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SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Portugal: International Friendly (1 - 2) On 10th June 2026 by donself9: 10:12pm On Jun 10
prinsam30:
Exactly what I was saying na, make them bring that small boy wetin be him name sef
I think they just brought in the boy you are asking of abdullahi
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Portugal: International Friendly (1 - 2) On 10th June 2026 by donself9: 9:52pm On Jun 10
prinsam30:
Our main problem for this first half na our forwards, they are not playing a team game at all, na this kind thing dey osimeh
Is it just the attack you are seeing, our defence nkor, akpan just dey leak on his side n they are focusing on that side
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Portugal: International Friendly (1 - 2) On 10th June 2026 by donself9: 9:47pm On Jun 10
Eriokanmi:
This is worser than division 3 of the Brazilian national team. Glad we didn't go to the world cup
You probably dont know what you are saying ...

Look at what portugal fielded .. They are not our mate at ALL in rating, i am surprised We could even equalize that fast

Bro .. Man pass Man .. nigeria try base on 1st half so far
PoliticsRe: PIDOM Says NDC Aspirant Made To Pay ₦20 Million, Petitions EFCC by donself9: 7:22pm On Jun 10
yarimo:
Did APC announced their forms is free ? Simple question you are still leaving the road to bush path. Did APC instruct chief priest to pay certain amount of money apart from nomination fee and also directed him to sign a document that he won't sue APC like they did to this NDC aspiran? Isn't that simple question?
Some question no need answer, what you hold on to as point are still "allegations" .. and the accused have threatened to sue

Pray Kenneth don't withdraw his statement, when they get to court then you might find answer

your questions are baseless cos they are still allegations
PoliticsRe: PIDOM Says NDC Aspirant Made To Pay ₦20 Million, Petitions EFCC by donself9: 3:51pm On Jun 10
DomPerignon:
Lolz.

Why no obidient get nomination from Dickson supreme selection committee?

Why were all Obidients including Aisha denied even primaries?

You go explain tire.
Which one is why ?? Why ?? did Peter Obi force any of them to follow him to NDC

Do you know the agreement Peter obi n NDC have, do you think NDC dont have have there own people in mind

Anyone with sense would have notice by now that Peter Obi as distance himself from Aisha yusuf, kenneth nd other cloutchasers that using him to make fame & money, when you listen kenneth all you see is " Pained" they need peter obi, But Peter obi as seen them for who they are ..cloutchasers

explain weytin .. You guyz have tried everything to tarnish Peter obi as corrupt ko wole 🤪 try another mole
PoliticsRe: PIDOM Says NDC Aspirant Made To Pay ₦20 Million, Petitions EFCC by donself9: 3:40pm On Jun 10
yarimo:
Did APC told chief priest to pay a certain amount apart from nomination form fee , and he must sign a document not to sue APC for that certain amount? You can now see who is leaving road to find bush path
The Fact according to Chief priest himself and what we all know is APC form is not Free

All that talk, they signed agreement is baseless and irrelevant, Court wont just throw them out, dem fit pay fine

Weyrey said he has Reciept, On the Fidelity app naa Peter obi recieve 10m, naa Obi get NDC

they want to ride on Peter obi name to contest, so when they win they decamp into apc n spend their money their.

Kenneth just put himself out as being stewpid, i can't even believe a lawyer we stake himself on the chat he posted ...smh
PoliticsRe: PIDOM Says NDC Aspirant Made To Pay ₦20 Million, Petitions EFCC by donself9: 12:25pm On Jun 10
My
DomPerignon:
NDC don hammer.

They told you to sign a document agreeing to waive your right to sue the party and you foolishly agreed.

Well, the law does not recognize civil agreements between two parties if the intention of one of the parties is to commit an act of crime.

You can't drag a minor into your room and then demand she signs an agreement that she agreed or consented to be raped by you.

