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Fkforyou:
Strangely enough I don't see anything wrong with what she did, maybe because I'm not married yet.

Or I guess the major issue is that she didn't seek your approval....

But, does it mean you always seek her approval before you dash anyone money?

Just asking....

may God bless u.

lawman88:
Nobody is even pressurizing her. I told her to relax and prepare to go back to school. I'm a Ph.D. student and if pregnancy doesn't come now, I don't have wahala for that. I married early because I don't want to fornicate anymore not really to get children now

sir pls zip ur home in.most people here are not matured or married to advice u.pls be matured in handling ur home it's very necessary. and try to build ur spiritual life so that u will not start having issues with ur wife later.

pocohantas:
I knew it. You better talk to your wife, listen to her and support her. Next thing, they tell her it's your mother that tied her womb.
The main trouble will start.

It's too early to be under such pressure.
Is this pressure internal or external? Never mind.

Just, talk to her. You both should be aware of such spending.

lady she is a Catholic .pls stop been a fanatic.u just spoilt everything with this singular comment.

lawman88:
Yes. She is trying to conceive. The marriage is just four months

pls appreciate ur wife,she is doing all these for both of u well being by the way it's her sweat and money.when the blessings begin to flow u will not complain that it's way too much oo.learn to stand by her decisions.tank God she is not materialistic.

ubunja:
if i were you i would be filing for divorce. she respects the pastor's dick more than your own dick. her and the pastor deserve each other

U see ur life?? take a break bro.

u had beta listen to ur mum.what an elder sees sitting u can never see even if u climb an iroko tree.traditions run deep.if ur mum says she is an outcast I will advice u to go ahead becus it has been abolished but this one my brother forget it before u regret it.and pray very well marriage is not a playing ground.

[quote author=rollcoast post=63817135][/quote]hmmm

Ok ooo

Jman06:
I want to believe that all these MEN attacking the op don't cheat on their wives as well. If that's the case, then their attacks on the op are justified, if not, then they are biiiiiig hypocrites !

a cold bottle of any drink of ur choice for u.so on point.

Newboss:
Why do these people still get involved in this scam called marriage?

You get married to her to tie her down legally, ba?

Funny people!

The heart wonders to where it pleases, my people!

Use your heads people! Some even send their people to get a wife for them. After getting the wife for you the way you get Condom from a Pharmacy, what's the sense in it when you start living like cat and dogs for the rest of your lives hoping for either a divorce or the death of your spouse in order to be free.

Come on, you could have kept your freedom and still live your life to the fullest while having him or her as a companion and mother or father of your kids.

If you think about marriage critically, you will see that there is no use. 5 years into marriage, it's well known that most couples hardly have regular sex. Why? Basic psychology!

But those 2 could have been dating for 15 years and having the best of moments. No, it's not about the right person! We've seen this stuff play out again and again.

Most are married and lonely and can't even divorce because that's not enough ground for divorce! You are practically messed up because there's no more love in the bucket! But you could have taken a walk away if that were to occur in a relationship.

Just separate from her and file for divorce before she poison you and elope with her love bird.

Hmmm I just tire for sum comments like this.I reserve my comment.

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

sir I will advice u don't divorce her yet.just test her first by playing a massive trick on her.get her attention to urslf by pretending u are cheating in her let her feel ur pains.let her notice u are seeing anoda lady.sumtymes we need to do sum crazy tins just to prove a point and let our partner know our worth,if she loves u she will fight the invisible lady and seek ur attention but if she is not meant for u let her go nuttin kills a man faster than a cheating wife.best of luck. pls I mean pretend to cheat on her oo.

uboma:
Happy New Year 2018 to you donnaD.
Best wishes to you.

tanks so much sweetie.

shout out to uboma dfreeguy enemyofprogress scotfree and to all my followers u guys made NL to be so much fun.prosperous new yr.

Toks2008:
Shakara

for wetin na??

Dafreeguy:

onye nkem wetin dey worry ur face??that reminds me whey enemyofprogress slf? ?abi no service for him village.

Toks2008:
6


So nairaland has all these beauties and Seun is still single.

I guess it's high time I got me a babe on nairaland...been dulling myself for years...

All the ladies with tally number expect my PMs and you must respond else...

Lol ehnnn it's now i understand ur number on my comment u are too nawti abeg no join me abeg.

Toks2008:
3

wetin be 3??

my humble self afta vigil.

GoodGovernance:
Do not be daft!

Can a 100% privatised company be using gov.ng domain?


https://niomco.gov.ng/



Stupidity is when you allow junk journalism and the band wagon effect,to direct your sense of reasoning.

oga park well.No need for the insults by the way u are not sarikki abeg don't start with me,na comment i post I no be buhari or the person that opened the thread.

hakeem4:
tattoos of 12 different faces the thing go resemble eczema for body

Lol daz y i can't do it.

where is sarriki and co,abeg I dey wait for una comments oo.

Dafreeguy:
U see your life? tonto dike the 2nd

e concern u??

this year is the worst for me since my life.I pray tomorrow wud be greater.

Dafreeguy:
I like u that's y ayam pitying u oo..just imaging ur body shape after 12 shildren

everything na packaging,worst comes to worst I do comestic surgery.

me too resemble omotola.abi I lie??.NL abeg make una judge.

Dafreeguy:


u be rat?

which one come be ur own can't i give birth as many as I want in peace again??is it ur body??or are u going to be their father??stop drinking panadol for my own headache.

intresting make dem kill dere selves.rubbish.

wetin concern bird and tooth brush.I don't care.

how can i??when I want to have a house full of kids,like 12.