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Shugavee:
lol so bitter? My dear get busy with ur life!! It's not that deep

Nland e-goat

No shame atall, my blames to the man that did this to you.

He will not know peace

Shugavee:
lol I hv been a feminist since my sec days!! Started after reading my first feminist book "purple hibiscus" I know alot abt it!!! N i know exactly what i stand for!! But i am of no obligation to convince you to see reasons with my opinion!! Its social media u are allowed to agree disagree n condemn especially when u don't know the person ur talking to in particular!!!

You are a disgrace


*Spit*

MissWrite:
Lol, you're here too?
I'm okay, thanks. How've you been.

Lol, yea. Came to laugh at comments.
Have been good. Morning, how went your night?

MissWrite viewing,
How you?

Lalas247:
thats my way of thinking aslong as it doesn't affect me or family
if they like they can marry animals .. its God that has last judgment at the end of the day


anyway nice chatting ... off to bed now

Yea, that's how it should be.

Their lives and business.

Alright...Do have a sound sleep.

Lalas247:
lol you will just sleep in a cell
and risk doing 3 month in jail

what if u punch And the person faints and doesn't wake up. lol these white peeps have words and law but most can't even take a punch..

anyway at least you get my.point ..

Lol, their jail treatments is better than some ghetto sufferings and treatments herein

I punch, he faints, I might be lucky to be called "Not normal"

Yea, I sure do.... You are now making me conclude that it isn't that easy to train a kid therein to your own and personal ways, how right am i?

Lalas247:
exactly ... men I cringe
yes it legal now for them here .. to marry and even adopt kids so you cant really oppose most Nigerians and most black countries don't like it but we remain civil in a civilised country abi....

Sure, you'v got to remain civil in a civilized country.

Well, in a way, we aren't suppose to be that bothered about these gays and mixed gender believers, so long as it isn't affecting our lives


What do you think?

Lalas247:
they always have activities ... not sure to be fair but lolnfor me once is enough ..

Yea, sometimes strange things are worth trying , but not over done .

Try that dressing shii with my kid and stand a chance of winning some punches

You feel it's cool to try sometimes?

Lalas247:
she was fuming she had a go at the staff who dressed the son up.. but here if you talk too much they will tag you homophobic and i it can get out of hand
but the dad wasn't impressed.... anyway she just told them that the staff shouldn't change him out of his cloths he wears from home ....

trust me even on TV now.gay sh!t.. I'm not even against them its their biz but they are forcing it down our throats .. just scary tired of seeing guys be kissing while I'm waiting for the train... if you flinch you are homophobic .. they have now classed it same bracket as racism which is insulting ...

Lol ... Gbege!

Heard some western nations legalized gay shii , prolly will stop you from strongly advocating against it, even if mixed dressing is imposed on your kid...Nevertheless, African parents should do well to erase such mindset from their kids there

Lol, irritating.... I can't imagine your looks when seeing men kiss themselves,... it will make a good meme

Lalas247:
gbam

now this is where the debate started the guy I was chatting with .. said he watches social media everyday and he won't turn gay..
but he is forgetting because that his norm.from birth..

he didn't grow up with his dad buying him barbie dolls to.play with .. but he is not getting my point ..
so frustrating

If it's something that's being done once in a while, I doubt he'll much get affected, but if it's steadily imposed on him, i'm afraid his dress sense might change which might unknowingly affect his thinking(maybe not sexually)

But wait.....How steady?, is it a MUST routine there or is it optional?

Shugavee:
Feminism is the future!!!

Common sense is future

Lalas247:
no we have a thing here fancy dress party for kids so you can dress them up like characters from a book, movie etc
my friends son was dressed up as a fairy princess .... will you allow that just think its a way of telling the child from young that it's OK to dress up as a girl ..

That's prolly weird and strange, v'never heard of such before , I can't allow that because of many reasons.

Lol, what if the kid grow with that mindset and start striking in a feminine way when he's a male that's bad.

How about your friend?, what did she say about it?

Lalas247:
me already in another debate seff..

do you think its OK for your male child to wear pink skirt and top to school.. or is that a way of conditioning the child to think that's the norm..
effects of social media etc

Male child?.....Pink skirt?


You mean to participate in a school drama or?

Shugavee:
focus on ur famiily members!!! Pity them!!! My life is in no connection to urs!!

Jambite claiming feminist

Lalas247:
this topic has been over flogged and its tiring to say the least

We can't get tired of advocates from real feminists, we'll wholeheartedly embrace it.

But it's disheartening to see Nland e-goats parade themselves to abuse feminism, it's just sad.

Lalas247:
lol no be fight o .. she dey ring by herself ..

