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daveP:
Ajibade is now how Ordega is. Smh. That was a wide net for heaven's sake. If that was a semifinal game is that how she'll waste it Ajibade is no longer a 90mins player abeg. Hope Randy sees this asap. I was hearing all their gist due to the speaker, from their bench. 😆

Gift Monday sabi abeg.

Bia Oga Dave, wetin carry Ordega enter nau biko stop am ooo, Ajibade no fit lace Franny boot biko

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
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Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

Bros I feel you, buh the devil is a liar,

My Advice is this, you wanted her to change for good, convert, a room and keep it out of bounds,

Make that same room your war Room, where only you can enter, write what you want, paste it on the wall of the room, every day, choose a more suitable time to spend there, read your Bible and pray, Asking God for the changes you need for her,

As an example, go and watch the movie War-room

Blueelf:
Bros, stick to football and defending Pinnick's mediocrity pkease

I am talking about Ryan Garcia, this one bring AJ

Bros check again you said Ryan gonna know that Boxing is not done on tiktok, That's why I ask if he is going to fight AJ??

Blueelf:
Next to hit the canvas before the entire world will be Ryan Garcia
He's gonna learn Boxing is not done on tiktok

He is AJ next opponent

Deltamani:
Anyway sha, I go still talk my own, the energy wha she put for her Sexuality too much, She alongside Chichi Igbo, if Uwak had focused more on her football and kept her Sex Life wahala on a low I believe she would have been rated one of our all time top 3 greatest striker/player now… One of the most Complete Striker Superfalcon ever had, Strong, Fast, Skillful and Deadly in Front of Goal.. A player who dribble past 5 players to Score goals isn’t just an Ordinary striker.. Infact she’s highly underrated because if they rate her with the level she played she would be counted among African All time greatest.

Anyway I will stil give her the Flowers 💐🥀 🌺 she deserves..!

What is her present occupation now

Did she went into coaching, Uwak, the name alone and female okocha, was always and additional tonic to watch our SF then, with those devil's we parade for mildfield, Stella and Co

TheSuperNerd:
Once Martinelli got that ball on the left wing channel, my head screamed "Cross it" as I sighted Gabby J attacking that gap in the box. And cross he did and viola, Arsenal are 2-0 up.

Saka remaining you ooo. 2 of the Front 3 have scored. You must score your own.

Danny boy, Pele ooo. 😂😂🤝🏻

That Saka too is a baby Assassin, the eyes for goal November here

daveP:
It's like he dey dream of always performing against them with all his life😂😂😂😂😂
Make he do that one for us at Afcon abeg. Like Tolufinest said, he's enjoying minutes than before and see the stats alone.

He should do abeg, he had been enjoying minutes for SE too

daveP:
I watched the winning goal.


He can't try that in SE shirt. He'll be closed down shapali. That's one thing about Africa footie. Vinga blocked his view and a teammate had to drag Vinga away. Before he made the burst in saka style and buried it. Those few seconds of pause and drag is what actually annoys us when he wears GWG. Glad he had a great game. It's not easy to be the deciding factor in a win against Madrid at home. It isn't.


9.3/10 is really top class.

Only it will be annoying and offer nothing once he plays against a caf team if he doesn't know how to adapt and go for the better option.

Anytime he heard Real Madrid, naso him thing go stand gidigbam 😁😁😁

Deltamani:
You can only pick two out of the six. Women’s edition. Who are you picking?

The first 2, Nkwocha and Akide,

The rest should goan sidon especially that Ajibada

cktheluckyman:
No you will rather debate with Chimamanda

She go finish Wale ooo

veekid:
yeah! That's Paz' son

He made good on his promise to join then, very determined Guy

Mafia ref

veekid:
Angela’s nephew joined the DEA

Paz son Right, that guy vexing ehn when Angela die, vivo carry gun want go gun Ghost down shall

old is episode 4 out yet??

Kog45:
I want you to get this cleared...Sunday Dare and Amaju Pinnick enjoyed the best relationship.Sunday Dare is a gentleman like Amaju Pinnick and he doesn’t go beyond his limit regarding football administration in Nigeria

Regarding Peseiro appointment he made it clearer to Pinnick that looked Nigeria deserved better coach and ministry is ready to assist financially but Pinnick said No and the two let it slide without any rancor.

OK Sir,
it is well, let it slide

Ihenzy:
Top talent to watch out for

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You watched it too, FIFA presido was so fit mehn, the Rwandan president tried too

Okocha was just busy firing shots into the net 🤣🤣🤣

humility33:
So in your opinion did well for our football?

