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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Marketers Are Wanted For A Short Time Project by Dobxy(m): 11:08am On Apr 14, 2010
People are interested, and i called the given number but it wazn't through, can you please tell us the nature of the work, we will like to hear from you as soon as possible.
ComputersInternet Browsing by Dobxy(op): 9:14pm On Mar 13, 2010
No matter how wise MTN is proving in Nigeria not to browse for free on our computer, we will always cut them unaware, another free browsing application is in town now.

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PropertiesGenuine Properties by Dobxy(op): 11:28am On Jan 18, 2010
Genuine Lands are available in various places like, Mowe - Ibafo, Agbado Ijoko Road, Onigbangba (Ewekoro Local Govt). These Lands are available for Investors who want to invest in Landed properties, they are available in Acres, Any number of acres available for investors.

Houses for sale @ Ogba, Alagbole Akute, Ikeja (Behind Alade Market), Maryland,

For more Information call
08020665983
08035174649
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Need A 15,000mt Of Palm Oil. by Dobxy(m): 11:35am On Jan 04, 2010
Ok, How do you want as am ready to have a deal with you, I want to know how soon you need it, wish to hear from you as soon as possible.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Need A Typist Urgently by Dobxy(m): 11:36am On Jan 01, 2010
Good, I just cam across this today, I live @ Ipaja-Ayobo, I will like to know if you have gotten someone for the jo and if not let me know as i will like to do it. Am a good typist. Wish to hear from you as soon as possible.

Regards,
0803 517 4649
RomanceRe: Why Do Good Girls Always Fall In Love With Bad Guys? by Dobxy(m): 1:21am On Nov 06, 2009
Honestly speaking, most girls do that out of ignorance,
most girls do that because of how we guys pretend when proposing,
most girls do that simply because they want to date some1 dat will protect them,
most girls do that for the sake of money, you know those guys dey get money, either by stealing or given to them by all these politicians as they are their instrument of destruction
EducationTuition Free Schools ? by Dobxy(op): 10:13pm On Oct 23, 2009
CareerTuition Free Schools by Dobxy(op): 4:04pm On Oct 19, 2009
It is known that tuition free schools are a developing area of education. When talking about tuition free, it is almost sure that they have public schools in mind. However, it is not always the situation.

There are many opportunities out there for eager students. What kind of opportunities? Well you can get schooling without the need for paying tuition if you know how to find it and know what you are looking for. This education can be ever better than the education that you get in a public school and is usually more personalized.

www.tuitionfreeschoolsedu..com
EducationTuition Free Schools by Dobxy(op): 3:57pm On Oct 19, 2009
It is known that tuition free schools are a developing area of education. When talking about tuition free, it is almost sure that they have public schools in mind. However, it is not always the situation. There are many opportunities out there for eager students. What kind of opportunities? Well you can get schooling without the need for paying tuition if you know how to find it and know what you are looking for. This education can be ever better than the education that you get in a public school and is usually more personalized.

www.tuitionfreeschoolsedu..com
EducationTuition Free Schools by Dobxy(op): 3:35pm On Oct 19, 2009
It is known that tuition free schools are a developing area of education. When talking about tuition free, it is almost sure that they have public schools in mind. However, it is not always the situation.
There are many opportunities out there for eager students. What kind of opportunities? Well you can get schooling without the need for paying tuition if you know how to find it and know what you are looking for. This education can be ever better than the education that you get in a public school and is usually more personalized.

www.tuitionfreeschoolsedu..com
BusinessInvestment Mentality by Dobxy(op): 6:10pm On Oct 11, 2009
Okay, maybe you can not get on the stock market and purchase a share of your own life insurance policy but what do you think makes a good investment? What kind of a return on investment are you looking for? You already know that you have to risk big to even stand a chance of earning big. The problem with that is the "risk"! I know you do not want to lose all your money but that is part of the risk.

Then another good question that you should answer for yourself is; what are you investing for? Most people in the market have to understand that an investment may take years and years to give any return on their investment. So are you hoping to make some money to put toward your retirement or just in case anything happens to you so your family will not be left high and dry without your income. What happens if you pass away and the market is in a down turn and your family can not get to the money without taking a substantial loss? I guess that can be one more big risk of investing. More investment mentality quotes available for you.

