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Well, while the Bible is God's inspiration there were some flesh inputs to control people's mind through fear. No loving, God will cast any soul to fire. If he's all knowing and he knew you'd be in hell, why then were you created.
Men write this to be in religion through fear.

If supply is higher than demand, why is the price so high.

This is obviously trolling. It's not possible unless someone donated the food , cooking things like gas etc to you. So you mean spaghetti is 50 naira a pack in your areas? Technically and untechnically, this is not possible. But welldone for the nice looking dishes

Women and sex should be the last things on your list. Prioritize skill building, purpose and focusing on developing yourself physically and spiritually.

Pursuing women and sex drain your resources, physically , mentally and spiritually. Channel it into developing yourself.

If you are pressured by peers to chase after women, look for friends that are pursuing purpose.

NNtv:
Sorry but the man must have genuine reasons for such action

Genuine reason to abandon 3 children?
That's not a man, that's a man child.

Image123:
We were not tired of you when you were made super minister. Rest

Okay, compare the cost of living between now and then as well.

You missed Olive Tree Parish,, banana island, first square at ikoyi.

Our Mother lady Papetual Church VI.

What do they wanna sell when people can no longer afford basic things, yet you spend billion in renovating.
Fuel - 850 to 950
Food 2000% higher than normal
Clothing is so expensive
Businesses are shorting down
Massive brain drain due to the low standard of living. Even an experienced professor cannot afford a car.
How do you tell someone that a car f 2008 is sold for over ten million naira at tokunbo while same car brand new during the same year was around 3 million.

Yet, these politicians are blind or turning blind eyes. They keep clinging to power and doing nothin about the collective progress of Nigeria.

Anyway, Peter Obi for 2017

Like someone above said, good works speak for themselves.

My honest take on this situation:

First, posting this on Nairaland might not be the best idea. While it's a popular forum, you’re likely to receive a flood of diverse opinions—many from younger or less-experienced individuals—that may only add to your confusion and emotional stress.

Issues like this are deeply personal and should ideally be discussed with someone you trust—someone mature, married, and emotionally grounded. Alternatively, consider seeking advice from a professional counselor or relationship coach.

Now to the issue at hand:

The red flags are glaring—your wife lied, and you caught her strolling with another man. While there’s no concrete evidence that she slept with him, from everything you’ve described, there are clear signs of emotional (and possibly physical) intimacy. The panic and scream when they saw you suggest a level of guilt and fear that shouldn't be present in a platonic friendship. It's also clear that there’s mutual fondness between her and the man.

First of all, I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. No man deserves to be in a relationship where trust is compromised.

Secondly, understand that this decision is entirely yours to make. You must confront this situation firmly and decisively—because if you don’t deal with it now, it will fester and haunt your peace in the long run.

Here’s what I suggest:

Call a family meeting—with both families present. Let her people hear what happened. If you decide to continue the relationship, this needs to come with a serious warning and clear boundaries. Transparency and accountability must be demanded moving forward.

Take time for yourself—create space to reflect. Sometimes distance helps bring clarity. Don’t rush to make a decision under pressure or emotional duress.

Consider seperation or cancelling the marriage—especially since there are no children involved yet. That’s a blessing in disguise. Introducing children into this kind of instability will only complicate things further.

If you still choose to continue the marriage with her (though I strongly advise caution), avoid getting her pregnant for now. You must be completely sure that you’re the only one in the picture—emotionally, physically, and otherwise.

Finally, don’t be too quick to believe everything she has told you—especially if she claimed to be a virgin. Many people, unfortunately, manipulate the truth in relationships. Be wise. Don’t ignore your instincts, and don’t ignore the signs.

Wishing you strength, wisdom, and clarity as you navigate this.

I hate social media. See someone who knows no 2 cents about relationship or marriage giving advise.

It's a terrible thing.

Only licensed counselors should provide advise when it comes to relationship or marriage.

There are systems that work in each relationship and marriage and then there are universal principles you must follow if you want to succeed. All the 8 are against those principles. Now, you are advising people to follow principles that will surely lead to failed relationship. TERRIBLE!


