Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 7:53pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
Slynation:
The only thing I noticed here is someone being ungrateful, entitlement and self centered, This is an opportunity to let her go, don't looseguard since you both can't get married....
Since there is now vacancy at your work place, help the less privileged Thank you |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by PrimadonnaO(f): 9:19pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
Is this abortion thing that easy or what?
How were you two getting pregnant back to back knowing you'll abort the baby? .
And then you're contemplating what? Collecting everything you spent on her. #Sighs
How's she going to pay 700k rent with no job? Abeg, all these NL romance stories cause migraine! 1 Like |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by Nazgul: 9:51pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
Never mix business and pleasure. The two are terrible combinations.
You're very lucky that your business is still up and running despite the huge unaccounted funds you kept withdrawing to satisfy your girl.
Back to the issue, I expected you to stand by your word from the moment you discovered she was AS and cut off all ties with her, but you were too weak to do so and she capitalized on that to her advantage by forcing you to go out of your way to ensure that she's comfortable regardless of what it's going to cost you.
Since she's tendered a resignation letter, I'd say it's a good thing, accept it, pay her all her benefits and entitlements and bid her farewell, then concentrate on your business. Fuel is over N200 you can't afford to joke with your source of livelyhood. 1 Like |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 10:48pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: Is this abortion thing that easy or what?
How were you two getting pregnant back to back knowing you'll abort the baby? .
And then you're contemplating what? Collecting everything you spent on her. #Sighs
How's she going to pay 700k rent with no job? Abeg, all these NL romance stories cause migraine! Ok � thanks |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 10:49pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
Digested � thanks man Nazgul: Never mix business and pleasure. The two are terrible combinations.
You're very lucky that your business is still up and running despite the huge unaccounted funds you kept withdrawing to satisfy your girl.
Back to the issue, I expected you to stand by your word from the moment you discovered she was AS and cut off all ties with her, but you were too weak to do so and she capitalized on that to her advantage by forcing you to go out of your way to ensure that she's comfortable regardless of what it's going to cost you.
Since she's tendered a resignation letter, I'd say it's a good thing, accept it, pay her all her benefits and entitlements and bid her farewell, then concentrate on your business. Fuel is over N200 you can't afford to joke with your source of livelyhood. |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by yetunsbay(m): 11:01pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
If actors sees this script pere 2 Likes |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by SILVERLINES: 11:10pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4: So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.
Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.
Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.
Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex. Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.
Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK
1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny. 2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc 3. Accept and let everything go accept her resignation letter and retrieve all that you acquire for here. Nija girls very useless type of girls |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by SILVERLINES: 11:14pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
Michelle55: Inukwa.. Do what you feel is best for you guys biko. Lemme coman be going
Meanwhile, op is the vacancy still available? I mean the customer service position. dis one don d find boyfriend 1 Like |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by Emmatech1996: 11:20pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
This matter wey dey on ground so... e heavy for mouth.
My advice is this...don't let emotions override you.
Your future and the future of your unborn kids dey at stake here
Don't bring forth children to suffer....no be every love story dey end well....even romeo and juliet own been get k-leg |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by adajoe555: 11:21pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4: So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.
Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.
Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.
Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex. Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.
Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK
1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny. 2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc 3. Accept and let everything go My coursemate died last month due to SC crisis... please , don't put your unborn children and yourself into this stress. Let her go. |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by MufasaLion: 11:23pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4: So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.
Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.
Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.
Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex. Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.
Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK
1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny. 2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc 3. Accept and let everything go Leave that stupid H.O.E. |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by stanliwise(m): 11:28pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4: So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.
Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.
Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.
Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex. Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.
Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK
1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny. 2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc 3. Accept and let everything go Let everything go for good. Withheld nothing You only need to learn your lessons. Meanwhile you created your own problem. You’re a Drama king |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by stanliwise(m): 11:31pm On Mar 12, 2021 |
MufasaLion:
Leave that stupid H.O.E. Two people where having consensual sex and at the end the day it was the lady that became the hoe Or am I missing something? 2 Likes |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 12:05am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Emmatech1996: This matter wey dey on ground so... e heavy for mouth.
