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he's not worthy to be called a man since he cannot make decisions himself. Sorry abt all u went through in the hands of that beast. A responsible man will come ur way soon. Cheers!!! Quote author=faustinalove post=47543123] part 1.

I am 23, a serving corper in Abuja. I met my ex-fiance(late february this yr) through my mom's close friend who is also his elder sister. We are all from anambra. Before me, my ex married a girl traditionally early January this yr but the girl left him d next month(feb). I was told abt the girl and what they told me was that d girl was very promiscious and thats d reason why d bride price on her head was returned. And in my place, once d middleman goes to collect d bride price on a girl, d girl automatically seizes to be d wife. The sister told me her brother was heartbroken and thats y she has decided to introduce me to him cos she knows me and my family very well and that she is sure i wont break her brother's heart. I agreed cos my mom was in full support since her prayer on my head was abt to come to pass. She has always wanted me to marry a man frm anambra and fortunately he is from the same village as us but different clan. What brought abt this was because i was born and schooled in yorubaland and all d guys she had ever seen me with were all yoruba and she was so scared that i might end up with a yoruba guy and this is part of d reason why she and my dad makes sure that they send me to d east every december (so that i can meet igbo guys) and even if they dont have d money to send me to d east, they make sure they book me on time into one of my uncles or their brothers cars so that i can join them to travel to d east.
So back to my story. My ex is a businessman in lagos but i and my parents are based in ogun state. We began talking on d phone after his elder sis sent my number to him. We liked each other and he was very nice. Then after a week, i went to lagos to see him. He was nice and was everything i wanted in a husband (so i thought), he kept saying bad things abt his ex and that she really broke his heart since she was d one who took his virginity at 34yrs. I consoled him and promised him i wont break his heart. Things kept moving smoothly as we kept seeing each other and he was happy. He told his sister and my mom that he has eventually found a good wife and i myself had to stop talking to any guy that might cause misunderstanding btw us. He planned to marry me december this yr in d east until a prophetess told him he shouldnt travel throughout this yr cos someone has planned an accident for him. So we agreed on next yr then. We are all catholics but he made me start going to this prophetess's church with him. 
Things started getting bad btw us when i got my nysc posting letter and it said 'Abuja'.  He hated d idea of Abuja. He is uneducated but he lives with 3 of his frnds(who r educated) and his younger sister's son who is an apprentice to him. I was with him and his frnds when i told him i was posted to abj. His friends looked at him and told him not to allow me go to abj. There was one of his frnds who served abt 2yrs ago, he told him how girls(married and single) were being used sexually at nysc camp. He even gave instances of many girls he used during his own time. His friends kept telling him how bad abuja is and how d girls that go there become prostitutes. They all told him many bad things abt abuja and nysc camp that made him to make up his mind that i wont go to abuja.[/quote]

When it comes to settling down, some men have a hard time picking the right woman, so if you find out the woman in you life possesses the following attribute, then you must marry her at once. Here are some of these qualities…. If she says I hate to shop: Every woman loves to shop, and a large chunk of their budget (or should we say their man’s) goes into it. So when she says she hates to shop, marry her right away.

– She says she hates to gossip: Oh my! Even though they will never agree, most women love to gossip (the born again inclusive), so when bae says she hates to gossip, please marry her.

– If she allows you to roll with your friends as much as you like and even allows you have them over at weekends, just marry her.

– If you’re a football fan and she watches your matches with you, just go ahead and pop the question. What are you waiting for Man

– If she hates to argue and doesn’t interrogate you like the police, marry her quickly.

– If she probe your phone calls, text messages and trusts you with her life, what are you waiting for man?

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