LilMissFavvy:
You and your fiancee have dated since 2016, you understand each other and are compatible, [b]but suddenly when it's time to marry each other the two of you are suddenly confused , you two are jokers. [/b]Why didn't you meet priests in the first few years of the relationship? Why should you two give room for people to dabble into the beautiful union so that they destroy it? She has prayed and hasn't seen anything, concerning you, two priests have not said anything as well, though they are fake priests, because a real priests would have seen/ told you the things to expect from each other after marriage, at least a little hint. Your girls mum should withdraw and stop confusing her daughter. Hair being cut in dream is a bad omen, it means losing ones glory, blessings, breakthroughs, etc, it has nothing to do with widowhood or marriage. Your girl is probably facing an attack from somewhere, maybe from village people who wouldn't want you both to be joined in marriage. Yes with prayers a bad dream can be cancelled, wed your girl properly, and stop these drama.

@LilMissFavvy,

The bold statements above were just unnecessary. At no time in my original post did I tell you we were confused. You may wish to go through my post again. Don't be in a hurry.

Mare so, my fiancée's mum isn't confusing her daughter in any way. She's even the one encouraging my fiancee (her daughter) that everything will be fine, that they will just have to be prayerful. So I wonder where you're getting the "confusion" from my writeup.

However, you still made some valid points and an insight at your last three sentences.

I appreciate.

Thanks.

Powerfly:



lol. This response is funny coz it's actually funny coming from a supposed 'christian' who is seeking God's validation.
So what are you? A stranger to God?
As a genuine christian, you are supposed to be a spokeperson, ambassador, representative and a child/son of God by adoption of faith through the mercy and grace of God and the priceless blood of Jesus.
The bible clearly condemns fornication and anyone including you and i who still go ahead to disobey.. Is doing so out of freewill.
And how are you expecting to get answers or validation from God when you're nt conversant with his word??
Now that you both are bleeping yourselves, what would happen if God finally says 'she's nt yours'.

@bold,

Of course, nothing will happen.

But I respect your views, even though I have my reservations.

Thanks, anyways.

Weneda:
U people have time to visit prophet nd prophetess. If u want to get married don't even try going to that place. Those people are home breakers, thieves etc. Just go to marriage counseling, seek the face of God, check ur compatibility level etc. Talking from experience o

@Weneda,

You care to share that your experience?

Who knows it might be very helpful to me and others here.

Thank you.

benqo01:



Glory means HONOUR

The reverend already told you the meaning of the dream.Your hair is your glory and when your glory is being taken away then what's left of that person?

That why we pray for God's glory not to departs from us till we leave this earth.

I am sure your fiancee knows what it means, it's not a good thing and both of you have to pray towards it.

God will see you through.

Thanks dear.

Mrscarter:


Dreams are only thoughts all random pushed together because your unconscious n the brain never stops working. They mean nothing.
Thats why they dont make sense because we are not conscious to control our thoughts.
Dont let a dream and superstitions ruin your love n future together.
Also pastors are only men they pray but god doesnt tell them what to do.
You take their advice to some degree but i wouldnt let them control your actions or your choices. U can pray ofcourse but alwsys remember preachers/priests etc theyre only human and theyre job is to teach us gods word.
Not to tell us who to marry or things like that.

Hmm!

Thanks, Mrscarter.

benqo01:
OP you might not be the religious type,but if there is one thing you shouldn't joke with that is DREAMS.

God show us things through dreams,and anything that the Lord reveals to you through dreams shows he has given you victory over that particular thing.

Don't also relents in your prayers that is another powerful tool in getting victory,this is happening now shows what's ahead of you when you finally settle down.Its a clear indication that along the line things will surely go wrong.

And also if 2 to 3 pastors confirms this to you..then just know it's for real and urgently needs prayers.

@benqo01,

Two to three persons did not confirm same thing to me.

My fiancée's cousin who is a Reverend referred to the dream as when someone's glory is being taken away.

So what does it mean when they say; "Someone's glory is being taken away?" Do you have an idea?