As long as she is a minor, she can't enter any agreement and secondly, civil agreements do not apply when the law is being broken or used as a means to absolve criminality.
Why una like to dey leave Road, dey find bush path ... ALL this allegation we are hearing is it New, is it only in NDC pay to buy form

Did chief priest not buy form in APC nd a consensus candidate was picked over him ... so why is it like party asking for payment naa Romance scam under NDC

Imagine someone bought presidential form of APC against Tinubu ... now that one tew will cry fowl

I Believe they ALL had choice, when you knew it was wrong to pay for NDC form .. Why did you guyz pay

Sowore party dey there, go there presidential form is free, buh you guyz think you are smart you want to ride on Peter obi influence in NDC enter house nd decamp to APC singing Tinubu on your mandate. A party like NDC where they wan see money to Run formidable opposition if they dont generate income
PoliticsRe: Obi: Kenneth Okonkwo Releases WhatsApp Chat With NDC Aspirant, Obunike Ohaegbu by donself9: 9:57am On Jun 10
chopnaira:
Everywhere scatter. Those 10million naira pained a lot of people.
If e pain dem and they think its criminality, they have choice ...go to PDP or SDP or ADC where Ticket is free for All

Speaking Generally, how do they expect a newly formed party to function, organise events and campaign without Generating Money

For certain things, Requisite must be set just to limit applicant that why in university for instance, medicine you see high cut off mark ..

what is paramount is the Law position, Did NDC break any law ... we can now hold dem from there

all this ranting from kenneth is to what end, a man left ADC then suddenly you start attacking him, saying as his spokeperson you have all his crimes in 2023

Which crime Obi wan commit in 2023 .. e kill aspirants or he hacked inec portal or Peter obi is the one sponsoring Fulani herdsmen under Buhari ...very funny lots
PoliticsRe: Kenneth Okonkwo Mocks Peter Obi Over The 7 Day Ultimatum Letter by donself9: 8:50am On Jun 10
FSBoperator:
Una sure say. Giringori no go drop his Presidential ambition .
If with the Level of insecurity & uproar from Nigerians against Tinubu ... Bola no drop his presidential re election

So naa obi go Drop ... because of hollywood actor, Wike say the most angry Nigerian 🤣

When you look at All this people throwin accusations & alledging about peter Obi ... They are people that even gain recognition bcoz of Peter Obi

Kenneth, Abure, Datti ... What is there public acceptance
PoliticsRe: INEC Removes Ahmed Yayari And Daniel Woyengikuro As PDP Officials From Its Site by donself9: 10:48pm On Jun 09
seunmsg:
BREAKING: INEC has removed the names of Ahmed Yayari and Daniel Woyengikuro from its portal as PDP National Treasurer and National Financial Secretary, respectively, replacing both names with Odeyemi Mackson Oladiran and Eyim Donatus Henry as the new executives.

Ahmed and Daniel are part of the Makinde-backed Turaki faction while Odeyemi and Eyim are members of the FCT Minister Nyesom Wike's faction, which is also the recognised faction of the PDP.

INEC had earlier recognised the FCT Minister's faction by putting the names of Abdulrahman Mohammed as the National Chairman and Samuel Anyanwu as the National Secretary, but had left the names of Ahmed Yayari and Daniel as part of the executives, a situation which created confusion.

With the recent update on its portal, all executives of the PDP on INEC's portal are now aligned with FCT Minister Nyesom Wike.

Source
Posting INEC portal to me, thats No evidence .. our arguement is appeal court verdict.

What i want is the last Appeal court judgement that validated your Stand i.e anyamwu is recognised nd all they did is valid. Post the appeal court judgement transcript that upheld FHC judgement 🤣 ... So arisetv reuben abati twisted a court judgement on national Tv ..nd no consequences yet.

Did you listen to the arisetv program i posted at All undecided
PoliticsRe: PDP Professionals Order Wike Loyalists To Vacate Wadata Plaza by donself9: 5:32pm On Jun 09
seunmsg:
So, what order did the court gave that you want INEC to obey?

Let me help you a bit, stop following the narrative or interpretation of a partisan and paid media. The court of appeal never set aside the judgement of the Ibadan High Court. In fact, the appeal filed by Turaki’s group was dismissed. So, when an appeal is dismissed and the court refused to set aside the judgement of the trial court, that’s a big loss for the appellant and not a victory.

