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[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139665380]“I’m back to the street” – Abroad-based Nigerian woman dumps husband over 50/50 marriage dispute

An abroad-based Nigerian woman has shared why she walked out of her four-year marriage, revealing that she left her husband and returned to single life after repeated disagreements over finances.

In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), she explained that they had been operating a 50/50 arrangement since relocating abroad, sharing bills and responsibilities equally.

In her words, she said:

“Since we are doing 50/50, yes we are doing it, but now you still want to collect part of my money. We have been sharing everything equally, so why is my own personal money now a problem?”

The situation reportedly escalated after the couple received a backdated company payment of about £4,000 for work previously carried out.

According to her, her husband insisted that she contribute part of the money despite their agreement to split responsibilities equally in the home, a demand she said led to a major conflict between them.

“We are doing 50/50, but you still want to control my money. You even calculated how much I should bring from my personal earnings. That was my breaking point,” she added.

Her revelation has since sparked mixed reactions online, with social media users debating whether 50/50 arrangements truly work in marriages, especially among couples living abroad.

The situation has also reignited conversations about money, control, and financial boundaries in modern relationships.

“I left my husband that I have been with for four years now. I am back to the street. We have two children together. I left him last week and the reason is since we came to the UK, he’s been wanting 50/50.”

— Nigerian Lady says. pic.twitter.com/iIC1ug3us8

— 𝐀𝐬𝐚𝐤𝐲𝐆𝐑𝐍 (@AsakyGRN) June 9, 2026

No easy at all

U ve 1m like 200l na him u get after tax

Divorce her n set her free n get married to a faithful wife...dis one don go

TechCapon:
I don't know if it's just my own experience or if it's like that with everyone but my experience trying out online dating for the first time have been very horrible. It was suppose to be a place to find love but no way.

One month ago, I decided to take advantage of technology to see if I can meet a nice lady for a relationship. After doing a little research I decided to try Badoo. With great excitement, i set up my profile, uploaded some of my best pictures,
set my bio, applied filter to set age range of ladies I want 22-28. BAM I saw a huge pool of ladies to select from, omo it felt like I was in heaven.
Little did I know that's the beginning of my trouble.
I started matching with girls, diving into DMs, many girls were liking my profile and sliding into my DM, I was like in 3 days I'll find my future wife. Boy was I wrong.
Then the conversations started.. These are my bitter observations.

1. There is hunger in the land

Vast majority of these girls are on the app to do hookup even though they disguise it with fancy words like "friendship", or "fun" or
"dating", or "networking" etc. Almost all the girls I met say they live in Ikoyi, Lekki, VI, Chevron, Orchid and other
highbrow areas but same girls are always asking for urgent 2k, 5k, data sub etc. These girls are even more broke than girls in the village. Hunger has turned the girls to stone-cold zombies without feeling or fear. Ready to follow anyone ready to spend. I can't count the number of girls begging to come to my house even though they've never met me before.. Even me I became scared on their behalf.

2. Too many young single mothers forming single

I met lots and lots of single moms, some as young as 20 doing HK online. I get turned off when I see these
so called singles only to find out they have kids somewhere with one guy. I even met one with 3 kids for 3 guys. It was horrible.
They're all hustling online of course, not there for love.

3. What you see vs what you get is always different.

You will see a very "fine girl" online, her profile picture looks like she's a model or beauty contestant but when u see
them in real life, they're completely different. Looking haggard and tattered. You'll see a light skinned girl online only to see
black skin girl in reality. I almost hid under a table when one of them walked into the lounge to meet me. I started
insisting on video calls to get a feel of what they really look like instead of relying on their over filtered/makeup pictures and getting rude shock at the meetup point.

4. Even working class ladies are not left out.

I met so many working class ladies on the app doing HK, my phone is full of the lewd pictures and videos they sent me via whatsapp trying to
hustle for my attention. All I just need to do is say yes and they'll land on my door step. Am sure these ladies have boyfriends
somewhere who don't know they're living double lives. Some of the few reasonable ones I met were far from my location to make any kind of
relationship impossible.
No shame anymore.. Some will tell you straight up that they're here for hookup, if you're not interested don't bother chatting them and so on..

