₦airaland Forum

Suntzung: This IS TOO BAD, shame on YOU GEJ, shame on YOUR PEOPLE. NIGERIA is finished with this Maggot as a leader; he has rubbished what our fast leaders did for NIGERIA.

What a shame! ZIK, ATB, MRM, OBJ'S EFFORTS ALL IN VAIN!

NIGERIA needs serious prayer to survive the remaining one and half year of this CALAMITY called GEJ.

Abagworo: Amaechi has performed far better than Jonathan, Odili and Ibori combined. They are not in the same level as achievers. Nobody supports GEJ except tribalists and thieves. I've never seen anyone give a reason for supporting GEJ except that he is from South-south and they lay the golden egg. Amaechi is also from the South-south and in addition is better in every other thing than Jonathan. The facts are gradually emerging that the only hope of Jonathan in 2015 election is by crook but our Nigerians ain't no cowards. When he attempts rigging again in 2015, there will be more nationwide riots than 2011 and I'm afraid it could end bloody. We don't need a soothsayer to know all these. Visit the market place, universities, Keke operator gatherings, Churches, Mosques and you'll know the bitterness in the heart of the poor Nigerians.

Obiagelli: You can seem to have a sensible discussion, last week I was Desola, today I am egg header. Smh

Obiagelli: You can seem to have a sensible discussion, last week I was Desola, today I am egg header. Smh

Obiagelli: Exactly, I hate it when people are just being hypocritical just to prove a religious or tribal point.

Obiagelli: Exactly, I hate it when people are just being hypocritical just to prove a religious or tribal point.

Obiagelli: Exactly, I hate it when people are just being hypocritical just to prove a religious or tribal point.

Obiagelli: Exactly, I hate it when people are just being hypocritical just to prove a religious or tribal point.

compressor: Nigerian are fools just making comments and arriving at jaundiced conclusions without seeing pictures or evidences of the destruction ongoing in the areas where the military are operating.We need to be careful how or what we wish for as the military has shown themselves time and over again to be untrustworthy in handling both affairs of state and such security challenges.

andromida: She no longer loved you and she feels there is better out there
She met her dream man.i.e She was never into you and was just managing you.
She discovered some things about you that she can't put up with and can't explain.
She explained to you severally that she does not like x,y,z but you didn't amend your ways so she left.
You were a rebound relationship.
No connections or bond was developed despite her best efforts.
I don't know why she left all these are just assumptions. I can see you are still wondering where you went wrong sometimes its not you its the other person and there is nothing you can do about it and sometimes its you.
We learn, we grow its life and it happens.

jennykadry: There is a difference between chatting on a public forum like I do with my sagamilo and chatting privately with Sagamilo off nairaland either via BBM or any other means of communication. Sagamilo BTW has been missing for months now, I am giving out a five dollar reward for the person that finds him,please return him back to owner (Jennykadry).

What is a married man or woman doing registering in a dating site? What is a married man doing collecting the phone numbers of random girls he picks off the street? what is a married man doing writing sweet nothings to girls he finds beautiful?

So yea, you are most definitely missing something here.

bettymafy: Jenny Jenny, where have u been? Missed u.

I think this couple should consider open marriage. They seem like the ideal candidates. . .

By the way, where is blazay/jellita when u need her most?

jennykadry: You and your husband cheated so no one is sinless here. My only problem with you is that you saw the signs but went ahead to marry him. You know we all need to stop asking God questions cos he has done a lot for us. He showed you so many reasons why you both shouldn't be together but you chose to ignore them. Wht else do you want him to do for you? Don't blame your husband for your sleeping around, you lack common sense for an educated person. You cheated cos you chose to, he didn't make you.

As for that thing with no morals you call a husband or dog, one day he will lose his kini cos he messed up with the wrong woman

Mynd_44: Why do I think this e-fight has nothng to do with this thread?

bettymafy: Stop whinning woman! There is never a justification for cheating, moreso in marriage! Some of us have seen your husband for the scumbag he is, but that should never be a reason for u to cheat. If u couldn't bear it any more, u should have seperated.

And no. . . No amount of begging will make him totally forget what happened (even if he was cheating too).

By the way, did I hear u say he cheated after your court marriage?? And he said he didn't cheat since he said "I do"? What do they say in court marriage? "I don't"? Or, is court marriage not recognised as marriage again? Somebody should please put me out of my misery.

Both of u sure deserve each other. Both of u are cheats! Only that he topped his own with physical abuse.

bettymafy: Stop whinning woman! There is never a justification for cheating, moreso in marriage! Some of us have seen your husband for the scumbag he is, but that should never be a reason for u to cheat. If u couldn't bear it any more, u should have seperated.

And no. . . No amount of begging will make him totally forget what happened (even if he was cheating too).