Again, even if the court had dissolved the NWC, the Turaki group cannot be the beneficiary except the court expressly gave such an order and which wasn’t the case. The Turaki group died after the Supreme Court judgement. The BOT has no power to bring them back. Even if there is a vacancy, it is only the NEC that can appoint an interim NWC and not an expired BOT led by Wabara.
Let me 1st come in here, Even the seyi fraction has acceted turaki leadership that stems from the ibadan convention can't is null & void that why the currently they reverted to the WAbara BOT that was lastly constituted in accordance with the Party rule at anytime the party leadership can't be empty
Fortunately the legal Wabara BOT are on Turaki fraction nd thats where wike lost out.
As at today, Wike is the most senior NEC member and he’s the only one that can mobilize majority of NEC members to meet and appoint an interim NWC in case of any vacancy.
If the supreme court upheld the suspension of Ajibade, Anyamwu & likes ... there is no way the Abuja convention that produced Wike is valid..
Anything that comes from Anyanwu as secretary after suspension is null & void thats the court position.
So, what orders did you guys want INEC to obey when the court dismissed the appeal and never gave any order?
So at these level ... inec should open contact with PDP wabara BoT until they converge n produce a " Leader " & NEC ..thats the appropriate move for inec But if they chose to go ahead with WiKe fine ! Court is waiting for Amupitan inec

Sebi " statuo anti bello" prof . Amupitan did his Wish, supreme court embrassed him, 2nd one is loading
CelebritiesRe: Why I Celebrate When People Get Divorced – Comedian, Bovi by donself9: 2:49pm On Jun 09
osumyke:
It's better to stay alive divorced than die in a marriage that is fruitless
Ose motivational speakers, an average Nigerian life is full of problem even as single ... We dont tell ourselves to commit suicide

life throw all kinds all shiit at single, we motivate ourselves and say Na whu give up fvckup BUT the moment we mention marriage .. Our modern people believe Divorces is the solution, any inconvenience they prescribe Divorce

If its not life threaten or domestic violence gone norm ...i don't support Divorce

some of you, alone your life is full of shit ..do you divorce yourself
PoliticsRe: PDP Professionals Order Wike Loyalists To Vacate Wadata Plaza by donself9: 2:40pm On Jun 09
seunmsg:
Can you bring out the court judgement that says INEC should de-recognize the Abdulrahman led NWC and recognize the Turaki group that was disbanded by the Supreme Court?
I am not the type to go round arguing blindly, i couldnt lay my hands on the appeal CTC, you can discredit me if you have your own judgement

BUT Here are evidences i find reliable, lets hope you have a counter evidence likewise, listen to the


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63tRreBH2gE&pp=ugUEEgJlbg%3D%3D

More.

PoliticsRe: PDP Professionals Order Wike Loyalists To Vacate Wadata Plaza by donself9: 9:33am On Jun 09
seunmsg:
Why? Because a faceless group issued an irrelevant statement? Who takes this kind of sponsored rubbish seriously? Every sensible person knows who the recognized leasers of PDP are. They are in Wadata plaza conducting the business of the party daily. The online faction can keep making noise online, nobody cares. Their candidates (if they have any) will contest their election online as usual.
I don't know why a suppose human being will think and talk like a program computer village robot

Even with the recent Appeal court judgement in circulation ... don't you know when to just shut up undecided

Is Pdp Wike inheritance abi iyalaya Wike lo ko owo si le to form PDP in '99

even Atiku, who financed pdp in '99 is not holding unto PDP like is family inheritance, who the hell is Wike in '99 when they formed that party.

SO which court Judgement validly puts Wike fraction in Pdp plaza
PoliticsRe: Beware, Obi, Supporters Destroyed Labour Party, Abure Cautions Dickson by donself9: 8:33am On Jun 09
What a joke, can you just imagine

What was LP state before Obi joined the party. .. who were they nd what was LP position on national scale

To assert i spoiled your car ... Is the car in good condition before you gave it to me

shebi Peter Obi has left them now, why is LP not " trending" .. If anybody will talk should it be Abure that is imposing himself on the party despite court judgement he is still fighting tooth & nail

How many people can because of Abure vote LP undecided
PoliticsRe: Rotimi Amaechi Arrives At Atiku Abubakar's Residence by donself9: 11:11pm On Jun 08
Tareq1105:
Has Nigerians ever wanted anyone? Is it not about tribe and religion? Who's that consensus person Nigerians ever wanted?
In 2011 ... Good luck jonathan was onr consensus candidate both young & old wanted we fought for to even take his rightful play after yaradua death ..