And the priest did not categorically say his opinion about the dream. He was just trying to know if my fiancee understands the meaning of the dream.

merieam16:
Honestly speaking,i really don't know y ure worried or ur girlfriend cos the dream does not av anything to do with ur marriage
I understand how dreams work so believe me on this

Thanks dear.

Powerfly:



I'm sorry to say...
You see... God designed sex for marriage. For yot to skip that process is already a way of skipping God's validation to do your own will.

Lol @Powerfly...

Sounding like you're God's spokesperson.

You couldn't back you assertion with any bible passage, as to where sex before marriage invalidates God's validation/revelation before marriage.

Thanks for time, anyways.

Powerfly:
Op.. If you and the babe have had sex with each other.. Then forget about God's validation. Do you know why?

@Powerfly,

Sure, we've had sex.

Please, inform me why I should forget about God's validation.

Telstar:
You're welcome. I do not have anything against you. Was just surprised the priest couldn't interpret or understand a simple dream.

One love, mahn!

praz001:










Bro....
you have notting to be scared about. The interpretation to the dream is that you girls spritual life is about getting an upgrade due to the fact that someone else is coming to her life.... I.e someone more spritually superior to her is about taking over..


To the othe question, God wants to deal with individual and not those who go from priest to priests...

keep up with ur prayers...

@bold,

Very insightful.

Thanks, praz001.

Telstar:
My respond sounded funny? Only in Nigeria you tell someone the truth and it becomes other way round. Another thing I wanna tell you here is the family doesn't trust you and you've got a lot to do to convince them you're the right person for their daughter.

Calm down, bro. I never said you initial post was wrong. Just that I've never heard where cutting of someone's hair in the dream symbolizes care and love.

Talking about trust for me by my girl's family... Hey, I can tell you for sure, that her mum, cousins and uncles wholeheartedly approve my proposal.

I was even the one that delayed it a bit till this moment, if not, we'd have tied the knot since over three or four months ago.

But I appreciate your views and input, bro.

Thanks.

Telstar:
Hey, there's nothing wrong in that dream. Your folks are probably discombobulated. Cutting someone's hair in the dream symbolizes care and love for that particular person.

Lol

@Telstar,

You views sounds funny to me. But you might not be wrong.

WoundedLamb:


I sincerely don't think that singular dream is enough reason to call off your wedding plans. The dream could have avoided triggered by many things especially when the lady was actively looking girl a revelation. Her mind was obviously hyperactive. Just my opinion though. Best of luck!

Thanks, bro.

Lamasta:
[/b]

@bolded is it in the bible? Just curious

I was also curious to know, but he didn't back up his claim biblically.

Foodqueen:
I really don't read much meanings to dreams.

Sometimes anxieties makes us dream alot.

Pray and go about your life.

God will perfect the rest.

@Foodqueen,

Thank you.
I like your name.

1F30M4:
I can't say I'm overly religious but I definitely believe in God; He is supreme

While I understand there may be cause for worry esp now your fiancèe is already freaking out.. My 2cents is this, I do not think your mother-in-law's dream has anything to do with your marriage plans with her daughter.. No evil shall befall you & yours, may God in His infinite goodness forbid it..

She(you as well) however should be very careful in all her(your) dealings henceforth if she(you) isn't(aren't) already.. We do not know all our enemies but they know us, they're lurking around everywhere we go, some even live among us & will stop at nothing to destroy our happiness, peace & lives in general.. Guard your love, peace & happiness jealously, arm yourselves with prayers, visit the Blessed Sacrament occasionally, pay attention to your gut feelings & always stand for the truth even when all odds are against you.

I wish you & yours all the best.. Happy Easter in advance!

@1F30M4,

Thank you very much.

I appreciate.

abeniagbon:


I guess your girl is in her 23 years of age... I have similar stuff before I skip marrying to yoruba tribe assuming she is in her 28 and 35 years of age her parent won't be saying this...lolz

this is usually a norm thing for age of that bracket cos they mostly depend on parent to lead them. when I want to get I met my wife in December and pay her bride price in February and we had a court wedding in April

@bold,
My girl is 26 plus. She'll be 27 years in some couple of months.

