TDstarr:
av invested so much in this relationship, all to make her happy, what more could she want?? , anytime i ask she turns it to quarrel and i will be the one to beg, she comes and goes when she likes

Sorry but you seems to be "too much in love " with the said lady to be able to carry out your suggestions! This seem to be the case of being madly in love with a girl who is probably just interested in fun and not a lasting relationship. I advise that you go for broke and know exactly where the relationship stands. If you are too afraid to die, you will never truly live!

Sorry but this guy seems to be "too much in love " with the said lady to be able to carry out your suggestions! This seem to be the case of being madly in love with a girl who is probably just interested in fun and not a lasting relationship. I advise that you go for broke and know exactly where the relationship stands. If you are too afraid to die, you will never truly live!

Tymax:
Lol. Calm down. Nor go wound yaself because of one smally. First and foremost, accuse her and "lock up". If she doesn't confess under 10 seconds, my guy two things are involved. She's either innocent or a skillful liar.

Next step is to ask her to submit her phone for investigation. If she refuses, then it's a 70/30 chance that she's cheating. Camly tell her everything is fine. Don't complain. Don't say a word regarding the issue anymore, even if she presses you.

Push the tension to her.

virginboy1:

It is a random guy that have less respect for women or no feelings for you,that will take it awkward.
Well,there was a day a lady i used to chat with on fb took up d courage and ditched out to me how I make her feels,how i give her butterfly on her tommy bla bla bla.Initially i thought she wanted to play games with me,but after friendzoning her and doing my little research,I found out her feelings were genuine.
Now i can't go a day without thinking about her.
Just tell the guy your mind,but be carefull he is not a player or misogynist,if not ehnnnnn......na yawa ooo

Not exactly the same because this is a case of friends with benefits (FWB). Obviously, the dude is enjoying her forbidden fruit while rewarding her for it. Premature intimacy makes it more difficult to win the guy's heart!

Babe no point disclosing your feelings to him cause u r in a FWB situation here. I feel u should stop being intimate with him n see his reaction cause for now,your relationship isn't properly defined. He's cool with the FWB tingy while u r developing emotions over nothing. Dude isn't into u,simple.



101% the best description of your case and the appropriate response. HE IS NOT INTERESTED. Harsh but the simple and bitter truth.!!!

I worked in GTB till last year when I resigned. Truth is a lot of things have changed in GTB but most outsiders still see it based on its previous reputation in the days of the founding fathers of the bank.

Promotion is now relatively very slow(4 yrs average).
General staff morale is quite low
Very ambitions profit goals by Management which translates to intense target pressure on the staff.
Aggressive cost cutting, making it difficult for you to get the essential tools necessary to do the job.

Having outlined these, I did not work in Diamond bank but from my interaction with some of their staff, I also feel they have their issues but seem less demanding. Overall, if you want to be in marketing, GTB has a better brand but expect immense pressure. That may not be an issue if you have one billionaire as an uncle who is willing to help. Otherwise, think twice!

Wish you the best

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