Buhari .. No one alive then won't remember the sai baba rave , remember as Nigerians chant " change" in 2015

There you have it
PoliticsRe: Rotimi Amaechi Arrives At Atiku Abubakar's Residence by donself9: 9:18pm On Jun 08
Richtaiwo:
These are the opposition Tinubu sees as actual opposition, not this Peter Obi and his overgrown puppies jumping up and down like confused kangaroos.
Even if una papa don't see any of the candidate as opposition becos he has inec in his pocket

Him & his fake pastor wife knows majority of Nigerians don't want them
EducationRe: Rachael Alamu Speaks In New Video, Reveals What The Bandits Want by donself9: 6:03pm On Jun 08
Jakumo:
It is utterly baffling that the same technology used to located the phone of kidnappers in Ibadan after just 3 days, is not being used to locate the kidnappers of the Oyo State children who post regular video messages online.
Its not the same modus operandi with bandit

Most of the videos are recorded from camcorders moved to stole identity phones to share

Its so bad that the person posting the video online can be in Niger and the victims are on the move in katsina forest

You are dealing with animals, what gives this animals out is not gadgets But intelligence gathering .. Someone saw them moving n tip the security around

If we were a country like US that have satelite to monitor n detect .. that would have being our leverage
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Fixing Nigeria — Nollywood Actors, Others Declare Support For Tinubu by donself9: 5:52pm On Jun 08
[quote author=demstone post=139655407]
1] ACCORDING TO ZAINAB [MAY 2022] SHE SAID IT WAS OVER 80% ND COUNTING
ACCORDING TO GAURDIAN [JULY 2023] .. IT CROSSED 100% IN THE 1ST 4 MONTHS OF 2023
Now i am beginning to ask what is the objective of comparing failure with failure, the truth is Nigeria had it really worst under APC from which ever way we chose to look at it.

Its funny how you think casting apc buhari will lift apc Tinubu Up .. No be una party finish us ..so what are we arguing


·
18 Jul 2023 — In the first four months of the year, the debt service to income ratio was over 100 per cent but the spike was cancelled subsequently}

NEVER was 100% recorded. Below attached evidence. I am done with zainab whatever


NOT ALSO FORGETTING THAT A SIGNIFICANT PART OF PMB'S REVENUE GENERATED WAS { 30 TRILLION PRINTED}

2] I REPEAT THE AVERAGE CRUDE PRODUCTION IN 2022 WAS 1.1MBPD,, [ IT STARTED IN JAN AT 1.4MBPD ENDED THE YEAR AT BELOW 1MBPD}
All this arguement, comparing failure to failure Both Buhari or Tinubu have not outshine GeJ record .. they told us Pdp was living in bondage who is worst
3] WE ARE TALKING ABOUT DEBT/ REVENUE RATIO... SO UR DEBT MIGHT INCREASE BUT A BIGGER RISE IN REVENUE WOULD LEAD TO A DROP IN DEBT/REVENUE
Don't you read, check the current budget implementation % nd tell us the impact of so called " high revenue" undecided haba !
4]SAUDI ARABIA PRODUCES OVER 10MBPD AS AGAINST NIGERIAS OVER 1MBPD
SAUDI ARBIA HAS A POPULATION OF 37M AS AGAINST NIGERIAS OVER 240M
SAUDI ARABIS CHARGES 15% VAT NIGERIA 7.5% VAT
SAUDI ARABIA SPENDS $3 TO PRODUCE A BARREL OF CRUDE NIGERIA DUE TO MILITANCY ETC SPENDS $40
LET'S NOT EVEN TALK ABOUT COMPANY TAX & TAX COMPLIANCE