Cool, just be smart as expected of you

Lalas247:
its just sad honestly ..

I do pity the young girls like Shugavee who are being misled.

Lalas247:
lol if no one sides you they are asslicking or trying to get male attention .. try type something intelligent
if you like insult from now till kingdom come .. ur reasoning is flawed deal with it..

You wouldn't want to drag yourself down because of a house wife, would you?

Ignore.

Espada10:
The only major reason I like the oriaku feminist amara , is that she is like a mirror to some girls here on how stupid and delusional they sometimes sound .. .Thinking they are smart and deflective ..that is all

She's a disgrace to my people

A very big one

Lalas247:
as expected .. carry on with ur ignorance

You are dope with this reply.

greiboy:
You mean she lost it since such a long time ago

Savage

AntiBrutus:
Might be just a joke.
Might have deeper meanings.
Or maybe she doesn't know how deep that description is. Y'know sometimes we throw words around.

I can't sense anything from here.
You would know better

Sure, you made a point. I think I should desist from digging the possible reason prompting such utterances to avoid staining the harmless friendly relationship.

Thanks alot, do have a good night,

Cadec007:
u know it is impossible,

CastedAyo:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/6878250_img20180324192213_jpegdf9f3ef3944d239130a8d35123b57c4d

This girl looks like Amarabae when she was a virgin

Shugavee:
that's not true!!! Not all feminist!!! I believe feminism is beneficial to both male n female but then women still suffer more in the society. Even With ur points, u r advocating feminism please read up individualist feminism!!! [/s]

Shock us with something intelligent.

Just shock us.



*Spit*

Espada10:
I have to swallow my pride and commend you...this took a lot of energy from me to do but I gotta do it

Mad man.

She sure deserve it

AntiBrutus:
The problem is, what did you do to deserve such description?

Verily can't recall, it was said out of joke while discussing and you know jokes sometimes tells us the truth, just a normal me, just can't tell what prompted the description. We just laughed it off.

You sense some possible shii that could have?

makydebbie:
Erhm, let's use nairaland as example. The reason why most of us don't take the nairaland idea of feminism is because of most of the feminist's double standards and their reasons for being a feminist. Some just like the tag lol which I find funny, some are sad and angry, some are heartbroken and just hate men. Some will go to a thread to say they can't date a guy who won't pay their bills and shout feminism again. I'm here like, you can't eat your cake and have it. Most of your ideologies are flawed. That's not what feminism is about.




But you know in this life, not everyone would agree to your point of view or beliefs? It's because it is new in the system. You can't say that about the Queen of England. You can't shout feminism today and expect it to be in full effect tomorrow. And when you all feminists are divided in your beliefs and have different reasons for being feminists, sweetheart, you can't achieve your goal. Hilary was involved in scandals tho.


If a private hospital is founded by a woman, I'm sure she'll be allowed to head it with or without feminism, it's her thing.

Talking about my job, in the daycare or nursery section, you know men are not allowed most times to be there. There was a time a male teacher went there to assist, a parent saw the teacher dressing up her daughter and she was mad because it's a 'woman's job'. But we're talking about feminism and gender equality. That's discrimination against men in my opinion. There's nothing like 'men and women's job' when you're talking about feminism. But will you feel comfortable with a male taking care of your female baby? Most parents don't like it. And ma'am, you've to agree with me there are schools that women head them because it's their school. They founded it, same with men. I don't see much unfairness because people consider men more.


But well, I think most of us prefer female doctors and nurses to males. Most men don't like the fact that a man would help their wives deliver. They prefer midwives. Isn't that discrimination against men?
I'm just being a realist but I won't deny there are discriminations against men and women.
Please don't let me type plenty again, my battery don low sef.

I LOVE you

AntiBrutus:
I have told you naw.
It means you are a pain in the ass, someone she would love to do without, but she can't. Maybe because of some temporary value you bring.

Perfectly correlating with what I thought and what others told me.

Nawao!

Thanks anyway

AntiBrutus:
LOL. Someone called you a necessary evil?
Let's say, you are a pain in the ass...but somehow, indispensable for the time being.

Lol,
Yea a lady did, a friend and a wife to one of my field colleague she was laughing when she did that and others laughed too, I sure laughed too , but had to reason beyond.

I'v asked some of my male homies offline, but felt I should ask online

What does it mean, tell me

Oh!, no wonder!

The 40million hair is a name of a hairstyle, not money.

Simply go to a salon and tell them you want to do 40 million hair , and it'll be done. The price is 700 naira below

AntiBrutus:
Sure...

Cool.

What does it mean when a lady call a guy Necessary devil ?