sammyj490:
Good evening, please i really need your advice. Kindly over look my English composition, I'm not a professional.
So i met this girl last year, i was awaiting a new call up letter from NYSC because i just revalidated from batch 1 to batch 2. I met her in one of the NYSC group chats, we became intimate friends, and started developing feelings for her, at first i thought it was lust but i didn't care i just wanted to have my way. As time passed i noticed what i was feeling for her was more than sexual desire, she's really different from other Ladies I'm met in my life, like i felt the chemistry with her.
When i asked her asked her out she told me she already had a child but that didn't stop the feelings i have for her, it took me 3 months to be able to convince her i really love her, my waiting and perseverance really paid off. When we started dating i saw a new side of her I've never seen in a lady before, she's became my whole heart, she kept motivating me, she also helped me financially alot like she knows my account number off hand and I've never seeing hers once.
I was later posted to North and she was posted to southwest, i wanted to relocate but she told me not to because if we keep seeing each other everytime we'll get bored of each other easily, we only had sex once before i travelled to the North for my NYSC program.
Everything was fine even tho we've had different ups and downs every broke up about 3 times but we always find our way around our misunderstanding even tho as a mature man i do most of the apologises because i just don't want her to leave and she was the one doing most of the break ups, i understand our differences might be because I'm not around, but i love her soo much and she knows it.
Now our first issue is about the fact that she makes me tell her everything worrying me which i do but she finds it hard to open up to me even though we've been dating for almost a year now.
Secondly, she once told me about this guy she has a crush on, she told me she always tell her self if it wasn't deji it would have been the other guy.
My gf is a beautiful lady and I'm not exaggerating trust me she is that makes her get more attention from guys, instead of just letting them go she keeps them in the friend zone which I'm not cool wit but i have to keep quite so as not to look like the over jealous type or over protective.
Now I'll b through my program this month ending and my guts keep telling me she's cheating due to some of her attitudes, sometimes she's this lovely, romantic type and sometimes times she acts like a pain in the ass, she's not just my gf she's my best friend. But i know there is more going on then i know, she ones told me never to upload her pics on my WhatsApp status because she doesn't want people to count her relationship for her or know about her relationship life, she post my pics once in a while on her own status especially on my bday where she wrote alot of heart Melting words but who knws i might be the only viewer, if i call her she doesn't pick up, she'll either hang up and call me back later or not even call at all.
I love her soo much but i dnt knw what to do, pls mature minds in the house advice me, I not d emotional attachment type but I'm really in love with her, some of my friends who knws what's going on advice me to end it with her but i can't.. I'm just soo in love with her, Please advice me She knows your account number offhand lol, well since your friends have tried talking to you and your hellbent what can nairaLanders do, maybe you should try explaining things to your mum and hear what she has to say. |
Romance › Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me by dottozil: 1:24am On May 25, 2020
