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Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 3:29pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
If only you can make it crazier tongue

Same way we all know his hubby is to bash ladies cool
tongue tongue tongue are you equal to the task?
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 3:28pm On Mar 23, 2018
neezar:
But this ubunja guy doesn't mention ur monikers when he do creates all these his miseducation threads, Why such hate on the dude??

What do I know sef....Lemme focus jare cool
That's exactly my point.

The truth hurts, you know.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 3:25pm On Mar 23, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Detest is a strong word Bro.

I dislike his hypocrisy! How can you call out your fellow guys insult them when your own existence on Nl centers around the same thing you insult them for-Pussy.

How can one be so shallow to educate people on wickedness and still expect what you preach to elude your daughter?

How can you insult 9ja ladies when you haven't even been fortunate to visit the country?

Now how can a Zimbabwean call Nigeria shiithole? seriously?

I think the problem with ubunja is that he is over welcomed ,and too comfortable , else he wouldn't be spewing thrash everywhere. He is becoming a nuisance!
I concur with your first point, I accept that, you are right.

Your second point reeks weakness to me, apologies. When receiving lectures from a lecturer, it's left for you to ask and counter some of his/her doubtful teachings with questions if you feel uncomfortable with what is being taught, i'v severally seen you complain and crave for logical discussion, how about countering his teachings with a concrete point, how many ladies have you seen countering his thread, they don't ,rather they insult him on other threads with the reference of his miseducation thread. It's bad.

Your 3rd and fourth reasons reeks hypocrisy, no offense. Why? Because Nigerians aswell insult and bash other countries without being there. Let's be truthful.

In total, Nland should be for everybody, Maky is comfortable here, so as other members from different countries, I personally think it'll be nice for any of you to logically counter one of his miseducation thread, rather than insulting and bashing him unnecessary.

I'm a Nigerian doesn't mean I should hide the truth,.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 3:11pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
He called me names

Yes corrupt but not like losers

the meme below says it all cool
Hahahahah grin
Crazy meme.

We all know why you ladies hate him, we sure do cheesy
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 3:10pm On Mar 23, 2018
ubunja:
she cant even mention 1 thing.
Lol, let's wait, she might still say something.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 3:09pm On Mar 23, 2018
shallysgirl:
It doesn't mean enslavement. Some men just enslave women because they provide for them.
Any form of control from men automatically means "Enslavement" to ladies, that's prolly one of the reason for their feminism advocate.

They cherish equal benefit, but not equal financial responsibility.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 3:03pm On Mar 23, 2018
shallysgirl:
Yes it does. Even in regular families the richer ones whether younger or older have the upper hand.
Why then do some ladies complain of how controlling their man tend to be?, since they know money should equate control in a relationship.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:55pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
So you can't find wrongs in all this trash he's been spewing on this thread shocked


You can't be asking a virgin that kind of question tongue


I don't think you're man enough to try the obvious sad
Why not tell me what he did yourself?

Virgins are the most corrupt wink


My magnifying tool will speak for itself when needed tongue
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:51pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
How will you feel if he talks to your sisters, daughter,aunties the way he does to ladies here sad


it's not a crime to be a virgin donstan especially when he knows that he has tried every possible means to have his way but failed cool
I doubt if my female loved ones will insult a man with no reason, you lots do insult him with no reason, you lots normally start the insult.


@Embolden, I don't understand.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:46pm On Mar 23, 2018
ReinaFarine:
You counter with logic when someone is willing to listen and be corrected.

I am not generalizing or insulting when I say he and his brother(s) have been unfortunate with women and that explains his hatred for anything with a vagina except his daughter of course.

I understand and to an extent sympathize with his pain. But most of his minions don't understand that all his post are filled with emotional pain he was probably too weak and stupid to express to that cause(s).

So instead of challenging/fighting his ex that broke his heart, or the virgin that falsely accused his brother of rape, he takes vengeance by inciting other men to hate women.
He gives wrong advice to people in happy relationship just going through a little misunderstanding. And all his co-XY counterparts cheer him for it.

I won't be surprised if hundreds of poor, gullible men have broken off relationships with the best thing that will ever happen to them because of his bad advice and the multitude the believe them.

And this must stop.
I'v gone through his thread, he's always ready to discuss with anyone that feels he's wrong with his topics.

He don't insult while discussing, and we all can testify that, you don't expect him to believe and accept your corrections without a concrete theory backing it up.


