₦airaland Forum

jmoore: Tribal marriages face challenges too. The same principle can be applied in both.

We simply gave a brief answer to the question asked by the op.

DailyNews: The way and manner u guys reason and respond to comments isn't nice. I didn't said everyone must marry from his tribe or race, never. I didn't impose anyone to do so. I only pointed out some challenges based on my own experience...and u don't expect everyone to agree that inter-tribal or inter-racial marriage is best or worst.

Everyone has their opinion...I only aired my and advised readers to tread cautiously before deciding to marry from a different tribe or race.

And if we face reality, there are so many challenges that face inter-tribal and inter-racial marriages, ranging from:

1. Language
2. Culture
3. Tradition
4. Belief
5. Family values and norms
6. That natural flow one feels when dealing with someone from his/her tribe/race isn't always there...even though we may not know or may claim to be in love...its always hard.

Finally, in the Bible, Abraham advised his servant never to get a wife for Isaac from the foreign land where they sojourned. He advised his servant to pls go back to his relatives to find a wife for Isaac. That relative is in-line with tribe.

God knew y he didn't just used sand to mold a wife for Adam but He used His rib...someone that will be close to Adam. He could have used sand as well and mold a woman for Adam...but He didn't...He used Adam's rib...so that they can have some things in common.

My brother, I may end up marrying from other tribe...but before I can, I must make enquiries, both from God and from man. I won't just jump in cos I saw a beautiful woman I feel I love...marriage goes beyond the love u feel for a lady or a man u met...at the long run...its not only love that sustains marriage...ask married people.

jmoore: Before you condemn intertribal marriage you should prove that 100% of marriages of the same tribe are successful. Using 1 case study to generalize is very wrong.

ogugua88: I'll never understand how you wake up first thing in the morning to type textbooks. Lol.

Anyway, osondi owendi. Inter-tribal/inter-racial dating may not work for everyone, but for me, it's not enough to condemn it as there are plenty people in those relationships who swear they are the happiest couple on earth. You love who you love. Tribe and/or race/ethnicity will never be a factor for me, and I don't think it should be for others.

Big4wig: Click like if you think its good news

johnnyblakes: with their weak albino joystick,tah comot their make i see front jor

johnnyblakes: hw e take fuel my jet?

mimopel: Really nyce, bt nt surprised it's run in d vein of all october borns...dey re very creative nd reserved....keep it up nd keep urself, nt jst for her bt dia is a reward for u frm God!!!...nd d semi virign tin..wat does it mean??

specialguest: Maybe you are referring to the ' Americanised' Nigerian ladies i mean The ones busy keeping up with the kardashians. Lolz

On a brighter note it depends on the type of relationship you guys have. But there's definately a stage in every serious relationship where the welfare of the man becomes the woman's business. Remember i said 'serious relationship' not the type you meet Ekaette today and expect she has to cook and clean after you next week.

kreami diva: Lol. Sisters all taken! I'm not being boastful or anything,when i had my baby through c.s,i always felt miserable watching my mum and MIL serve my husband.one day,i when he got back,before any of the women could say anything,i was already in the kitchen preparing his food.it was painful,considering the kind of pain i was in at the moment but i felt relieved that day. Seriously,it's not a big deal.my mum still makes my dad's food so why wouldn't i

specialguest: I can only assume one thing from this write up, that lady A and lady B are Definately not Nigerians because a Nigerian lady has no issues cooking for her man. Afterall if i dont take care of him who will?

SniperInADiaper:

philfearon: Lol......bro,i joined Nairaland b4 u o..........
Anyway shaa,na wetin too much luv for barca dey cause...

SniperInADiaper: You would..

philfearon: This is the reason why i hate that Guardiola left us...
Pique,Busquets,Pedro,Jeffren,Thiago,Cuenca,Tello,Deulofeu,Muniesa et all....He gave them all their proper chances and the best possible game time they needed,and this guys wia all happy!
I remember a particular Championsleague Match where he fielded no First team starter,yet he Won 4-0....Guardiola had the Guts....Tito and Martino seem to be having many similarities==>They are both afraid...Thats why they stick with the already Proven ones...
Tito Lost us Thiago,its a fact! Martino also wants to Lost us Bartra too....
Thiago and Fabregas were blending very well last season,and all Tito needed do was play him in the Last 3matches! We had won the League already,but rather,Tito was Obsessed with 100points...What Guardiola usually do when we win the league with Games left,is to give the La Masia guys playing time...BUT TITO DIDNT! He Lost Us Thiago Alcantara! And Martino is following the same shoes! I wish Tello and Jonathan Dos Santos will not regret why they didnt leave Barca this season....Seriously,it pains me! Three games,still yet Sergi Roberto is yet to play! Hmmmmm...Make Barca no break my heart this season again!
WITH ALL MY HEART,I HATE ROSELL AND HIS COHORTS!

philfearon: And Why is Bartra still yet to be given chance for crying out Loud?
Pique Killed us Last season with his silly Lacklustre Performances 2ru out...He has started again this season! Why wont they just bench that Shakira sucked Out ish of a defender?
With the few games he played last season,Bartra was far more better than Pique...Why wont they just giv that Lad chance? Ain't he a La Masia graduate? Or do they want to put him in Thiago's shoe and then blame him for disloyalty later?

Yahoo1: man..dats the best comment so far.

I think Iniest &fab,creates more chance dan Xavi iniesta,but Xavi iniesta holds d ball more

ddippset: common man, let's be pragmatic. That effort to get the ball across was worth more than a million direct assists. Btw pls don't get me wrong, neymar was awesome in that game.

ddippset: a full game of football does not last for 85 minutes. It doesn't even last for 90 mins. It lasts for 90 mins plus injury time. Messi's extra extra extrA ordinary effort gave us 3 instead of 1 point. Any of the remaining 9 barcA players would have given up on that ball he crossed for the assist. MOM- messi.

ddippset: messi won us all 3 points. That assist for the 3rd goal was better than what anybody did the whole night.

jmoore: woman na woman. why not? Black, white, pink, green, yellow......

Johnpaul88: ^^^Pique did badly in the match? You just hate him that's all.
Except the last ten mins when the whole team collapsed and lost control of the match,
Pique was playing well and putting some timely tackles.

Your obvious hatred for him is getting ridiculous! It's clear ur mind is made up on him.