My fiancee hardly depends on her parents for anything. You won't believe that it's even the mum that is giving my fiancee mind, encouraging her that if we (my fiancee and I) are both convinced, that all will surely go well.

It's just that natural love she has for her mum, nothing else. Maybe, because, her father is no more.

femi4:
Nonsense!

OP, you are the first priest of your life.For every info from God by any priest, there should be confirmation from you too . Any revelation that's contrary to the word God is bullshit!

Hmm!

It's all good.

Thank you.

abeniagbon:


All this one doesn't follow in marriage... marrying a too religious family self dey confusing. but I don't see any reason why you shouldn't marry the lady. It all depends on the wife to be family cos her mother might change attitude to you due to the cause of this dream and why her mother was too concerned about the affair of her daughter by dreaming for her...

what are her passed dream be like...? you should ask your girl.

all you need is peace of mind. and a good job that can pay your bills.

@abeniagbon,

There's a difference between a prayerful family and a religious family.

My girl's mum is only a prayerful woman and not the too religious type like you said.

To the best of my knowledge, I don't think she (my fiancee) has had any negative dream about the two of us. I'll still ask her, though.

If it is peace of mind, trust me, she gives me peace and rest of mind.
More so, I have a good job that gives me plenty of time for myself.

My woman is done with schooling, though no suiting job yet, but she has a skill that is fetching her small small money for her upkeep.

Refinedbeing:
Over religious OP. I pity una. Life is for living, dey dere dey deceive unaself with illusions.

Lol

@Redifinedbeing, I'm never over religious. Personally, whenever I have a nonsense dream, I just wake up and counter such dream.

Just that I became a bit worried when my woman was crying over the phone yesterday when talking with her.

My brother, trying to understand or unravel that dream doesn't make me over religious na! Or does it?

ubola:
Continuation : After the marriage, I and my wife had a serious accident that almost claimed our lives but not for God. The first quarter of our marriage was characterized by nightmares until we decided to send her packing. The day she moved to dad's place we started having sweet dreams and plans for our future. This my half sister jokingly said that the accident was supposed to take our lives that there was a mistake some where. She began telling people that we won't last as husband and wife that am under a spell. Five years after, she got married and didn't bother to inform us because the fiance was rich. Two years after the marriage, her husband started calling me to come and settle them that he caught her with a man in their matrimonial bed. As am typing the marriage is broken with 2 children shes feigning for alone.

Na wao!

Honestly, I feel dreams could have a lot of connotations.

I guite agree with your initial post where you said there's a lion we need to kill. And truly, there's somebody that has been disturbing my fiancee and her mother, making life/things unbearable for them.
That person has been trying to come between my fiancée's family and any good thing that is coming their way.

I appreciate your input.

Thanks.

ubola:
OP, the devil fights against good fortune. The Biblical Sampson fought and killed the lion that confronted him, and it was on his way to marry according to the book of judges. That means every marriage has a lion to be dealt with. What interests me most is that you and your woman can pray. I had similar experiences 10 years ago when preparing to marry. Two weeks to the date, I dreamt where I was about to be joined to a short and dark lady whereas my fiancee was fair and average.At the point of exchanging vows with her I excused the Pastor in the dream, that I should goan explain to my fiancee that am marrying another person in her stead. The dream pastor granted my request and gave me 10 minutes to do that. As I left the place in the dream I saw soldiers moving in to burn down the place, I cried and woke up. I refused to tell anyone cause my step -sister was the one living with me at the time,and on several occasions had playfully told my fiancee why she's considering marrying someone like me who doesn't have money instead of her ex who's rich and still pestering her. B4 this time, someone I never knew told me inside a bus that there's a monitoring spirit in my house that will never allow me to marry except I send her packing physically. Now after the dream, that morning my fiancee came and started fighting me, kinda fighting we used bottle and threw knife at each other over a little misunderstanding we had the previous night before she left. In the process she broke some of the drinks that was meant to be taken to her family, neighbors had to call in the police. At the station, she told me to call off the marriage that she wasn't interested anymore. The Bible says the canal mind doesn't understand things of the spirit, I moved from the station, packed the remaining items into my car and proceeded to their village without informing her. I told her mother everything that happened. thank God today we've been together for a decade and very successful. Op kill that lion.