My advice is this...don't let emotions override you.
Your future and the future of your unborn kids dey at stake here
Don't bring forth children to suffer....no be every love story dey end well....even romeo and juliet own been get k-leg Thank you |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 12:07am On Mar 13, 2021 |
stanliwise:
Let everything go for good. Withheld nothing You only need to learn your lessons. Meanwhile you created your own problem.
You’re a Drama king |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by Michelle55: 1:04am On Mar 13, 2021 |
SILVERLINES: dis one don d find boyfriend Your brain must be paining you.. Enjoy! |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by zed7: 2:42am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Men never learn. Only invest what you can afford to lose without having sleepless nights. By now we all know that whatever you do for a woman is unappreciated.
Better leave her now otherwise you will spend the rest of your life in regrets. Why take risk when there are lots of genetically compatible women out there. Bros, move on, forget everything you invested and move on. 1 Like |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by juman(m): 3:47am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Let her go. |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by VanillaIyce(f): 5:48am On Mar 13, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4: So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.
Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.
Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.
Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex. Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.
Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK
1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny. 2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc 3. Accept and let everything go After getting the advices, can I get the job? |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by udede(m): 9:00am On Mar 13, 2021 |
just drop her |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by Nobody: 9:05am On Mar 13, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4: I employed her because she's hardworking and can communicate with clients better than most of my ladies in customer service
If she is adding value in the office, call her back. But stay miles far away from her since you have confirmed that both of you cannot marry. But I doubt how two former lovers will keep working in one office and one of them is the boss. You too spend on that girl. |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by ngoziwrites(f): 9:15am On Mar 13, 2021 |
As for me, I am interested in the customer service role, I can also handle all your written communications and manage your social media pages to boost awareness, engagement and increase conversions 1 Like |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by femi4: 9:32am On Mar 13, 2021 |
Gold digger no dey like condom 1 Like |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 11:16pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
VanillaIyce:
After getting the advices, can I get the job? Send your CV 1 Like |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by frozen70(f): 11:29pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4: So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.
Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.
Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.
Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex. Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.
Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK
1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny. 2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc 3. Accept and let everything go Just accept her resignation letter, pay her off and let her go, forget about all you bought for her as you can't count how many times she gave you her pussy Despite that her genotype did not match yours, she is busy trapping you with pregnancy even when she knows that the child may come out SS Just stop sleeping with her and reduce your communication with her Sickle cell is nothing to toy with Always say it that, women knows their game very well |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by WinterMinter(m): 11:42pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Hmmmmm I can't believe hmmmming is the word I hate mostly during a conversation Brother believe me, she's a woman and a Nigerian That makes her a Nigerian woman Ask anyone how does a Nigerian woman behaves Their answer will be directly proportional to the super story you wrote up there Pay her off and retrieve everything you have given her She is ungrateful, unsatisfying and not understandable She doesn't deserve any compensation from you She wanted to use the child to hook you,but you are lucky And it seems you are well Minted I deserve a reward for my brilliant suggestions
Winter is Coming |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by VanillaIyce(f): 12:12pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
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Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by VanillaIyce(f): 12:19pm On Mar 15, 2021 |
DonSmith123rr4:
Send your CV Sent you a private message, kindly see your mail. |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 7:42pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Thanks everyone. All advice and suggestions are digested |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by Ishilove: 8:11pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Believe this, you'll believe anything.
Since I have free time this evening I will pretend I believe this crock of bull and chook mouth for the matter.
Op, you need to be dragged around by the skin of your frazzled balls so you can get smaaaaall sense. I have never in all my 24 years on earth head that condom is painful. Haba, abi are you carrying Opa Oranmiyan under your knickers? Is your preek so immense that condom is causing pain? Because me I don't understand how come a condom with all its lubricant is 'painful'. You and your girlfriend cum employee are both unserious.
In short, Op, geddifok. |
Re: I Need An Advice ASAP! What Do You Think Please? by DonSmith123rr4: 5:15pm On Mar 03 |
Thank you |