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ya man. these guys are right, you should not pay to get published unless u r using a vanity publisher. a traditional publishing house would publish your books and pay you royalties which is a % on the number of sales. It is true that most of these traditional publishers do not accept unsolicited manuscripts but if u search hard enough you would find one. But please please avoid Publish America. they r based in Baltimore and would publish just about anything u send them, they make their money by asking u to BUY your own book at a discount !! When I lived in England I had my book published by them in 2004 and till date I have only made $1 . 12cents !! least I forget, they get u to sign a 7 year contract, so u can imagine how I feel. Y not try out Blacksands books , Cassava republic or farafina. they r all here in nIgeria and dont require agents. Good luck!! |
I think the question u should ask this boyfirend is, was his girlfriend and this guy already friends before she started dating ur friend , or did this best friend thing begin after she started dating ur friend? If theywere friends before she started dating ur friend , then that simply says he should get over his insecurities . Afterall she could have dated her best friend if she felt that way about him. Trust is important in every relationship. Pls give her the benefit of the doubt. I mean we all need friends, and some girls just prefer having men as friend. ![]() |
[/color]This is a questioned I have racked my head about and tried to find an answer to and still havent found one.My only explanation for it is pure lust and the fact that the culture permits men to be such a polygamous lot. Unfortunately, we women dont help matters because when we catch our husbands or boyfriends with other women, instead of facing teh man we face the woman instead! So i feel we women need to put our foot down harder so these guys woudl stop taking us for a ride. We have needs and get tempted too u know!! Okay o, no offence meant to all guys , there r soem good ones out there[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][color=#006600][img][/img] |
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I think the question u should ask this boyfirend is, was his girlfriend and this guy already friends before she started dating ur friend , or did this best friend thing begin after she started dating ur friend? If theywere friends before she started dating ur friend , then that simply says he should get over his insecurities . Afterall she could have dated her best friend if she felt that way about him. Trust is important in every relationship. Pls give her the benefit of the doubt. I mean we all need friends, and some girls just prefer having men as friend. 