@Embolden, did you think it was necessary typing that?
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:39pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
I mean ubuju cheesy like a lady once said you just can't accept the truth even when it's been display on your face shocked


Donstan you don't want to start with me cause I'm a lace blunt dude wink
Lol, you all are yet to tell me what ubu.nja did cheesy

I'm yet to get an answer or is it now wrong for a man to love virgins?


Lol, it seems you want me to whoop your ass tongue
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:35pm On Mar 23, 2018
highqueen:
you are really lucky that this is my only accoun.t that's remaining. thank your stars.
Smh.

Always on ban.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:31pm On Mar 23, 2018
highqueen:
mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.
grin cheesy
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:30pm On Mar 23, 2018
RuthDaniels:
You didn't clarify anything though.. Or maybe I didn't see it. Lol


Ask smiley so far you know what I'm not obligated to respond smiley
Why do you detest u.bunja?
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:28pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
Practise what you preach donstan on this part you lied cause you're the one hailing that ingrate to keep fooling himself sad
Which ingate?

Can you please sound cool and less bitter while mentioning me.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:25pm On Mar 23, 2018
ReinaFarine:
His opinion, his business:

But when he decides to teach some gullible men that it is okay to disrespect all women, then it becomes our problem to correct that notion.

When he says it is right to abandon your children starving and suffering because you have a little issue with your wife (and teenagers that consume whatever is dished out on the internet without any filter) it becomes our duty to correct that notion.

When he teaches religiously and has a very large number of followers believing that a woman is no better than a sex slut to be degraded, and used only to satisfy your sexual cravings, it is our business to correct that.

When he makes it his duty to insult over 70 million individuals that have done nothing to spite him anyway, it becomes a NL ladies against brainwashing and raising misogynistic zombies that will make it their mission to pervert our children.
Now I ask you ma'am, how many times have you seen these ladies comment or logically counter his miseducation thread?

They don't, they prefer insulting him in other threads because they'v got no mature, concrete and solid point to change and oppose his cliche and notion.

Thou, i'v once seen Ruthdaniel in his thread.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:20pm On Mar 23, 2018
highqueen:
mtcheeeew,when you were mentioning you never knew that you were indulging me in your comments abii..
I may not warn again.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:18pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
Why do you keep disrespecting women on a public forum don't you have sisters,mum,aunties at homehuh better behave yourself and don't let that jobless troll Uban... make you lose your manners on this forum smiley
I don't disrespect ladies, I respect ladies, I cherish ladies a lot and I believe you know that.

The problem is that ladies hate the TRUTH, they prefer lies, and not all guyz are ready to tell them lies.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:13pm On Mar 23, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Dostan no offense meant but if there is anyone I will like to have a reasonable, logical and mature conversation with on Nairaland, it will be all but you.

You have this ideology of arguing to win, even when the truth is clearly dancing in your face, you develop a means to change/erase it to suite you ,sometimes you deviate completely. so tell me why should I waste my time?

If you think Ubuntu. has never been encouraged by Nl guys to insult ladies here, then feel free to live in your illusions. Those who know and support the truth will be recognized smiley
Lol grin, you made me laugh if i must confess.

You still don't get me ma'am, I didn't dispute the fact that Nland guys love what ubun.ja does, I was just trying to clarify you on why I mentioned you.


Can I ask a question?
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:09pm On Mar 23, 2018
biacan:
What's your problem sad
I don't have a problem, and you know that.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 2:07pm On Mar 23, 2018
greiboy:
@ Ruthdaniels I beg free the ubunja guy small now grin
Beg no one brO...Leave them.


These ladies are exposing their low self esteem by insulting ubunja.

I'v never seen ubunja look for trouble here, I doubt.


But most esteem deflated ladies hate him just for two reasons.


1: Because ubunja is not a lover of old and aged women, he loves young girls.

2: Because ubunja prefers virgin to non-virgins.

Nothing else, if you doubt me, ask any lady here to tell you what ubunja has done bad to her.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 1:52pm On Mar 23, 2018
highqueen:
exactly,how he goes around insulting his fellow guys for having contrary view about his stupid mentality keeps me wondering if this boy is really psychopathic,...even on this page,he has insulted alot of guys,yet donstan will quickly come to defend his master when he's been served his own medicine...he doesnt respect guys with contrary opinion rather he will portray this abrupt abhorrence towards them and lands in words full of insult.and these weak ass gays will keep applauding his stupidity in this section.I hate hypocritical men.
Do not ever make this mistake you did now by indulging me in your diss.

