Good morning fellow nairalands.....
there is this beautiful and well manner girl. we meet in Abuja early june last year. unfortunately we are from same state same geopolitical zone.. though diferent communities.
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we exchange numbers. ever since we have being dating online to cut the story short.
we have plan to get married..... so on this xmas when i travel back home after informing my parent about it...
my mum oblige that our community doesnt marry from there community..... reason because there gods doesnt allow outsider to marry there daughter.......
am really confuse because i dont want take action that i will live to regret it for the rest of my life... any one with similar experience should please advice...
the truth is that we really love each other so much..

if you and the girl beleive in jesus christ.go ahead and marry the girl.the day u gave your life to christ,every cause attach to you has been broken except if u doubt it.God is bigger than any gods.

Listen to the word of elder.

Go and ask question first,from the girl's village

u had beta listen to ur mum.what an elder sees sitting u can never see even if u climb an iroko tree.traditions run deep.if ur mum says she is an outcast I will advice u to go ahead becus it has been abolished but this one my brother forget it before u regret it.and pray very well marriage is not a playing ground.

∆ The gods are not to be blamed ∆

Listen to you mum, love is never enough.

Blackhawk03:
Listen to you mum, love is never enough.

honestly that is the only option i have...
courage to tell her abt it right now is even a problem for me...

OrestesDante:



∆ The gods are not to be blamed ∆

i only thought things like dis only happen on movies! but look @ it b4 my own eyes....

Blackhawk03:
Listen to you mum, love is never enough.

thanks dear!

Mom knows best Sonny...Entering into a marital bondage is not a good idea, you can always love another!

mikejj:
if you and the girl beleive in jesus christ.go ahead and marry the girl.the day u gave your life to christ,every cause attach to you has been broken except if u doubt it.God is bigger than any gods.

Traditions shouldn't be overlooked unno?

LivinaPatrick:
Go and ask question first,from the girl's village

thanks dear.. i really want to do that!!!

neloyah:




Traditions shouldn't be overlooked unno?

yep true but how long shall this tradition decide ones fate?huh

mikejj:
yep true but how long shall this tradition decide ones fate?huh

For as long as they can lol

neloyah:




For as long as they can lol

funny you but seriously this tradition matter taya me

mikejj:
funny you but seriously this tradition matter taya me

no make im taya you o.. I don't think we'd have existed if tradition didn't exist,so abolishing them totally will have it's negative impact on us..so we have to live with them just as we've learnt to..

mikejj:
funny you but seriously this tradition matter taya me

my dear tell you....

neloyah:



no make im taya you o.. I don't think we'd have existed if tradition didn't exist,so abolishing them totally will have it's negative impact on us..so we have to live with them just as we've learnt to..

i tink guys should start asking any lady they meet about her tradition before getting into any serious thing.i dnt believe in tradition sha its a festish believe dat works on whoever cares.