Please if you have a good homely lady of your own and you're in a stable relationship just hold her tight because it's brutal out there.

Seun
Lalasticlala
mods pls move to front page lets get other opinions

most of them are young yahoo boiz toooo

Govt is busy with 2027 election...go n collect rice n garri n N200 n rest till 2027....buy fuel 1260 n pay tax form ur bank acct soon...bandits is not a concern....hw dump are apc members n supporters....

Iran dey learn for stubbornness
Usa is preventing dere evil to d world.....hw can d president of a country kee like 40,000++ innocent Christians as wat

Many in jail

Go b clean all ur tattoooooo

immortalcrown:
Her father is or was in Iran enforcing Sharia dress code while she was in another country doing the opposite.

She also went to school while her father was probably stopping other girls from going to school in Iran.

very painful to see a religion that will make people keep dere brain in drainages,u say death to America bt u want all ur family to be good life there

Efcc do ur thing pls

DONFASZY:
Lol 6yr

i dey use am drink cold water n e dey high me back den

555 on stainless dey change am after sch sun na sleeeep

jUeLiZ:
Did you or did you not....Good old days
... those born with silver can't relate sha

Lol 6yr

hope4nigeria:
That woman will go to jail, she's a criminal, she initially claimed her money was #25m, trying to settle the matter out of court, they gave her $70,000. Which is over #100m, this woman is still bent on destroying umahi reputation without a prove, she even joined blackmailing the Lawyer that helped her. She's a very greedy woman

i saw a video of her yesterday attacking vdm nw and saying vdm is nt wat people think he is

I jus taya

Who chase woman in 2026 or nowadays
Why nt hustle n double ur earnings
Chase my azzzzz
Lv so much
Na puna dey hungry u


Get a biz running n leave lv n woman for nw

If e join apc nw

He is safe
No crime again as dere papa work stil dey

Every biblical criminal want to deceive people gullible and collect all there cash in d name of d lord


Shame shame n shameless set of Christians

Babysho:
I've been having sleepless nights for over a year now. Back and forth with doctors and sleeping meds.

I'd sleep around 10 or 11pm and be up 2am or 3am, wide awake like I wasn't just sleeping, unable to sleep back. I noticed recently that my heart rate would be high when I wake.

I'm this close to quitting my job because of insomia.

I've tried hundreds of remedies, chamomile tea, all sorts of sleep inducing fruits, sleeping medications, yoga, warm bath, nothing works.

Help.

yes quit d job n open biz n ve peace of mind n go to ur biz plc anytime u like

Also u ve rest too...no b drugs..na independency u need n mind u....ur immune health will b low if u continue like dis for years

This proud rapist must stay in jail for 100yrs with gay people dere pls


He must be arrested and prosecuted
Charged to court and it was be public

Arrest dis fuul for lying pls

Usa slldier destroy dem all in no time...dere time is over

merits:
But the man in your CCTV video is a white man.

go drink water

U no wetin dem dey call cctv


Its black n white at darkness

My video show dis man walkin with a tin like dat jack


I ve no biz with u or anyone that mention me to say irrelevant words

MaziObinnaokija:
Nah wah oo.Why not alert street boys to help chase those CRIMINALS ? Hand go touch them soon

thisbis after d operation o

Few month ago

After dey finish my gx

Dey went to one car lot around mobil rd bustop to vandalize one hilux


Set same

I report to illasan police station
They are up to 5 in d video

See them vandalizing my gx460

Idaytesj29:
People you will later call innocent Nigerians in prison

U didnt watch d confession video
U jus mention me for wetin no concern u

This might b d same man and his group that ve vandslize my lexus gx460 in ologolo lekki...white gx460..i lost 2m++++...pls i stil ve some video of d cctv footage...he shoukd go to jail pls

Ibtxxo:
No hope or road in front.
Just living for living sake

Leave d house for God sake
U r d problem

ShdVultures no wonder dere women dont like dere men
So so ugzly

so wrong

Wikeeee e should leave Rivers state alone...all alone pls n ve peace

ibechris:
Elias Garasoulis is an American Lobbyist based in Washington DC.

See his chats with Nigerian data boys

He knows deree is high frustration

Maybe
Na him dey sponsor boko n co dere