@deli.

I know very well what I want. I jus needed to hear people's opinion to be sure of what I already know.

@enameye
I wasn't all out for jus sex from the onset. If u had read my initial post, u would've seen that.

@upendo
U r right. The issue is after i tell her all that, she comes back in two week asking in all over. Sometimes, out of pity for her i just want to give her attention and end up giving her more than just my ear

I guess i should just try to block any means of communication or correspondence with her cos I am not as bad a person as what I have done to this lady portrays me to be

I will stop the sex, but don't you think is kinda disrespectful to give her details to some other guy to 'do the job' ?

I agree that I have been wicked. Honestly i have told her severally that we should stop seeing each other. I even lied to her that I am seeing someone else but she wouldn't deter. Yesternite, she called and after conversing, she finished her talk with 'i love you'. I didn't give her the 'i love you' response she was hoping for. She cried after we hung up. I called her back to explain that I don't wanna deceive her by saying I still love her. She claims i haven't forgiven her for lying to me about bn in sch and that's why i am acting like i am. I told her the kind of love i have for her isn't the type she expects, but she claims not to understand. I tried to explain that we just can't end up together and its not a matter of forgiveness. then she says she'll never forgive me for not forgiving her.
Well, i just want her to move on without any hostility between us both, but if that can't be achieved then i guess we should move on the hard way. I know she won't call me to say she is pregnant cos her mom would literally die since she almost did when she found out her that her daughter wasn't in uni any longer.
I have done enough damage to this angel and i so want to stop cos I will NEVER bring her to my mom.
Should I stop calling/correspondence with her altogether?  And when she calls, do i ig her calls?

I am 25, just finished my youth corps program. I have two ladies in my life, ronke and sola. I met ronke in the university in 2007, she is 25 too, petite, beautiful, curvy and was a virgin when i met her. I loved her to my best but in my final year (2010), i learnt from a close friend that she had been withdrawn from school all the while i knew her though she never told me. When i asked her if it was true, she confirmed it, crying and saying that she didn't want to tell me cos she was too scared to loose me. Meanwhile, i actually wanted to break up with her before that unfortunate discovery cos I didn't see her as one I could marry and i didn't want to waste her time. Personally, i like people who speak fluently,are realists,and 'modern'. Ronke is neither of that. I thought i could change her but I guess I was wrong. She is a very good girl attitude-wise, but she is a little uncivilised. She used to do some funny things like spraying air-freshner on herself as a body spray. Yes!, she once did that. She has been begging me persistently to forgive her for not telling me about †нє school problem, but tbh, i don't want to be in a relationship with her again. This i have told her severally but she never gives up, i think its cos i deflowered her and as they say a girl would find it nearly impossible to leave †нє guy who was first to have sex wit her. I know i am inconsiderate in that i take advantage of her love for me and still have sex with her even tho i don't love her from my heart anymore, but she is still †нє only girl i have been sleeping with in all these years. I still sleep with her. She is in a polytechnic now and i send her money when she asks me and i go to visit her when i need sex.
The other lady, sola, is just 21. Just finished from university and is a very smart, hardworking lady in contrast to ronke who always says 'God will do this, God will do that' without taking much action. Sola hasn't exactly agreed to go out wit me even after a year that I have been asking her out, but we keep very close correspondence and i think its only a matter of time before she eventually comes around. She keeps asking me what i wanna do with my life and tells me everything from her daily activities to what she plans for †нє future. Her diligence motivates me and she fact that she is bold and intelligent turns me on. I know i will eventually get her but I don't know what to do about the other lady (ronke). Ronke loves me so much and wants to spend the rest of her life with me, but I don't want to marry her. I have tried to break up with her totally, but we still have sex cos she is so attractive and i don't have any other sexual partner.
How do I break up entirely with ronke so that both of us can move on with our lives ?

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Eh eh.

In the last few days,MTN have become far more than a headache to me. Having paid 3k for BIS, MTN still deduct my credit when I browse. This only started 2 days ago. Before that time,I never got charged for any data traffic, either mtn wap or internet explorer since I already pay for BIS. But with this new ugly development,my airtime credit has been abruptly deducted to a 0.00 balance twice in the last two days. Thursday, I had well above N200 as phone credit,I tried sending an SMS to another MTN phone that morning and the text didn't go through. I checked my account balance and found out that my balance was 0.00 naira. Thinking I might have made a call I forgot about,I recharged with N200 again yesterday. I made a call and had about N177 as balance. That N177 or so was again unexplicably deducted by MTN. I am so disgusted by this level of unfairness and unjust treatment by MTN. I am not under any contract or agreement that could justify these deductions from my MTN account. I am under the 'PayGo' plan and use BIS,which I duely paid N3,000 for. Called customer care and they said I was browsing from MTN wap instead of the internet explorer. Afterwards,I made sure I wasn't using mtn wap (not like I used it before) but I still got charged. I call customer care again and they say 'some websites route trough mtn wap by default'. This is crap to my ears cos its the same sites I used to visit when the going was good that I still visit. I think I should just write to the telecoms regulatory body cos these deductions are phoney. What d y'all think?

Sorry I didn't pick ur calls yesterday. Fone was on silent for most of the day. I will be available henceforth.

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Just got the BB Torch and want to sell my bold 2. Its just above 3 weeks old, used by a careful me,works perfectly no problems whatsoeva. With original 'follow come' charger. Looks VERY new.

Call 07058724018

NB: I am currently in Yobe state doing my NYSC so buyer may have to be in north or something.

Just got the BB Torch and want to sell my bold 2. Its just above 3 weeks old, used by a careful me,works perfectly no problems whatsoeva. With original 'follow come' charger. Looks VERY new.

Call 07058724018

NB: I am currently in Yobe state doing my NYSC so buyer may have to be in north or something.

Unbelievable,
No wonder wenger wasnt in a hurry to pay as much as the club requested.


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