Wow!

Thank God for you.

I think you have some points here.

Thanks.

thatsleepboy1:


OP contact Nutella, righteousness2 for prayers they'll help you.

@thatsleepboy, who are these people you mentioned?

ChefDominiq:
I read your content.
God can not necessarily come down to speak to you that's why He gave His Holy Spirit to guide us on every life decisions

Proverbs 18:22. It says, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord”
You found a good wife, and you are convinced she's Why can't you do the needful. To be sincere not all man of God saw there wife in dreams before getting to marriage...that aside.

Proverbs 31:10-11 reminds us: “An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.”

There are many dreams from the gate of hell, it's all depends on what you believe. I was told many things by prophet and parents before I married my wife, Today we are happy together than the approved weddings and loved one in our families.

It all fall back to the foundation and understanding you both have as couple before the journey.

Sometimes, dreams tell of a future event. When you have a dream that plays out in real life:
Coincidence
Bad memory
An unconscious linking of known information
But sometimes, dreams can motivate you to act a certain way, thus changing the future.

Often, it happens because of:
Stress, conflict, and fear
Trauma
Emotional problems
Medication or drug use
Illness

Most of it all, IT ALL ABOUT WHAT YOU BELIEVE

When a man finds a wife he obtains favor from the Lord. She is his blessing. She is the love of his life.

Insightful.

Thank you, ChefDominiq.

format9798:
Though, the dream could mean a lot. But it shouldn't be tied down to just the negative aspect. Do u know it could also mean reducing her burden, either partially or completely depending on the kind of haircut she had in the dream.
U and ur fiance should concentrate on fasting and praying for clearer revelation from God. Then, wait for God to reveal his intention for both of u.

Hmm!

Thanks for your input.

WoundedLamb:
Is your fiancée's father dead? If so, was her mother's hair cut after her husband's death? Have they had any other major ceremony since the man's funeral? Has the woman given out any of her daughters since then? I'm asking cause the human brain stays active by playing the tricks on us when we aren't actively thinking. It's possible the thought of a marriage ceremony brought back the memories of her husband's funeral. It's also possible the thought of giving out her child made her recall the last time she gave up a loved one.

@WoundedLamb,
Yes, my fiancée's dad is late for over a decade, but I don't know if her mum cut her hair immediately after the father's death. But presently, her mum is on low cut (maybe, because, she loves low cut).

No major ceremony, because my fiancee is the first child and her other sisters are still young.

Salt06:

That's good. if your fiancé holds same conviction then you can fast and pray in agreement and undo the plans of the enemy

Yea. Thanks.

SweetCunt97:
better advice ur girl not to feed that negative thought. Besides its not like anyone will live forever

Hmm!

Sure, we won't live for ever. But nobody wants to die young.

Thanks for your input, though.

Melancholy:
l'm spiritually conscious of anything that l do especially taking a crucial decision like this.


Dream!!!! I must tell you that dreams don't lie except if one is daydreaming. A continuous prayers and devine grace can avert any impending evil attacks without giving in for much fears. My experience.

Which church do you attend?

Seeking spiritual direction is good cos in world that we are, the spiritual controls the physical, But Be careful with who you seek spiritual revelation from though. Naija don hard nau o.

@Melancholy, my woman and I are Catholic.

Thanks for your input.

spice123:

Exactly my thought too. @DoubleFinger prayerfully follow this. The bible says: He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. My brother, nothing dey happen. I was once in your shoes but I am in 7 years marriage now. The devil does not like marriage right from the start. Refuse to be discouraged and continue to pray.

Thanks, bro.