I won't warn again.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 1:39pm On Mar 23, 2018
shallysgirl:
Women are not created to spend on men who are supposed to be their partners. Even if they are millionaires.
They can spend on their children, siblings, parents... But on partners, it's always difficult because the spender is supposed to be the controller of the relationship but men always want to be men and that is where trouble starts.
Do money equates control in a relationship?
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 1:31pm On Mar 23, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Maky is mixed Stan. Moreover she visits Nigeria often, it is her second home. So she knows Nigerian guys well enough.

You don't see her go about shaming men or generalizing. She doesn't call them names or insult even when it unnecessary. Maky fights who fights her.
That is very different from Unbunja's case.
I didn't attempt to condemn Maky, your description about her is correct, no doubt,

I mentioned you because you typed "Naija guyz de give am talk" , which wasn't a nice way to scold or condemn his doings if you are uncomfortable with it.

Beside, I didn't see any guy support him when he said 9ja ladies are ugly.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 1:18pm On Mar 23, 2018
RuthDaniels:
Coming from a Zimbabwean who finds shelter in South Africa, This is laughable cheesy

Not that I blame you though, na 9ja guys give you talk. cheesy
Maky is from Ghana, don't you ladies give her talk aswell?

Why are ladies this biased when judging
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 12:38pm On Mar 23, 2018
ReinaFarine:
A general statement or concept obtained by inference from specific cases.

E.g: You can never eat from a woman and go scotfree.

Specific case:

A couple of women are in the habit of becoming disrespectful, rude, unsupportive and gossips when their men are going through difficult phases.

If at least one woman has ever stood to cover up by saying, my man gets his money from a private business or by working from home (when the truth is, he is between jobs and she's feeding him) then your whole statement is false.


The better option is, it is rare to see a woman that won't make you pay for her support in a more expensive coin.
-Nigerian government is corrupt.
-Africans are black in complexion.
-Yorubas speaks yoruba.
-Igbos speaks igbo.
-Bokoharam are muslims.


Are these above listed instances not general statement?, but does it logically correlate to the meaning of generalization?


@Bolded, stop justifying the bitter truth by rephrasing it, I don't fathom poo.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 12:05pm On Mar 23, 2018
ReinaFarine:
Generalization is one of the signs of stupidity.

- You can never eat from a woman and go scotfree is absolutely false. That you haven't met good women doesn't mean they don't exist. The problem is, good women don't shout: I fed my husband and his entire family for Ten years while he was broke and unemployed. So you won't know when it happens.

The bad ones are the ones that keep screaming about being the breadwinners during the shirt time they held that position. So you only hear their voice and don't/can't interprete a good woman's silence.
What's your definition of "Generalization"?
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 12:04pm On Mar 23, 2018
FluidQueen:
who are you?
Do have a nice day.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 11:59am On Mar 23, 2018
FluidQueen:
So much Negative Stereotypes. so much Hasty generalization. Shoving All women into one box sounds pretty Comfortable when you ain't a member of that gender.


But when women do same, We're the bad guys.
Debunk my comment with a solid and concrete point.

Anything less won't be given an attention.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 9:37am On Mar 23, 2018
Lalas247:
cheesy seems like you know me well already .. thanks .....
You are welcomed,
Do have a blissful day.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 9:35am On Mar 23, 2018
Here is another lady feeling fly and comfortable dissing ubunja because she knows ubunja isn't a diss type, but this same lady will call the mods whenever kim.bra start whooping her ass and that of her friend.

This same lady will say it's wrong to diss whenever kim.bra her lord start dissing her, the level of hypocrisy from some ladies is amazing and annoying, you'll preach peace in a thread but will go to another thread to diss.

Any lady that can only gang up to diss is a coward and a weakling.

I'll be happy to see them cry and call the mods whenever kim.bra start dissing their ugly selves.
Romance › Re: “Women Rarely Speak Up About Financially Supporting Their Male Partners” – Lady by donstan18: 9:13am On Mar 23, 2018
Lalas247:
lol go on I'm an open book smiley what would you like to know
You have zero(0) atom of gender bigotry blood lines, and it's weird and abnormal for a normal Nlander.


That's what i'm yet to figure out, why?

Could it be pretense?, if NO, it's cool and nice of you.

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