If you want to succeed in your relationship,

Read 7 principles of how to make marriage work(apply to both married and single)

For men
The way of the superior man
Hold on to your nuts

And learn lessons from people who will give you life practical and spiritually guidance and not all these hulllabullu

What did you do to her.
We need to hear her own side of the story before we can make a judgement.

Imagine Japaing to India a very third world country.

This is no longer japa, this is absurdity

Women will only take you seriously if you are serious about your life, hussle and serious about your purpose and then you are making money from them. Gifts, time, Valentine, Christmas, going to the best restaurant won't budge a serious lady. Infact, pushes them away.
Even if you have money and you meet a great lady but she eventually sees that you don't have a purpose for the future or a direction for your life and the two of you, she will leave you. Sorry, but that's the hard truth.

Respectfully asking, were you not scared putting the price? Like this are scraps put together both interior and exterior. GOD!

Women's reproductive health decline by age and as soon they are approaching 40 their chance of giving birth to healthy babies become slimmer. Why do you think there is rolise in down syndrome, ADHD, special education needs children. Because career women are given birth late and it impacts the children creating a problem for the couple for a long term. I'll advice you, go for a younger lady and save yourself the stress. Remember, true love is not a feeling

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Olu1000:
What kind of a human being will say he will not release his grand children except the money he spent on them is refunded ? The man is very senseless! How can you be asking for refunds for catering to your own grand children? People pray to live long and be able to see their grandchildren for Gods sake! Your father in law is an agbaya!

Bro, e shock me. As a man, I am ashamed to see the kind of men marrying these days. Instead of leading their families to a place of victory, they destroy it with their entire hands. They now blame everyone, except themselves. Sad!

He thinks if he does all the rubbish he is doing, it means he is strong. He doesn't know he is displaying his weakness. The guy should look for an healthy man to coach him so he doesn't destroy things any further

I stopped reading when you mentioned that you stopped giving support because your wife took your kids to your in-laws' house without your permission. So, you're boiling inside, right? You want to engage in tit-for-tat behavior, drawing innocent children into a conflict between two adults who should be acting maturely. You're not helping the situation. As someone who is supposed to lead with emotional intelligence and generosity, you're acting immaturely. That’s very boyish, and you’re not stepping up as a man.

So, if you take her to court, who do you think will win? Instead of calming down and acting like a mature adult, you’re letting your inner child dictate your actions, and you're only making things worse.

What else do you think people will say? The fact is, you didn’t take care of your children. It's not too late. Step up and be a man. Support your children and their mother. Yes, she cheated, but that doesn’t change the fact that you need to take care of your kids—after all, she is not your mother.

I will be certain that your actions might have pushed your wife to cheat.

MAN UP!!!

Don't waste your money.

Normally, they should give you Stugeron for balance, but check with your doctor.

Search for the Epley maneuver on YouTube and try it yourself. Do it once a day or thrice a week depending on what works for, but have someone with you to ensure you don’t fall. You should be back to normal in about a week. Note that after you do this, the dizziness will be worse, however in an an hour it will go down.

When you sleep, make sure your head is slightly elevated, around 45 degrees - so use a pillow. Sleep on the unaffected side, and you should feel better soon. Sorry to hear you're going through this."

Wow

Babycoolcash1:
Kindly don't say what you don't know..you could see my screenshots from d dealer himself

Pix one 2024 highlander
Pix two 2024 landcruiser
Pix three 2016 landcruiser

If everyone is pointing out the mistakes for you, don't be defensive but kindly take to corrections.

Even the dealer can be wrong. But I can bet 200 million naira, this is not a 2024 landcruiser

This is probably a 2012 Land Cruiser upgraded to 2016 body kit. It's not an highlander

100 k plus 5 k suya

Deal?

Phone number?

2.4 nko

Is this car still available where is the location

2m

Kufie:
Double it on sportybet

Baddest. 3 odds

2m

2m this weekend