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debbydams:
lol eku searching o

Ese oooo.

CalliDora1:
Heheheheee... See how you guys are derailing the young man's thread.

Good luck on your search, OP. I pray you find her.

Amen, thanks.

femmyapson:
Some people are born savage.

Savage you are, No chill you have got
PN: Try work on the way you address people. So you wont make your wife break down with your hurtful words

Thanks bro. If you checked his submissions very well, you would see that, instead of him addressing the issue, he was rubbishing my personality - one he knows nothing about. I like candid advice, but it should be presented reasonably.

Funkeshuga:
Op, you can meet you wife anywhere, don't let anyone discourage you on your marital pursuit but please don't meet those with the slang I've my past, go for brand new one, not all this Toks and fairly used lady


I wish you well, where are our decent Muslim sisters, a sincere brother need a wife

Thank you.

Cousin9999:
You need to tell the aunties that you're looking for a wife. They'll introduce you to nice girls.

Ok bro.

Offpoint1:
There are two types men who searched for wives on the internet and they are:

1. Shy guys

2. Bad guys

Which category do you fall in?

Hey bro, I think it goes beyond these two you put up here. My dating history was okay; It was within moderation. I'm not a shy guy, and neither am I a bad one. I relate well with ladies if I want to, but you know, marriage is entirely different. Some people do say that your type of person determines the type of ladies you attract, but I disagree, and I do think it's more complex than that. If we judge this by who we are; Noah was not supposed to get the type of wife he got, and Pharaoh didn't deserve what he had as a wife too. You would agree with me if you can decode my message.

Thanks.

kalu61:
All the best with your search.

Amen; thank you.

Adukey:
May Allah make it easy for you.

Ameen Ya Allah. Jazakilllahu Khaeran!

Zzor:
What's the name of the federal agency you work with?

In as much as I would like to answer this, I think it should be private. You can reach me on this by following the proper channel.

FreeSpirited:
You are still young...stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself for nearing 29...
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Focus on saving, your career, investment or getting yourself a a strong financial base...instead of planning to start bankrolling a gal from your little salary
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Even if you so value marriage that you now think it's the next milestone for you, I think putting it up this way is a bad idea. The women that will contact you will be wiser than you.
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It's better to meet gal offline..or watch a lady from afar for sometimes before trying to close..this your style of love vacancy doesn't make you look like someone in control of himself or relationship matters

Once again, thank you for your comment. You seemed to look at it from an entirely different perspective. I would like to address some of the points you raised.

Firstly, it is wrong for you to jump to conclusion that I am putting myself under unnecessary pressure as I'm nearing 29. You don't know my ideals, neither do you know my financial strength. Everyone has plans for how they want to live their lives and what they intend doing in order to achieve their aims. You have no clue about my savings, investments, and financial base. To you, a 29-year old guy is still very young, and shouldn't be thinking of marriage. That is your perspective sir, and you shouldn't impose it on others.

Secondly, you know absolutely nothing about my salary and the level of my career. It would be very dumb of me to display such sensitive details here.

Lastly, I think I found you on a thread where you were professing love for a supposed lady - a moniker that you don't know if the original bearer is male or female. From this, I don't think you're in a position to make meaningful contribution to this thread - apologies if that sounds harsh. You seem to write well, but I think you should let your composition carry more meaningful contents.

Thank you.

FreeSpirited:
This one don Belle food well well, he dey find problem when problem dey sleep.

Hey FreeSpirited, I really appreciate your comment, but I would like you to put more light. I don't seem to understand what you meant.

SmellySperm:
niqqa above me tho .. wedding gown kor

person never even see partner u dey talk of wedding gown

Yes, you are right. The wedding gown part is secondary, finding the right partner is primary.

Please MODs, help me push this - if possible, to front page. You can be a blessing to my Life and success story by doing it. Thanks.

I would be glad if the moderators could help me push this to any possible length; I need a lady for a serious relationship intended for marriage.

Few things about myself

1. Age: will be 29 in few months' time
2. Height: 5.7
3. Look/stature: fairly slim (like Dbanj)
4. Tribe: Yoruba
5. Religion/faith: Islam
6. Genotype and blood group: AA/O+
7. Highest level of education so far: degree (B.Sc)
8. Profession: works in a Federal agency
9. Future possibility: may go in to academics
10. Current zone of residence: Southwest

Few things I want in my prospective partner

1. Age: 20-25
2. Height: average
3: Look/stature: thick (not slim or fat)
4: Tribe: Yoruba (from any state in Southwest)
5: Religion/faith: Islam
6: Genotype and blood group: AA or AS/any blood group.
7: Minimum level of education: degree
8: Profession: could be private, public, or entrepreneural
9: Current zone of residence: Southwest

Turn-ons
Honesty, sincerity, good command of English, flexibility, and willingness to be a better person.

Turn-offs
Dishonesty, nagging, malice, violent behavior, rigidity, and laziness.

Note: I am not looking for a perfect partner - as there wasn't, isn't, and won't be any perfect human being. Honesty and willingness to be a better person are what I look out for.

Thank you.