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Ever since he have been married, the numbers of places they have lived in a particular geographical location will always be determined by the numbers of years their marriage is. As a matter of fact, they have lived together for almost seven years now and they have rented and lived in six different places. By my own calculation, it means they change apartment on yearly basis. This is however always caused by his wife according to him. Whenever the wife has issues with the neigbours, she complains to the husband and suggest they change environment and. if the husband refuses to listen to her. Something strange will happen that will force them to live that environment for another place. Now, the wife is asking her husband again to let them go rent another apartment because she felt her husband embarrases her before the neigbours for being unsubmissive even though the husband has truly apologised. And if care is not taking another strange thing will happen if the husband refuse to listen to her. The husband is even confused now.

Ever since he have been married, the numbers of places they have lived in a particular geographical location will always be determined by the numbers of years their marriage is. As a matter of fact, they have lived together for almost seven years now and they have rented and lived in six different places. By my own calculation, it means they change apartment on yearly basis. This is however always caused by his wife according to him. Whenever the wife has issues with the neigbours, she complains to the husband and suggest they change environment and. if the husband refuses to listen to her. Something strange will happen that will force them to live that environment for another place. Now, the wife is asking her husband again to let them go rent another apartment because she felt the neigbours has offended her again. And if care is not taking another strange thing will happen if the husband refuse to listen to her. The husband is even confused now. Pls he needs your matured advice.

RomanceLander:
LOLzzz

i have been hearing of bus romance since but i just experienced it today... So funny what guys can do in a public transports.

I was at the park yesterday returning from my travel, i came close to the bus to inquire if it was already occupied and fortunately there was still some spaces left. I noticed this guy standing just outside the door, little did i know he had his own intentions. i left, got my ticket and came back and he was still there. i Entered and sat close the window and immediately the guy followed, he kept his bag beside me and told me he was going to seat there. OK no 'P' i told him thinking he was like all these guys who are very cautious of their sitting positions in vehicles during travels (front seats and extremes).

After some minutes our bus left, the bus was very noisy shaa people talking about elections and stuffz, i
didnt want to join so i pulled out my phone and came online.
Next thing I noticed this guy seemed restless - changing positions constantly in an unconfortable manner,i thought he was an amateur pick pocket, I never knew it was this perfect opportunity he was seeking, how could it not be right ; with the way i was sitting, the noise in the bus and the constant gallops we fell in.
He was coming nearer untill his shoulder was touching my br**** ( i was sitting in such a way that my right arm was leaning along the back rest of our seatrow and was pressing my phone with the left one.

I pretended i didnt know whats up, gosh with every gallop we fell this guy would rub his shoulders against my br**** and he seemed to be enjoying the journey and maybe pretending he didnt know i'ws aware.
I was codedly monitoring the guy and minding my phone only to see the guy already had erection.
Gossshhh i couldnt laugh, it was so funny and embarassing. I had to bring down that arm and use it as sheild... the guy noticed and also felt embarassing. lols

Uptill now i dont know i wasnt angry, just felt funny!!!
Quite a long journey tho
PLEASE SHARE YOUR OWN EXPERIENCES

confess now! did you too enjoyed it or not. You that this is one of your sensitive point.

Yareey:
I couldn't agree more with bold part.

Reasons please

As a matter of fact, the percentage of ladies waiting for already made husband is far more than those who are ready to be bread winners. I have quite sizable numbers of them in my finger tips. Some of them wil ask where do you work? and stylishly they will ask wether you have a car?
It is quite understandable that nobody wants to marry a ''nobody'' man, but it is the nobody of today that becomes the somebody of tomorrow. Many ladies are oblivious of the fact that men or better still, husbands cherishes more the lady that they dated when they were nobody and later involved together with them the process of what has made them somebody today. For MOST them it is not ''WITHOUT PAIN THERE IS NO GAIN'' but it is GAIN GAIN GAIN GAIN all the way.

My fellow nairalanders, let me tell you something. Some or all these your tips do not just work on some women. If you like try it on them from now till thy kingdom come it will not move them an inch. Some will rather take advantage of your being nice and you will later be discouraged.

silvoice:
Hi, for 4 yrs, i've tried to secure a job to no avail. So i decided to join a business that gives me atleast 3000 daily and average of N90.000 monthly or more. Now this bank wants to take me as a teller officer for N80 000 monthly. I really want to know if there are other ways of making money while workin in d bank as d salary is far below my current income. Cos i really want to improve my income, not jus to answer a banker and live in penury.