U'VE TO B COMPLETELY OUT OF UR MIND TO COMPARE SAUDI ARABIA WITH NIGERIA
Who is this guy, You brought saudi up saying they are collecting higher tax ... Nd i schooled you saudi arabia might Tax high buh what the govt is givng back to her people justifies the Tax ... I call it Governance reflective unlike Nigeria govt they dont even merit that 7%

You brought saudi up ..now you say i am comparing.. na waa o!
BusinessRe: How My Daughter Ended My Retirement Plan - Femi Otedola by donself9: 5:14pm On Jun 08
Emeskhalifa:
Na so your friend Dangote told us he started from scratch

Person wey hin granpa was the richest man in West Africa as of their time
Let even assume your lies is true

In today world how children have beaten the Father net worth is

Adenuga ... His children are grown

adeleke .... Why Davido never get money pass him papa networth.
RomanceRe: He Cancelled The Wedding Because I Missed His Father's Funeral… by donself9: 2:06pm On Jun 08
edogu:
If you read my post, I clearly stated in my post 'if her narration is true'. There's no doubt she's supposed to be there but what if her nature of job doesn't permit that. Moreover, they're not married yet. So on what basis is she going to take permission from her workplace.
I am also making my submission on the bases her narration is true.

If you are not a surgeon,or military it will be really hard for people to understand you cant gracetheire event esp. When we share strong tides

i like said it not a matter of who is wrong or who is right anymore, they've passed that

Final decisions are to be made, so its very imperative she search her own soul over the 3 things.

beyond that incident ... any deal breaker on the Man part or does he tick the boxes
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Fixing Nigeria — Nollywood Actors, Others Declare Support For Tinubu by donself9: 7:42am On Jun 08
Rf[quote author=demstone post=139648289
]1] SPENDING 100% OF REVENUE SERVICING DEBT IS A STATEMENT MADE BY THE MINISTER OF FINANCE UNDER PMB
you suck at lies, under PMB we had two ministers, Ahmed zainab did not say we are using 100% to service loan thats not even feasible ..if you had knowledge.
Below i attached evidence.

2] NIGERIAS PRECISE AVG CRUDE PRODUCTION FOR 2022 WAS 1.1MBPD TODY IT IS 1.66MBPD
That is another stale lie, in 2022 we average around 1.3m barrel. Google am
and lemme remind you the last govt you are discrediting so hard is yur APC .. either ways you are fvcked
3] YES LOANS HAVE INCRASED BUT U ALSO FORGET THAT REVENUE HAS GROWN FROM LESS THAM 10TRILLION TO ALMOST 30TRILLION
You lack comprehension, Don't you know as our loan is increasing so also is the interest increase.
So when you counter with we are making more Revenue how does it negate junk of the revenue goes into servicing the bloated interest we have to pay

Assuming as we make more revenue we tone down on loan ..then the idea of " more revenue" will add up
4] PERHAPS U DONT KNOW THAT EVEN SAUDI ARABIA WITH 10MBPD CRUDE ND A POPULATION ABOUT THE SIZE OF LAGOS ND OGUN

CHARGES 15% VAT AS AGAINST NIGERIAS 7.5%
ND 20% TO 85% CORPORATE INCOME TAX
Saudi arabia can charge 15% VAT cos the Govt is efficient in All provisions, it is " service reflective " it fair n good to know i paid for what i enjoyed

The government offers broad social protections, including direct cash assistance, housing subsidies, unemployment benefits, and free universal healthcare, Free public education at all levels
saudi " SANED" for unemployed nkor .. google all this things .. What is nigeria govt doing to warrant 7% sef, security they cant even provide
5] ON NIGERIAS ECONOMIC PERFORMANCE
INTERNATIONAL RATING AGENCY LIKE FITCH, MOODY & S&P HAVE ALL UPGRADED NIGERIAS SOVEREIGN RATINGS
I WOULD LOVE TO BELIEVE U KNOW THEY KNOW BETTER THAN U
[/quote]I won't even waste time wih you here, A blind man does not need a weather man to tell if its Raining or its hot outside.

PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Fixing Nigeria — Nollywood Actors, Others Declare Support For Tinubu by donself9: 11:35pm On Jun 07
[quote author=demstone post=139648033]1] IN 2022 WE USED OVER 100% OF OUR REVENUE TO SERVICE DEBT TODAY IT IS ABOUT 65%

you for 1st call me kid naw, mr there was no time we used 100% revenue to service debt .. It not even tenable Tinubu debt alone is more than 99 - 22 loan so if we use 100%, infact Tinubu will need more than 100% of our revenue now

2] IN 2022 CRUDE OIL PRODUCTION INCLUDING CONCENTRATES WAS ABOUT 1MBPD TODAY IS IS OVER 1.6MBPD

Big baseless lie, under Buhari Nigeria recorded 2m barrel in 2019 nd it fell to 1.3 barrels in 2022. No dey lie

till today we are still below 2m bench mark. Fact check feel free

3] TODAY ONLY ABOUT 25% OF THE 2025 REVENUE CAME FROM CRUDE SALE AS AGAINST ABOUT 90% DEPENCE ON CRUDE A FEW YEARS AGO
Whatever your drift is, consider it irrelevant base on how poorly govt have being implementing the budget .. Go do your research

4] PRODUCTIVE & STABLE NATIONS DO NOT BUILD THERE FUTURE AROUND NATURAL RESOURCES THAT CAN DRY UP AT ANY TIME
DEY PREFER TAX..
what are you saying, leave discussions for those wey get intelligence naw .. as developed as Turkeye is today they are still pained n wishing they had " crude" like there neighbours. Dry up, have water from ground dry up
Countries consider richiest are rich cos of natural resources, when you have natural resource you have productivity in an ideal state

5] EVERYONE WHO IS HONEST WITH DEM SELVES KNOW NIGERIA LITERARILY DIED IN 2023 ND 2024
WE ONLY STARTED WAKING-UP IN 2025...
2023 & 2024 BUDGET CONFUSION
NOW AFFECTING 2025 & 2026 BUDGET IS SOMETHING EXPECTED BY DOZ SINCERE WITH DEMSELVES..
Nigeria died i know of Buh that we are waking up 🤣🤣 .. How ?? asides concorted data Tinubu boiz throw around please tell me things you have seen restore

you can't talk of " re wake" where " nothing is "restored"
RomanceRe: He Cancelled The Wedding Because I Missed His Father's Funeral… by donself9: 11:05pm On Jun 07
edogu:
This is the type of marriage proposal that's referred to as 'jump and pass'. If the narration is true then the op needs to go for thanksgiving. God just delivered her from family of narcissists. It's always all about them. Your interest doesn't matter to them. It's always about me, me and me.
Dont just conclude He is a narcissists, put yourself in the Guy shoe

@your father burial, the woman you want to marry will not be present cos of her job ... even if you understand her its still going to hurt

I want to guess, the Guy gave her that condition not becos he wants to cancel buh to scare her hoping she will force her way to come ... Which might also be interpreted to I prioritize "US"

She is speaking from her own angle, we havent heard the Guy, till today it stil hurt me that my best friend didnt cum to my father burial ... this is someone i will travel to sokoto for, if na there he wan do birthday. We are humans afterall

My advise to the lady is before you throw away what you have in your hands, be sure naa tissue paper or Tinubu 2027 flier
RomanceRe: He Cancelled The Wedding Because I Missed His Father's Funeral… by donself9: 10:50pm On Jun 07
AdisGlobal01:
SHE_NEEDS_YOUR_ADVICE

My wedding was scheduled for March this year, but everything changed after my fiancé's father passed away unexpectedly in November.

His funeral was held just three weeks later, in December. I genuinely wanted to attend, but there was one major problem: my employer had a strict policy against granting leave during the December holiday period. When I accepted the job, this condition was clearly stated. Despite explaining my situation and pleading for an exception, my request was denied.

I informed my fiancé immediately. At first, he appeared understanding. I even contributed financially to support the funeral arrangements.

Then his mother called.

