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Ehinjuola:
Please, I need sincere advice because my mind is not at rest anymore. What started as a normal family visit has suddenly turned into something I never imagined in my life.
My wife and I went to her family house to discuss our forthcoming engagement and other marriage arrangements since she is already pregnant. The discussion took longer than expected, and before we knew it, it was already late in the evening. To make matters worse, rain started falling heavily, and getting transportation back home became very difficult.

I was outside in the rain, moving around and searching for a vehicle that could convey us and my uncle, who accompanied me, back home safely. Throughout that stressful moment, my wife didn’t even seem concerned. She stayed where she was without making any effort to assist or even show worry about the situation. Surprisingly, her mother later came out to meet me at the roadside, praying and hoping we would find a vehicle soon. Even her father’s younger brother joined me in searching for transportation.

After almost one hour, we finally got a cab. While we were inside the vehicle, my wife tried to start a conversation, but I was already upset and disappointed, so I kept quiet. After dropping my uncle close to his destination, we continued our journey home in silence.

At some point on the road, I finally spoke out in anger. I asked her why she behaved so unconcerned despite the fact that we came to her family house for something very important concerning our future together. Instead of calming things down, she became angry too and started saying hurtful words back at me.

As we were walking home, she suddenly said she wanted to ease herself by the roadside. Because I was still angry, I continued walking slowly ahead without paying much attention. After a few minutes, I looked back and realized she was no longer behind me.
I immediately returned to the exact spot where she said she wanted to ease herself, but I couldn’t find her anywhere.
Since that night, my wife has been missing for 4 days.

I have contacted her mother several times, but she told me not to report the matter to her father yet. According to her, she believes her daughter is safe and will eventually return home. But honestly, I’m becoming very suspicious and confused. Part of me feels she may know where my wife is hiding, but I can’t say for sure.

What keeps disturbing me the most is this: Where did my pregnant wife sleep that night? Who is she with? Is she safe? And why would she disappear without contacting anyone for 4 days?

Right now, I’m emotionally exhausted and scared. I truly love my wife despite our misunderstanding, and I never imagined something like this would happen over an argument.

Please, experienced married men and women on this forum, what should I do at this point? Should I involve her father and report this officially, or should I still keep waiting and hope she comes back on her own?

Your wife done go meet her CHIKE....


Try find out who be this her CHIKE, wetin give am that mind if sleeping outside....

This thing so na wetin them dey do poor man be that

esnbrutality:
Its not this protest I am looking at...its the protest from the North during campaign season. How can TINUBU, after betraying the North that made him President, now campaign in the same region "Peacefully"?

Peter Obi please align with Atiku and this election cant be contested. If you align with kwankwaso, you will be rigged and the courts will definitely work against you. Kwankwaso, will be offered his "Kano Stronghold" for compensation.

Get brain and align with Atiku.

Align with Atiku, Align with Atiku means wetin? Make Peter obi be Vice president?

PresidentMUGABE:
Even marriage that was done in Kano state with 3000-Naira also crash......

Bros hustle make 🍺 beer non bitter for your mouth.

I get money and beer still bitter for my mouth... Mumu parable

Sonnobax15:

If to say na black man wey dey struggle to make ends meet na would she had agreed? . Wouldn't she had body-shamed him ? .

Well,na black woman she be. Entitlement mentality na una regular trademark so I'm not surprised.

If to say she short would he had agreed to marry her? Both of them came for their personal interest and there is nothing wrong with that.

Reinakathy:
Nice one. Shout out to my mom. I love you mama

What about your father?

He did not deserve a shout out?

HonNL:
Morocco face Nigeria in the semi final of the 2025 AFCON on home soil in Rabat


Source

Them go loss against Nigeria

Goodlady:
I am sorry to say this to ya face. I can't date a broke man.
Can't respect a man that's not earning more than me. Reality has proven money's the engine if love so don't preach to me.

