Goodmorning nairalanders, this is my new post on this forum. I had always been a visitor on the forum, but I formally joined today because of this burning issue . There is this girl I met a month ago, she's an Ibo girl but born to yorubaland. we are in the same school, but different department... I actually started asking her out in the beginning of last semester, but she turned me down due to her claim that she has already had her bf..... However, due to some circumstances, her bf was rusticated from the school. I actually capitalize on this and I ignited my effort in convincing the girl to be my girlfriend. After successive Toasting, she called me one day and she frankly told me that she so much love his guy(the rustucated guy) and she can never be my gf..... she also said if she accept for me, it with just be a lip service as she won't be be devoted in the relationship. But I insisted she agree to date me first and with time she will develop the like feeling. To cut the story short, she accepted to date me. But since she has agreed for me, her actions showed clearly that she didn't love me. These are the reasons - she hasn't deemed it fit to call me a day. she always flash my number. secondly, anytime I went to see her in the hostel, I always attempted to touch her, she would tactically turned it down. And lastly, anytime I'm with her, she would always asking me 'anything for her'. She did asked me an amount of money a time and I gave it to her. since then all her actions are geared towards monetary demands. I have the money I could constantly give her, but I'm not yet convinced that she loves me. That's why I'm turning down her request. Due to this, I've decided to never call her phone number again. But this days, she has been making the calling herself. she is now giving me redundant attention which I had once craved for. but the point is I don't love her again. all her then actions have pissed me off. since she's giving me attention now, I don't want to break her out and I also don't want her again.

If I am wooing a girl and she turns my proposal down,once I back off,no amount of her interest in me and attention will ever change my mind.

comshots:
If I am wooing a girl and she turns my proposal down,once I back off,no amount of her interest in me and attention will ever change my mind.

you're an alpha male just like me.... I don't beg to date

Guy I don't know what is your problem.
she told you plainly that she's not interested, she already love another person but you insisted, now she has finally have a reason to love you dearly... you now don't love her... Come, don't break her heart oh.

This is how you go about spoiling Igbo girls name.
First, you didn't tell us which tribe you're from but you clearly stated that she's Ibo.

Secondly, you are now trying to link her loving you is because of your money. Meanwhile, she told you, she isn't interested.

Finally, Everybody has different reasons for being loved. If yours happens to be financial assistance... please don't disappoint
maybe you're not easy on the eye or you're not rugged and adventurous or maybe you're an over good boi.

Never force someone to love.Dis is what happens when d other half is not so much in love.Go for someone who love you for real and you also have the same feeling for her.

You better stay on your lane. That lady is not worth the stress.
For me, i may pester a lady for some times but once I back off, it is final.
Don't be surprised that she is only calling you because she was not satisfied with the level of pain she was able to make you feel, hence she wants you to come back so she can have the opportunity to shatter your heart well.
I don't know why guys are always quick to pity women, but a woman would not care how you feel when she wants to dump a guy.

Move on guy.

Cant believe i read this crap

wait, she be America visa? abi y did u beg her to date u in the first instance?

Just like she laid d card down to u before u started u also so same, tell her dat before u were burning for her, but her attitude in the past has now put u off. so let her make her decision

she agreed to date you out of pity. Never beg a woman to date you.

you have done all your calculations and had put your thoughts in to action! What more could you want? advise?

It was quite early giving her money. So she saw you as her banker, probably that uscwhy she picked up interest in you. Good thing you don't love her cos you would have been in crises when she starts demanding and you are not able to met up to her demand. These day its so easy to fake love when you have a lot to benefit. Girls sha. Guy be wise, her next trick might be sex.

murphyibiam15:

you're an alpha male just like me.... I don't beg to date

Does shiit make one Alpha male? What's your definition of alpha male

I don't get it, she clearly told you that she loves her bf.

Someone tells you, don't put your hand in fire it will burn you, you said let me try which you did and you got burnt now you complaining to who?