By the way, did I hear u say he cheated after your court marriage?? And he said he didn't cheat since he said "I do"? What do they say in court marriage? "I don't"? Or, is court marriage not recognised as marriage again? Somebody should please put me out of my misery.

Both of u sure deserve each other. Both of u are cheats! Only that he topped his own with physical abuse.

bettymafy: Stop whinning woman! There is never a justification for cheating, moreso in marriage! Some of us have seen your husband for the scumbag he is, but that should never be a reason for u to cheat. If u couldn't bear it any more, u should have seperated.

And no. . . No amount of begging will make him totally forget what happened (even if he was cheating too).

By the way, did I hear u say he cheated after your court marriage?? And he said he didn't cheat since he said "I do"? What do they say in court marriage? "I don't"? Or, is court marriage not recognised as marriage again? Somebody should please put me out of my misery.

Both of u sure deserve each other. Both of u are cheats! Only that he topped his own with physical abuse.

bettymafy: Stop whinning woman! There is never a justification for cheating, moreso in marriage! Some of us have seen your husband for the scumbag he is, but that should never be a reason for u to cheat. If u couldn't bear it any more, u should have seperated.

And no. . . No amount of begging will make him totally forget what happened (even if he was cheating too).

By the way, did I hear u say he cheated after your court marriage?? And he said he didn't cheat since he said "I do"? What do they say in court marriage? "I don't"? Or, is court marriage not recognised as marriage again? Somebody should please put me out of my misery.

Both of u sure deserve each other. Both of u are cheats! Only that he topped his own with physical abuse.

wifeofwhyme222: I never cheated on my husband in pregnancy...pls don't misquote me...

The reason why I bothered 2 reply 2 my husbands post was becos I was made out 2 be the devil.., a woman dont just step out the must be somethyn that may av promted her 2 do so...

My hubby isn't a bad man contrary 2 what u all miss read in my post...but he had his own fault most worse dan mine..

He feels he is always right, and cannever be wrong.

I av made peace with myself and my God...I av attempted 2 make peace with him but he feels he can't make peace with me...

I am not happy I cheated, a lot of circumstances led 2 it...most understand where I am coming from most don't.

Majority just came here 2 insult. I pray God not allow anyone experience all dis.

I never lied about anythyn I said in my ealier post...I just wanted him 2 kknow he also is not a saint...he can't deny

It is very unfortunate dis got 2 dis level...all my life sin. I never tot I'd find myself in a place like dis.

Not my intention 2 wash my dirty linen outside...8months after discovery my hubby decided 2 post dis on Nairaland...he has slept with me over 20times since he knew now ihe says I repulse him..we av been happy! But it seems he wants me 2 kill myself before he knows I am sorry 4 what happened.

I av tried. U all say it is okay 2 chat rawly with young ladies cos its just a chat he hasn't slept with dem dat makes it okay. It is okay 4 him 2 av kept on sleeping with his ex days before our wihte wedding months after aour court wedding cos we were not married yet?.

Since he.has read on dis forum all the responses and support he is getting he believes he is right and the victim.

I leave all 2 God. And I leave him 2 his next wife...

9ja_I_hail: The bolded comment is one of those misguided comments that usually got me irritated about you and your arrogant nature.

You contributed to this mess going on here, as you begin to get what you bargained for, you resolved to use Eze ndigbo NL as your scapegoat or sacrificial lamb. Let me add to the clarification given to you by manny. It goes to show how unobserved you are, i can authoritatively say that you are in NL running back and forth without realizing the latest development here.. Anyway many igbo commentators are gradually backing off NL, everyone is leaving Nairaland for you and your fellow sell out igbos to have enough space and champion your buhari and yoruba interest. That doesn't mean we are backing off from the challenges at hand rather Eze council are on strategics mission which will soon be a surprise to those who think our organization is a mere online joke.

Igbo unity cannot be found if igbo do not find a way to put those of you raise outside igbo land under surveillance.Seriously most of you need to be inform that nothing works in Nigeria without tribalism. How many yorubas,hausas born outside their regions fight for igbo interest or any other tribe interest like you and few other misguided igbo does? Anyway, i will not join to this baseless argument because i have long taken my stance about Rochas after my last visit to Imo state which is my state of origin.. Rochas commissions a lots of projects in the news papers than in reality.

@Chino.. I regret to note that you have not desist from this childish attitude of yours... Actually i am not surprise some people were shocked to know that you are a married man. When the likes of Berem display their stupidiity one expected you to play elderly role but no you escalated the issue.

ACM10: Is this supposed to be on this thread? Can you agree with me that you are turning this thread into your private domain where you treat your fellow mods with disrespect and intimidate them? Determine what should be visible here or not. Can you smell the air of hypocrisy around you?

Pataki: Once a tribalist, forever a tribalist. It does not matter whichever board you choose to display your sheer inanity.