What will be used in taking care of my skin, my needs and all the stuff? The answer is money.
It's an aberration for a man to approach someone richer than him.
That's why it's good to do profile check before dating.
A times if numbers weren't given out after sizing the guy's destiny they d say she's rude, she's bla bla bla yenyenyen.
Who nor like better thing?
When there are eligible Bachelors like Paddy Adenug, Okoyya boys, Dantalta family, Danghote family and co to marry from.
Abeg make no sapahead boy disturb me today. I am not responsible for ya hardship. Make you you make legit money before you impregnate or marry any woman.

Poor men children
Money always comes first.

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vB6zHkOeSGc?si=6koKD2UTyc63mgZu

Regina, If Ned was a poor man would you have married him?


Direct question ( Yes or No)

franchasofficia:
Wow, $3million is around 4.5billion Naira just like that? Plus additional $100,000, and me that have been running a small firm, serving the people and impacting lives positively since God knows when, the total net worth of my company and myself is not even up to $1.2million, life can be really funny

Keep pushing, don't give up... Eh go soon clear

Rrchrd:
I know the country isn't for the fainted heart but...
1) I'll never kill
2) I'll never date a married woman
3) I'll never steal
4) I'll never smoke
5) I'll never bow for any god.

Dey play...


Them no dey plan life... Na life dey plan person

IBenardoo:
I am too reserved, and i dey mind my business. This one is definitely my dad's

WOMANIZING

Deviney:
I'm tired. I want to end it all. This suffering is too much for me. My baby has not eaten since morning. I don't have money to buy her nutribom. What more do I have to live for? I can't do this anymore. Please help me if you can. 814 94 768 31 Palmpay. my name is Mary Bassey

Use your old account comment make them help you... This formatt done cast

Temitunz:
There’s a growing trend among Nigerian men relocating abroad while leaving their wives behind, sending only money home as if that’s enough to sustain a marriage. Financial support is important, but is it really a substitute for presence, partnership, and emotional connection?

Many of these women bear the weight of running the household alone, raising children without a father figure, and dealing with the loneliness of a distant marriage. Some endure years of waiting, hoping their husbands will return or send for them, only to face broken promises and fading love.

Marriage is more than just financial responsibility. If you're leaving your wife behind, are you also leaving behind your role as a husband and father?

Let’s talk what are your thoughts on this trend? Is money enough to sustain a marriage? #MarriageMatters #Relationships #NigerianMen #LongDistanceMarriage

Dey play

unclejb2:
Stolen money being lavished by the children of corrupt northern politicians

Poor Man pikin calm down... Okay

BenedictAbajue:
I am seeing Ezurike Pharmacy on your receipt? Is that an Igbo word?

NNEKA EZURIKE PHARMACY

AImiron:
If you can afford it. I have one word for you ... MOVE!

I can afford it but agent done scam me more than 20m already.... I just tire....

Racoon:
@TheNationNews



https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/utme-mass-failure-proof-anti-malpractice-measures-working-minister/%3famp

Tiktok

cutecommend:
Go where you are invited.

Again, stop over-visiting people. Stay in your house and read good books.

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Suggest good financial books for me...

Investment books...

Zulu11zulu:
Criminal looking holy man .

None of them there is holy...

DenreleDave:
I said it in 2020

https://www.nairaland.com/5932019/guys-never-invite-lady-pass

And I am telling you again in 2025... Don't allow any lady sleep over in your house...... Even if her family knows you, they can easily deny you..

See this post on front page for today

https://www.nairaland.com/8334888/ogun-man-arrested-after-girlfriend

It better you go sleep in her house ...


Be wise oooo...

Hook up girl self dey sleep for my house... Who goes ?

Bookhub:
Hmmmm they are very few people earning such I doubt you will even see one here.

We plenty here...

Actually, I spend more than 1m monthly.... For women, Gambling, Feeding, clothing, drugs and giveaway

Botreat:
My woman is cheating, but i want to mess with her brains before I trash her.

Found out about it from her WhatsApp chats. she's been with me for over 15months barely contributing anything in the house. I met her at a low point in her life and she has told me on several occasions how she was suicidal before we met.

