Goodmorning nairalanders, this is my new post on this forum. I had always been a visitor on the forum, but I formally joined today because of this burning issue . There is this girl I met a month ago, she's an Ibo girl but born to yorubaland. we are in the same school, but different department... I actually started asking her out in the beginning of last semester, but she turned me down due to her claim that she has already had her bf..... However, due to some circumstances, her bf was rusticated from the school. I actually capitalize on this and I ignited my effort in convincing the girl to be my girlfriend. After successive Toasting, she called me one day and she frankly told me that she so much love his guy(the rustucated guy) and she can never be my gf..... she also said if she accept for me, it with just be a lip service as she won't be be devoted in the relationship. But I insisted she agree to date me first and with time she will develop the like feeling. To cut the story short, she accepted to date me. But since she has agreed for me, her actions showed clearly that she didn't love me. These are the reasons - she hasn't deemed it fit to call me a day. she always flash my number. secondly, anytime I went to see her in the hostel, I always attempted to touch her, she would tactically turned it down. And lastly, anytime I'm with her, she would always asking me 'anything for her'. She did asked me an amount of money a time and I gave it to her. since then all her actions are geared towards monetary demands. I have the money I could constantly give her, but I'm not yet convinced that she loves me. That's why I'm turning down her request. Due to this, I've decided to never call her phone number again. But this days, she has been making the calling herself. she is now giving me redundant attention which I had once craved for. but the point is I don't love her again. all her then actions have pissed me off. since she's giving me attention now, I don't want to break her out and I also don't want her again.