optimusprime2:

I carefully read your whole writeup, hence my whole quote... Firstly (Pardon me for being Blunt) I think you are quite a Naive, selfish and shallow woman who is insensitive to a man as delicate natured as your husband- for a start, I believe you are a christian, go and read the book of Proverbs chapter 31 vs 10-31 it should give you insight of the role of a good wife.
Many women pray for the kind of man you have as a husband, and here you are complaining about what you have... A wife is a friend, a partner, a buddie et al, apparently you have'nt carved out that Niche for your husband, because you have already viewed and tagged him as a weakling.
Secondly You lack the caring instinct of a mother; if you did, you would have known how to adjust your husband to fit your specs, with Love. Cant you see he is as a child to you? I wonder how you would care for kids with special needs with an attitude of insensitivity like this...
Thirdly, you are inconsiderate; Because you know that's how he is and yet you choose to exploit his shortcomings/weaknesses, then complain in the end- You should be ashamed of yourself.
Fourthly, You are the solitary lady- basically you love doing your thingys alone. It's unfortunate you married a man who values company and companionship, now in marriage, the definition of you is "Selfish" because all you lookout for is "You" ... sorry girl thats the picture I see.
Fifth, Your perspective of marriage is so shallow... And I have a deep pity for you because you still think marriage is post courtship, an indirect reflection of your psychological immaturity (Geez I'm really sorry for the bluntness but I just cant help it)
Sixth, You are just not romantic period.... (A wife beater would have suited you just fine)
If you think people will come and sympathize with you here on Nairaland for your woes and complaints on this matter, you are wrong, very wrong .... Go and analyse your shortcomings woman and fix up your marriage.
Overall I feel bad for your husband- it's really not his fault. He married a girl not a woman. (Sorry girl just being blunt)

Carolece:

I will never get married. Men are not capable to love.

El Guapo:

Carolece,are u lesbian?
.@el guapo,sayin dat she(carolece) won't get married does not make her a lesbian,i even admire her 4 being different(girls of tday tlk of gettin' married after ur first date).for mi i tink she's rite wen she said dat men are incapable of loving women(at least i'm not) oder dan deir relatives,d world is evolving n i will like to be a single dad,just me n my kids against d world(oh n some non lasting relationship wit women like carolece).

Carolece:

I will never get married. Men are not capable to love.

El Guapo:

Carolece,are u lesbian?
.@el guapo,sayin dat she(carolece) won't get married does not make her a lesbian,i even admire her 4 being different(girls of tday tlk of gettin' married after ur first date).for mi i tink she's rite wen she said dat men are incapable of loving women(at least i'm not) oder dan deir relatives,d world is evolving n i will like to be a single dad,just me n my kids against d world(oh n some non lasting relationship wit women like carolece).

Carolece:

I will never get married. Men are not capable to love.

El Guapo:

Carolece,are u lesbian?
.@el guapo,sayin dat she(carolece) won't get married does not make her a lesbian,i even admire her 4 being different(girls of tday tlk of gettin' married after ur first date).for mi i tink she's rite wen she said dat men are incapable of loving women(at least i'm not) oder dan deir relatives,d world is evolving n i will like to be a single dad,just me n my kids against d world(oh n some non lasting relationship wit women like carolece).