She told me that if I truly wanted to become part of their family, I had to be physically present at her husband's funeral. I tried explaining my circumstances, but she ended the call before I could finish.

When I called my fiancé afterward, I expected him to stand by me. Instead, he asked:

"If it were your own father, wouldn't you find a way to attend?"

I explained that the situations were different because my employer might make an exception if it were my immediate family member.

That was when he dropped the bombshell:

"No presence. No wedding."

I thought grief was speaking. I thought time would calm him down.

I was wrong.

The wedding was officially cancelled.

My family tried everything to reconcile the situation, but his family refused every attempt. Eventually, my father advised me to accept the loss and move forward with my life.

It broke me, but I did.

Months passed.

Then, on May 20th, my ex-fiancé called me.

What he said left me speechless.

According to him, I had failed the test of being a good wife because I stopped trying to convince his family after the wedding was cancelled. He said a "real wife" would have kept begging until she was accepted.

Then he announced that he had "forgiven" me.

Not only that, he had already chosen a new wedding date in August and expected me to start preparing immediately.

As if the breakup had never happened.

As if my feelings didn't matter.

As if he alone had the authority to decide when a relationship ends—and when it resumes.

Without hesitation, I told him I was no longer interested.

His response shocked me even more.

He said:

"I'm not done. You don't have the right to be done."

I blocked his number immediately.

But that wasn't the end.

A few days later, he appeared at my father's house carrying the bride price and all the marriage items he had previously rejected.

My father told him clearly:

"My daughter has moved on. As far as this family is concerned, she is no longer available."

Still, he refused to accept it.

Since then, he and his mother have continued calling, visiting, and pressuring both me and my family despite my repeated refusal.

Now I'm beginning to wonder:

Is this really about love, or is there something deeper behind their sudden determination?

What troubles me most is the mindset that someone can cancel a wedding, disappear for months, return when it suits them, and expect another person to simply obey.

I am now considering legal action because the constant calls, visits, and refusal to respect my decision are becoming disturbing.

My question is:

If someone ends a relationship, then later decides to "forgive" you and resume the wedding without your consent, would you see that as love... or as a dangerous sense of entitlement?

What would you do if you were in my shoes?
This is not a question of who is wrong or who is right ! These are lifetime decisions one must get right or you endup regretting.

You are lost in a Maze nd only you can get yourself out asking your deep question you must answer sincerely

1. Do you still love this guy as before

2. what can of man is he, is he open minded or petty ... this is important so you know post marriage what living with him wil be like

3 .. Seek God guidances, is he the man for you or not. If you know how to talk to God, very important

Na my own 2cent be that, press ur stomach well before you close that door
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Fixing Nigeria — Nollywood Actors, Others Declare Support For Tinubu by donself9: 10:29pm On Jun 07
demstone:
U WRONG
UR POCKET IS ALWAYS LAST TO FEEL THE IMPACT OF A GROWING NATION

1] GOVT REVENUE GROWS

2] GOVT WORKERS GET PAID REGULARLY

4] INCREASED REVENUE LEADS TO IMPROVED INFRASTRUCTURE & SECURITY

5]INVESTORS START BRINGING IN MONEY TO TAKE ADVANGE OF IMPROVED INFRASTRUCTURE ND SECURITY

8] INVESTMENTS BRING JOBS .. DEN THE POCKET FEEL IT
MAYBE you are right my pocket might be the last to feel the impact of a growing economy, But you can't push " MY eye" to number two

I know a economic turn around when i see one, under Tinubu reform

1. Productivity & even crude supply are fallen down short instead

the budget reflect shortfalls n deficit such that we can even finance our capital expenditure to 40% sef

I dont know book buh i know no country as driven her economy to prosperity by Taxation & Loans, Tinubu reform is not productivity driven thats is the spoiler

A country using 90% of her revenue to service debt .... can't confuse me to be optimistic we are heading for Boom, how ?? show working
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is Fixing Nigeria — Nollywood Actors, Others Declare Support For Tinubu by donself9: 7:41pm On Jun 07
Ttalk:
Those people you are badmouthing are better exposed, better educated, well connected and more richer than you. No amount of insult will add to your account balance. Hustle o
Who needs better exposed, better educated and well connected to feel the sun his hot