Denigrating, insulting and abusing are synonyms. Stop trying to use words that are way beyond your intellectual capacity. Olodo oshi.

I take men and women as equals. I have even repeatedly stated that here to the OP. Not that you would even foolishly notice though. Too much drivels drives through your brain, for you to even know how to think articulately.

Just today, another Nigerian man cheated on his wife and when found out slit the throat of his wife. The story is right here on the family board. This is what Pataki is strongly against - Nigerian men who subject their wives to emotional and physical torture resulting in most cases to loss of life.

If I defend women here, that is because I believe a man should exude more maturity in marriage. A real man is a pacesetter. That is how we are designed. We are expected to be leaders in our home in good deeds and by good example. You want a forgiving wife - show her forgiveness. You want a selfish wife - show her selfishness. You want a lazy woman - show her laziness. How hard is this concept to grasp in your dull idiotic skull!

Pataki does not chase women here. I have no ulterior motives to my stand on marriages esp. when it bother on we men! I have seen good examples in my life and I am indeed proud to see a working relationship. Go back to your village and address the people who did not show you good qualities of a man.

Didinrin omo.

Pataki: Once a tribalist, forever a tribalist. It does not matter whichever board you choose to display your sheer inanity.

Denigrating, insulting and abusing are synonyms. Stop trying to use words that are way beyond your intellectual capacity. Olodo oshi.

I take men and women as equals. I have even repeatedly stated that here to the OP. Not that you would even foolishly notice though. Too much drivels drives through your brain, for you to even know how to think articulately.

Just today, another Nigerian man cheated on his wife and when found out slit the throat of his wife. The story is right here on the family board. This is what Pataki is strongly against - Nigerian men who subject their wives to emotional and physical torture resulting in most cases to loss of life.

If I defend women here, that is because I believe a man should exude more maturity in marriage. A real man is a pacesetter. That is how we are designed. We are expected to be leaders in our home in good deeds and by good example. You want a forgiving wife - show her forgiveness. You want a selfish wife - show her selfishness. You want a lazy woman - show her laziness. How hard is this concept to grasp in your dull idiotic skull!

Pataki does not chase women here. I have no ulterior motives to my stand on marriages esp. when it bother on we men! I have seen good examples in my life and I am indeed proud to see a working relationship. Go back to your village and address the people who did not show you good qualities of a man.

Didinrin omo.

Pataki: Once a tribalist, forever a tribalist. It does not matter whichever board you choose to display your sheer inanity.

Denigrating, insulting and abusing are synonyms. Stop trying to use words that are way beyond your intellectual capacity. Olodo oshi.

I take men and women as equals. I have even repeatedly stated that here to the OP. Not that you would even foolishly notice though. Too much drivels drives through your brain, for you to even know how to think articulately.

Just today, another Nigerian man cheated on his wife and when found out slit the throat of his wife. The story is right here on the family board. This is what Pataki is strongly against - Nigerian men who subject their wives to emotional and physical torture resulting in most cases to loss of life.

If I defend women here, that is because I believe a man should exude more maturity in marriage. A real man is a pacesetter. That is how we are designed. We are expected to be leaders in our home in good deeds and by good example. You want a forgiving wife - show her forgiveness. You want a selfish wife - show her selfishness. You want a lazy woman - show her laziness. How hard is this concept to grasp in your dull idiotic skull!

Pataki does not chase women here. I have no ulterior motives to my stand on marriages esp. when it bother on we men! I have seen good examples in my life and I am indeed proud to see a working relationship. Go back to your village and address the people who did not show you good qualities of a man.

Didinrin omo.

biolabee: donchris i dont get u at all

first u diss the man saying he is trying to ingratiate himself with the ladies then you launch a ballistic assault against the SW

I am tempted to think all is not well somewhere

Pataki: Now it becomes glaring why exactly your community has rejected you. You are highly unstable in your thought process. No coherent flow of thoughts and words. Must really be sheer agony on your clan having a demented goat in their midst all these years. See why I called you a child with mental issues. In medical terms you are clearly a bipolar gerbil!

1. You and the other dunce claimed I am looking for married women on the forum.

2. You now state I have an igbo wife (Orisirisi!).

3. You now stated again....you doubt if Igbo ladies would even date Yoruba men based on your demented thought process.

I could go on and on.....breaking down your foolishness to you. However suffice it to say that tribalism does not make you articulate. See Achebe for further reference.

Igbo ladies appreciate a real man. A man who does not drag his wife in open shame like the OP. A man who respects his wife as his equal regardless of educational status or background. You reek of foolishness. You are incoherent in your words and you need mental help. You are truly a living disaster waiting to explode in the hands of an innocent igbo lady! May God help the woman who has the misfortune of saying or has said: "yes I do" to your goat-shaped mouth!

Ewure jati-jati!