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VanillaIyce:
After getting the advices, can I get the job?

stanliwise:
Let everything go for good. Withheld nothing
You only need to learn your lessons. Meanwhile you created your own problem.

You’re a Drama king

Emmatech1996:
This matter wey dey on ground so... e heavy for mouth.

My advice is this...don't let emotions override you.

Your future and the future of your unborn kids dey at stake here

Don't bring forth children to suffer....no be every love story dey end well....even romeo and juliet own been get k-leg

Nazgul:
Never mix business and pleasure. The two are terrible combinations.

You're very lucky that your business is still up and running despite the huge unaccounted funds you kept withdrawing to satisfy your girl.

Back to the issue, I expected you to stand by your word from the moment you discovered she was AS and cut off all ties with her, but you were too weak to do so and she capitalized on that to her advantage by forcing you to go out of your way to ensure that she's comfortable regardless of what it's going to cost you.

Since she's tendered a resignation letter, I'd say it's a good thing, accept it, pay her all her benefits and entitlements and bid her farewell, then concentrate on your business. Fuel is over N200 you can't afford to joke with your source of livelyhood.

PrimadonnaO:
Is this abortion thing that easy or what?

How were you two getting pregnant back to back knowing you'll abort the baby? .

And then you're contemplating what? Collecting everything you spent on her. #Sighs

How's she going to pay 700k rent with no job? Abeg, all these NL romance stories cause migraine!

Slynation:
The only thing I noticed here is someone being ungrateful, entitlement and self centered, This is an opportunity to let her go, don't looseguard since you both can't get married....

Since there is now vacancy at your work place, help the less privileged

skywalker240:
The moment a Nigerian Vagina person realize you are wealthy, she would polish and sharpen her straws with thinner and angle grinding machines.

But op you are sick, na so adam nuhu take start. How can you be sleeping with your employee?

Rocktation:
How wonderful that you find sense in shagging your way through, to getting the best hands on your work team- women, cat, rat and men together, so you can all be one big happy family..Wowww. The 49th law of power. Entrepreneur of the century.

DaddyRochie1642:
It seems you have Money,

Part Of Me wants to believe that uou wee Spending to "Impress her"... But dissecting this your story from My Surgical Lens, I don't think you were trying to 'Impress her" with your Spending, maybe you were trying to compensate for the Genotype not working out in Favour of you guys and it seems the lady wanted the Genotype issue to really work out for you guys that's why she was kinda being "Desperate" from your story.

Anyway, Oga, it seems like you're a good man and it seems like you have some money to spend,.... Accept her Resignation Letter, pay her the Complete Salary and Cut her Loose... You can leave the house you rented for her as a kind of "Compensation" for all the "Abortions" you and her have done.

I said what I said because the Lady in question according to you has talent in the "Customer Care Department", as least she was useful in your Company.

If the Lady in question was useless and contributed nothing to your Life, I would have personally roasted her with my Venomous tongue

Yusufisraelj:
DonSmith123rr4 - the statement above is the best counsel.

Do options 3 - accept her resignation and let her go, I don't form the habit of retrieving what I have personally given to a lady, business these days need strategic and dutifull planning, especially with the current rumor of increase in PMS to over #200.

Bro it will be difficult but it can be done. Don't entertain nonsense. Let her walk.

Equally don't get in the habit of cohabitation with your staff it's a recipe with disastrous consequences, going forward guide against this.

Mikester:
[color=navy]He also in some cases loses his productiveness. Men who fall in love especially with the wrong ladies will have inevitable troubles. [/color]

Xenry:
Truth be told; once you are a fine girl, you don make am.
How can you employ ur babe to work with you in your company, isn't that a big distraction? Don't let her distract you in your own company, else u go regret am because they are always liabilities.
Imagine if I have pussy, I for don make am tey tey.

Kriss216:
The condom becomes painful the moment she sees your payslip and potentials.

She's naturally a gold miner. Forget those niceties of hers.

Losing the baby is God's way of rescuing you from Delilah's trap.

Her resignation is one of the ways she's expressing her disappointments over her failed plans.

Accept her resignation with all your heart and stay away from Nigerian girls!