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Nairaland GeneralCan You Eat Gala With Akara (beans Cake) ? by Dobxy(op): 5:22pm On Oct 11, 2009
I never understand how this Ibadan (IWO ROAD) hawkers used to behave, can you imagine when i was in a Bus going to Ilorin on Friday something funny happened. I was eating Gala and suddenly a lady came and introduced to me that she was selling Akara (Beans Cake). Then i told her that can she see that am eating Gala so there is now i will eat both together. The woman replied with seriousness that i can eat Gala with Akara, and she i never see am before? I was highly embarrassed with her response. Is it true some1 can eat Gala with Akara? Plz let me her your view. This Ibadan hawkers are very funny oooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
RomanceHealing Tablet For Couples by Dobxy(op): 4:34pm On Oct 11, 2009
Many people search on websites because their relationship has run into difficulties and they are looking for help or ideas. The truth is that sustaining a successful romantic relationship is one of the hardest things we will ever do in life. After falling in love and the 'honeymoon' period, we all have to work on our relationships. This is because relationships bring up our deepest fears and insecurities. We can even think of relationship problems as our best opportunity to heal our personal issues - that is why we have come together with our partner.

I could offer you some temporary fixes to an ailing relationship, but if we are really going to save it and turn it into a lifetime partnership we must learn how to work on the negative issues that come up between us and a partner. To save a relationship and make it sustainable into the future we must be willing to heal the core issues that have caused it to run into difficulties in the first place.

Unexpressed Fear and Needs

All relationship problems arise from a breakdown in the loving connection between two people. There will always be some negative emotions that have not been expressed in the relationship - it is the fear associated with these, usually unconscious, feelings that destroys the relationship. The unexpressed feelings cause us to separate from our partner because we do not want them to see our negative side in case they reject us. Ironically, this is exactly what our protective strategy brings about!

Out of our fear comes our needs and these create demands on our partners. If there is a problem in a relationship, one or more significant need is NOT being met. Interestingly this will be the same need that your partner also feels is lacking in the relationship. By identifying your unmet needs you can give this same thing to your partner and they will automatically begin to give this same thing back to you. It is even better if you can talk about your fears and needs with your partner in an emotionally mature way. Honest and heartfelt communication is the best way to save a relationship. It can take courage to express your feelings but this is the way forward in a relationship problem. Sometimes it takes time and the help of a third party to do this, so you might consider some counselling. As you communicate about your unmet needs and fears you will find that your partner shares them and any problems will then fall away.

Arguments and Rows

Relationship fights are about who is going to meet the needs of the other person. Given that they are always shared by both partners, you can see how futile this is. To end an argument and prevent others occurring you must be willing to stop the fight over needs and think about what you could give to the relationship to make it better. Such leadership only comes when we recognise the cause of the fights and gain sufficient emotional maturity not to be triggered into anger and attack.

Judgements

Our judgements about our partners are really our self-judgements. We project out the parts of ourselves that we do not like on the people around us. What are you judging in your partner? What annoys you about them? Perhaps they are always busy at work and you don't feel they value you. If so, how much do you value yourself and how much quality time do you give to yourself. By working on your own self-esteem (see my website for more ideas) you will become more attractive to your partner. After all, they fell in love with you because of the positive qualities they saw in you - find these again in yourself, embody them with all your senses and start giving them once again.

Spirituality

If you have a spiritual or religious belief you can ask for help and guidance from God (or however you know a divine or spiritual presence in your life). At the core of all relationship problems is a loss of faith in our own spirit and divine, loving connections. In fact we are afraid of this much connection - afraid of a spiritual oneness where there is just love for ourselves, everybody and everything. It seems that we create our relationship problems to avoid accepting our true loving destinies. Any spiritual practice will help with re-connecting with our spirit and help us to find peace and love in our romantic relationships.

Love

I assume you first got together with your partner because you felt so much love for them. At that time you both put aside your fears and needs and discovered unconditional love. Being human means that those fears often return but we can heal them best with a partner providing we are willing and brave enough to go into those areas of pain in our mind that we have hidden away. We avoid expressing our pain because we don't want our partner to see what we perceive as a weakness - we fear they will reject us and leave us, and yet if we don't express them the relationship is at great risk. Therefore a willingness to open our hearts and just become more authentic will always reveal the truth in a relationship and allow both partners to grow and take their lives forward.

So what is it that is holding your relationship back? Now is the time to grasp the nettle and open your heart. Feel into your own pain and hidden insecurities and realise that these are also in your partner, but probably cleverly hidden by compensatory behaviour. Your partner needs your help and you currently have more emotional awareness. They need your forgiveness for any failings and your emotional courage to inspire them to heal their own insecurities. Pour your love, appreciation and gratitude onto your partner and re-discover all those things that you adored about them in the beginning.

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