Jman06:
You better stay on your lane. That lady is not worth the stress.
For me, i may pester a lady for some times but once I back off, it is final.
Don't be surprised that she is only calling you because she was not satisfied with the level of pain she was able to make you feel, hence she wants you to come back so she can have the opportunity to shatter your heart well.
I don't know why guys are always quick to pity women, but a woman would not care how you feel when she wants to dump a guy.

Move on guy.

Some women are Savages

OP, total craze dey ur head ni? Thunder fire you... you dey break man law. Dem swear for you, so? Ok, now dat she dey call you.. play along, pick her calls, fvck her and dump the living sh!t out of her... else Sango tear you spiritual slap.

lol, I think you should get back at her by taking that which u highly crave for and backoff afterwards, such attitude pisses me off, and to say that they will be the one to initiate the whole silly moves by brandishing silly green lights.
sorry I don't mean to sound bad, but no girl toils with my feeling, its quite expensive and she might get hurt real bad if she dares.
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Anyways back to ma business.
www .lucky class .ga is for sale, been too busy to manage it all this while.
buy and change my account No.There to urs to state raking in...
very very affordable

comshots:
If I am wooing a girl and she turns my proposal down,once I back off,no amount of her interest in me and attention will ever change my mind.

even if i ask for a lady number and she dey fill big... and done with her b dat

THUNDAR:
you have done all your calculations and had put your thoughts in to action! What more could you want? advise?

don't mind the montol of an op.

Forget her!

i see stupid people everywhere

comshots:
If I am wooing a girl and she turns my proposal down,once I back off,no amount of her interest in me and attention will ever change my mind.

brother say d truth na.......people like you chase women for years no success

tee59:
Never force someone to love.Dis is what happens when d other half is not so much in love.Go for someone who love you for real and you also have the same feeling for her.

......some girls who are reluctant to accept a guy may end up loving the guy dearly when they finally come close

Ogbenimax:
even if i ask for a lady number and she dey fill big... and done with her b dat

........o di egwu

I chase money not women.I am not a randy guy.

amakadihot87:
brother say d truth na.......people like you chase women for years no success

diplomacy77:
Goodmorning nairalanders, this is my new post on this forum. I had always been a visitor on the forum, but I formally joined today because of this burning issue . There is this girl I met a month ago, she's an Ibo girl but born to yorubaland. we are in the same school, but different department... I actually started asking her out in the beginning of last semester, but she turned me down due to her claim that she has already had her bf..... However, due to some circumstances, her bf was rusticated from the school. I actually capitalize on this and I ignited my effort in convincing the girl to be my girlfriend. After successive Toasting, she called me one day and she frankly told me that she so much love his guy(the rustucated guy) and she can never be my gf..... she also said if she accept for me, it with just be a lip service as she won't be be devoted in the relationship. But I insisted she agree to date me first and with time she will develop the like feeling. To cut the story short, she accepted to date me. But since she has agreed for me, her actions showed clearly that she didn't love me. These are the reasons - she hasn't deemed it fit to call me a day. she always flash my number. secondly, anytime I went to see her in the hostel, I always attempted to touch her, she would tactically turned it down. And lastly, anytime I'm with her, she would always asking me 'anything for her'. She did asked me an amount of money a time and I gave it to her. since then all her actions are geared towards monetary demands. I have the money I could constantly give her, but I'm not yet convinced that she loves me. That's why I'm turning down her request. Due to this, I've decided to never call her phone number again. But this days, she has been making the calling herself. she is now giving me redundant attention which I had once craved for. but the point is I don't love her again. all her then actions have pissed me off. since she's giving me attention now, I don't want to break her out and I also don't want her again.

You are a dumb ass. You don't want to break her ass when these evil bitches don't think twice before they do same. Abeg shift. Weak ass nigga

Why will u beg a girl to date u? That's humiliating.