Who needs phd or harvard degree to know the weather is COLD

There are things you not explain, IMPACT is something you must feel on your own

If its raining according to you and i dey sweat for armpit & inside boxers .. Bro trash your intelligence

If the economic is booming, na my reality i go take judge, i cant use your reality Bro and same goes for everyone

For you under Tinubu regime you have built 20 houses gud for you, buh how many Nigerians can even afford balance diet for a week .. You must be rich

Una go just dey shout hustle, person wey dey work 9- 5pm on fix salary .. that one no be hustle until e add kidnapping join

Person wey open shop dey sell car, no be economic go decide sales ..he go join bandits to make it Big

Hustle oo ! very funny lots
PoliticsRe: Joe Igbokwe Escapes Mob Attack At Ladipo Market, Lagos by donself9: 6:38am On Jun 07
chopnaira:
God saved that market. The state government would have shut it down for atleast 5 years.
You are so confident in baba sope regime you feel its military regime

Is lagos Govt ready to the amount they generate from ladipo market becos of one igbokwe, beside you if they go to court, you think Lagos will succeed lock it up 5yrs. Babies are now online
PoliticsRe: Joe Igbokwe Escapes Mob Attack At Ladipo Market, Lagos by donself9: 6:30am On Jun 07
Okoroawusa:
Before Igbos learn politics e go tey... aswear
you mean the backward politics we play in Nigeria, where the worst of us rule the best of us

Politics of baba sope, few people own Nigeria nd decide the fate of 250m people

Politics of some cabals are actually bigger than the country and they are untochable

Politics of i bought form for everybody therefore my interest must prevail at All time

Politics of people should keep sacrifice, embrace suffering while policians feast in a extravagant life

Politics of emi lo kan, politics of national cake

Politics that as kept of us backward as a nation, which decent, responsible person go wan learn naija politics
TravelRe: Man Labeled As Bandit Because He Was Fulani, Relocates To Ghana From Lagos by donself9: 5:54pm On Jun 06
Babangidapikin:
Sorry about that, I feel your pain... We use to live well and happy before, now politicians have weaponized religion, ethnicity, and poverty
It's not just about what the politicians did or didn't do,

I will blame the Decent Fulanis society, it's been a long years of there name has been in the mud What did they do as " Disclaimer"

How much were they vocal in condemning and exposing the bad eggs among them, the truth is they didnt nothing, infact under Buhari the Fulanis condone there Bad eggs, our brothers our sons

that why one still went out to say Bandits are prodigal sons, ofcus there wil be stereotype which is why i dont pity them
buhari protected killers herdsmen
CrimeRe: Oyo Kidnapping: Muslims Reject Bandits’ Demand For Sharia law by donself9: 3:19pm On Jun 06
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Biafrannuke:
Beheading on camera is a classic jihadist propaganda and not bandits.
Their demand for Sharia clearly indicates that a jihadist is ongoing in the southwest and they have very high chances of success because of the high Muslim
populationhttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MMYqGV3SoKs radical Muslim clerics in Yorubaland and a Muslim political leadership in the southwest that seeks to bargain for political power with the Muslim north by sacrificing the region's religious diversity.
mr, Don't spread misinformation or lies, their is no empirical fact or data that depict that SW is muslim dominated in anyway.

That why out of 6 states in the SW you hardly see Muslim governor more than 1 at any inauguration since '99

ekiti is highly xtain dominated, even Oyo i lived in ibadan .. Before you see 1 mosque you don see 10 churches in one area.
Ondo is also more of xtain and Lagos is xtained dominated as well maybe Ogun get more muslims

Buh on a general scale, SW is xtain dominated, sharia can never never happen
Christianity EtcRe: “will Kidnappers Kidnap The President’s Son?” — Oyedepo’s Remarks by donself9: 12:57pm On Jun 06
moyinoluwabun:
I guess people didnt actually get Baba Oyedepo's message. God will heal our land
Trust me ! they did not 🤣 ..smh

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