuz it's one full month free so i can make it 2 more weeks, but what do you think. I'm open to advise. because before i had like not real proof but now i do. it's pretty obvious he went to the movies with someone. but i know myself, i hold on to the good times because i like the good in people so i put with crap like this. we've only been together for 7 months on the 14th of this month. help!

Okay so here's the deal. 3 weeks after I started talking to my boyfriend, his ex-girfriend started poppin up. she kept telling me that he's been trying to get back with her and that they've been together or whatever. So every time I run into her or she starts stuff, he has an excuse or a reason for everything. He keeps saying he doesnt want to be with her and she's lying. we've been together for 7 months now. Every reason he's given me for the stuff she's been saying could of been the truth so i just gave him the benefit of the doubt. we moved and i told him i never want to see her again she needs to never know where he stays. we've been living together for a month now and now he's talking to different girls at his job on the phone when he's home. he claims they're his "fake sisters" who he's known forever but there's this one in particular who he's always talking too. his phone always rings and he looks at it and doesnt answer, he claims he doesnt feel like talking to people, which could be true, but all the time though anyways, friday he got home at 5am and the night before him got home at 4 am, claims he was hanging with the boys playing spades or whatever. sunday i decided to ask fo his phone and i start to look through his tex messages but i was stupid i shouldnt of asked him for it but it's always with him. anyways, the texts were saying "what are you doing later" or "I dont know you be creative" or other stuff like that so i questioned him and he started to try to take the phone. we got into a huge fight but we made up. last night i was doing laundry and found 2 movie tickets in his pocket for 12am dated the same day he got home at 5am. the signs are there, and i cant believe it. and i already planed on moving on the first into my own place cuz it's one full month free so i can make it 2 more weeks, but what do you think. I'm open to advise. because before i had like not real proof but now i do. it's pretty obvious he went to the movies with someone. but i know myself, i hold on to the good times because i like the good in people so i put with crap like this. we've only been together for 7 months on the 14th of this month. help!