Pinnick was only concerned abt himself and making inroads in africa and global football politics. With thr quagmire coaches he left for the eagles/falcons plus the man he eventually handover to and more..... he did below expectations

Oga humble,

I don't absolve him from blame when it gets to do with coaches appointment, he failed their,

As for management he tried there, even without the monthly allocation from sport ministry headed by Dalung,

he still performed well, or you want me to go back Memory Lane, with all the money budgeted for the then Nff by the Gej lead FG, tell me what happened in 2013 after we win the nations Cup

even during Vogts and Lergerback, tell me what you can make of them,

now look at pinnick led Nff, they practically source for all the monies they need, the one thing I was angry with him for, is Majority of the sponsdeals he signed were in Naira,

He then got to convert to dollars to pay bonuses and allowances, And you think it's easy

Kog45:
I thought CAF referred the letter to NFF and left for NFF to do the needful either through sports ministry then to ministry of education.In the 80s when opportunity like this surface there are pool of schools to choose.My school got this opportunity in the 80s and many schools enjoyed this invitational tournament.If NFF finds it difficult in picking school why not well funded education plus academy schools like TIA,KFA cuz this academy runs quality school curriculum.

Thank you sir ,

I can still remember one of those schools ripping naija in those days, usually they where picked as champions of the national competition, I.e, Champion of principal Cup, at nationals level, representing Nigerian in the CAF Cup,

That's is why I ask the question I asked, before he started spewing from his mouth, it's a straight forward question, is the BFF now in charge of schools football, just cos CAF wrote to them,

And being what it is, the time CAF wrote to them, they are not on good terms with the sport ministry, I stand to be corrected

thanks

TheSuperNerd:
Mister man Rest! Don't bother me with your usual pinnick dick-riding. Take it some other place other than my mentions. Gracias.

Seems sense had gone away from the head of yours,

Odaboo!!!!

daveP:
We can't even take Grassroot football seriously

Who do us this strong thing?


I'm sure this was sidelined due to "table of preference" situation. But that shows how financially inept these guys are. They can't even budget properly for stuff like this.


I can mention 6 schools, male and female in oyo state alone that can rep the country in football, basketball, etc. Yet!!! Or is the excuse the JSCE/SSCE?

We should point fingers to the right place something like Ysfon or the ministry of sport, the ministry is the one responsible for the grassroot development,

And I can name same for Lagos that can too,

TheSuperNerd:
@Emboldened... Well, it's because there have never been a time when Pinnick's name is dropped here that you ignore. You always have something defensive to utter whenever his name is dropped. It is well noticed by now and I am highly surprised you haven't noticed it yourself.


The point is this: CAF SFC going on currently was brought to the notice of the Pinnick-led NFF board last year. A communique sent to them but they ignored it. No interest shown at all. Finito.

defensive indeed,

you should had read my comment slowly, Then you will see what I was saying,

The Nff is responsible for the national football team, Word National football team,

While the Sport ministry is the one responsible for sport, and development in the country, Now the principal Cup, fall under the sport ministry, And it's being contested for by Secondary schools,

So which secondary school do you want the Nff to send to the CAF competition picking a representative would require time and resource, plus will it be for public or private schools

TheSuperNerd:
Please avoid me with any of the pre-written pinnick defence notes you have already. I don't have time for that.

CAF is overseeing the CAF African Schools Football Championship and work hand in hands with the various Football associations aligned with where the reps come from.


Are you aware Pinnick and the NFF were approached for this CAF Schools competition by CAF but they ignored it? They didn't acknowledge it.

So please and please spare me your "pro pinnick" stance. I am not anti-anyone. I just don't stand for incompetence and dodgy nonsense.

I don't understand why anytime I raise a point to long into, that involves him, you all term it defence of him,

Tell me, from where the same CAF get the ideas for schools sport from, The Both U14 and 15 boys and gals cup, played during their first term is from CAF right,

Sorry to quote you, I hope you feel well now

TheSuperNerd:
The CAF African Schools Football Championship is currently on and there are reps from South Africa, CIV, Algeria, DR Congo, Malawi, Uganda etc...

But no Nigeria!! I repeat no Nigeria!!!

Similar story with the Girls' category.

And I understand under Pinnick, this was mentioned but he and his board obviously made no plans for it.

Same old Nigeria.

There is the principal cup already, and the nff part would only covers govt schools, or is the Nff now in charge of school games

blaise26abj:
That’s because he is not worth it to them. Ronaldo with all his wahala at manutd , the fans never booed him . Many players have been booed by fans . He is not the first and won’t be the last

Loud am abeg

infact Soro -Soke!!!!!!!!!!!!

OVB123:
What has edo airway come to do with this? Why don't you mind your business.

Sorry Sir, Oga business

Danielnino00:
Go ahead

Which go ahead, Banji pls stop right dia, no go ahead ooo

maidaboi:
Dennis with an assist

The one he assisted in the first half, abi which one again

OneKinGuy:
Go for the Tecno Pop 7. It has an Helio A22 processor and it's better than the Unisoc SC9863A1 on the infinix. I didn't bother with the Nokia as the 3000mah battery is a red flag already.

Then you are missing, that same 3000mah, is like 6kmah, ask anyone that knows Nokia and their battery

Adedoyin27:
Everything abami eda sang against is still happening till today

No be lie, Fela of blessed memories

yarimo:
it belongs to fg not oyedepo father's property

indeed with that stupendous money for it

yarimo:
That is very commendable from the avaition ministry

Excuse me, the ones he had destroyed before, what had he done on those same space since

Mechanics, and food vendors had taken over, yet he is still destroying more, to what end

Do tell me, how much was spend on those fire trucks he commissioned

lovewins:
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