I had never been a fan of checking my partner's phone, but something lead me into checking her chats and for a moment i doubted if it was my girl's chats I was reading. How she's gone on dates with multiple men, how they've been having sex with one of her cell members from church, how she's had girls sending her pictures of their nudes, how she has sent her nudes to men on several occasions.

She's had infections i had to spend so much treating thinking she got it from the toilet because she always complains she doesn't like seating on the toilet seat.

I was really shaken by these discoveries, but I feel better now after discussing it with my guy. Now it's game time and I would so mess with her brain that she would be scared of cheating in future.

The only reason I haven't sent her packing is because I fell into some kind of financial troubles and she had to lend me some funds to support my business and I currently cant pay back everything.
I know she's scared of losing this relationship because that would mean she becomes homeless and would have to start fending for herself completely, also from her chats with the guy she is currently having sex with, I can tell he doesn't care about her. He's here just for the sex and isn't ready for any commitment.

Yesterday I told her I've been having this recurring dream about our relationship, but cant recall the details. This morning I just sent her a message about a dream vaguely describing the guy she's having an affair with. Telling her about how a shadow came and was puling her away from me. she took it with so much shock and immediately she got stomach upset and started throwing up. After cleaning up she came back telling me dreams are just figments of imagination bla bla bla, that she's not going anywhere, telling me how I have impacted her life since we met.

Next time I am going to tell her the shadow came with a face, but I cant recall where I know the face, but I am very sure if I see the face anywhere I would remember it.

When I am done messing with her, I'll call my guy to come around and we disgrace her and send her out of the house. I want her scared of cheating in her future relationships.

DO IT....


100% support ur decision

Samantha125:
But what's the reason behind it?

Culturally ,it reduce sexual urge, thereby making the lady( women) not to cheat on her partner/ husband...


Note: Dating one currently...

Epiphanyglobal:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kn1hZUB_cgA

... And he could not see his wife cheating and bringing another man's child to their marriage...

Sirchiboy:
Well I think if you are in this shoes.
I will tell you a story of a guy that blew up in just two years after getting married.
This guy had been struggling in ph.
He worked in Mr sweet as a cook.
Worked in differen places for years but nothing.
All of us used to play betting in rumuola.
But as soon as he got married this guy blew up..
Now this guy control millions.
Bought house in different places and cars.
The business he is doing is just interior decorations and furniture.
The worst part is that this guy was my guy back then but as soon as he made money.
He shun all of us.
Me next year I don go marry ooo.
I know believe that some women carry grace and anointing that really open doors for men ooo .

Juju



Juju


Juju

LeeSmart:
What's is that thing humans shouldn't have invented?
For me it's Guns.
There is no logical reasons as to why they (humans) invented it.

BITCOIN

FactsZoneAfrica:
https://x.com/FactsZoneAfrica/status/1860590453193662924

Okay

ricson11:
Paying of tithes must be done consistently, anytime you miss paying your tithe, you will return back to square one

-Pastor Paul Enenche's wife, Becky Enenche


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4tJnsyJ9EJY?si=MpEfkwumHmsAgxth

She Lied..... Complete lie

Man102:
JUST IN!!! Police Probe Zenith Bank Over Unpaid Dividend




Source : https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/752997-police-probe-bank-over-unpaid-dividend.html#:~:text=The%20Nigerian%20police%20in%20Abuja,the%20oil%20firm's%20account%20statement.

Okay

Rapmoney:
Abeg how do Nigerian guys with multiple girlfriends cope in this present economy?

I see some guys in my area who do not have investments, no landed property, nothing!!! Yet you see them keeping 3 to 4 different girls as girlfriends.

With the high cost of living, how do these guys cope? You will give Kemi money for hair, give Amarachi money for bag, give Eniye money for cream, support Cynthia with money for her birthday!!! Guy, you dey mad?

A cup of beans is N450, house rent has skyrocketed, 1kg of cooking gas is N1400. Jesu!!! Brother Chinedu, abeg sorry for your life nah. Wetin?

Eh no easy bro...


I dey spend minimum of 500k monthly on top woman matter...


I done try stop am eh Neve let me...