Contract job right? i have tried it before. For your info, it is only your salary, no promotion, no extra allowance and increament of salary is not gaunranteed. As a matter of fact, you will be enslaved meaning that no time to creat another stream of income becos u will be tied down from morning till night in the cubicle. However, it is still advisable for you to take it if you are still single.

samflexxy:


Disclaimer: I mentioned some that means the points does not generalize


1). Kiss with eyes open
This one is really weird guys imagine kissing a lady with her two eyes staring at your nose, have come across some girls that kiss with their eyes open I find it weird and scary

2). Bring friends along for a date
Some girls longer throat will send them to untimely death when they take their friends for a date and the guy falls for her friend they'll now come here and start opening thread to say how their boyfriend toast her friend or ask for her number

3). eating without control
Imaging you take a girl for a date and she orders for I plate of rice, one pepsi one take away of rice, ice cream bottle water(big one) toothpick, shawama, meat pie, with laces era while the guy that took her on a date orders for just bottle water(small one) and 2 meat pie smh

4). CRying in church
I went to church one sunday morning when the chore was leading praise I saw a chronic ronz girl most people know in school crying with passion I almost fainted with laugh when she noticed me she cleaned up her face

5). Using style to ask for money
be it transportation, credit etc they use many style to beg for money , some might even go as far as to say their mother are sick and they need money
the new style they use now is to say they are pregnant and the guy should give then money for abortion

Guys adding is allowed

composed----by----samflexxy

iF ANY GIRL TELL ME SAY MAKE I GIVE AM MONEY FOR ABORTION, I GO TELL AM SAY MAY HIN GO BORN THE PIKIN!

mutter:
That is a ground for divorce in a court of law.

Depends on how long it has been going on.
It depends on the reason.
If I think my husband has been sleeping around and could infect me, then I am justified in denying him intimacy.

However if there is no genuine reason--- many fishes in the sea.

Y[b]our comments sound professional. Geuss you a lawyer. if so can i have your number? The husband does not cheat it is even the wife that is a suspect according to him[/b]

IS A LIE JOR, IT WAS NOT BELT

This man has been enduring this for long. His wife is not always interested in having intimacy with her husband owing to unresolves issues in the family which the husband has tried every possible means to solve but to no avail. what can he do?

Ontarget:
Some righteous or church people on this forum wouldn't stop pushing us to abstain from sex till marriage. They always give reasons like: It is a sin and the bible says so so and so. But they wouldn't tell us how to overcome the challenges that comes with abstaining till marriage these days. I agree that sex after marriage is the best solution to curb STDs and unwanted pregnancies but achieving such in the midst of some resisting factors appears to be an uphill task.

Apart from the sexual urges we have to deal with all through the period of abstaining we seem to forget to ask ourselves a certain question. And the question is: WHEN WILL YOU GET MARRIED AND FINALLY HAVE THAT SEX? Marriage in a country like Naija doesn't come cheap especially for the guys. The guys are expected to have a fat bank account first before thinking of marriage. Unfortunately some guys will be unlucky to get that kind of fat bank account at age 45 no matter how hard they have worked. Some ladies will clock 45 and still no signs of a husband coming close. If we must abstain from sex till marriage are we really going to abstain till old age if conditions are not favourable to get marriage? Is there a maximum limit to wait? What happens if you will never get married due to bad luck? Does it mean you will abstain from sex till death? If actually it was CERTAIN that everybody would be getting married at about 25 years old then it would make valid sense for people to wait till marriage.

Secondly, I think insisting on sex till marriage can cause another issue that most of us don't even think about. Due to the excitement of having sex for the first time and all that urge, someone who has been abstaining from sex can easily be tempted and decide to get married unprepared just to have sex to know how it feels. The outcome of this is that marriage crashes due to this unreadiness and kids will be brought to the world to suffer especially when the couple weren't financially ready. I have come across some folks here advising people to get married rather than have sex before marriage. Is it better to get married because of sex and the marriage crashes soon afterwards or is better to have PROTECTED sex before marriage and avoid the suffering a collapsed marriage? If you feel sex before marriage will take you to hell then it means everyone on this planet will end up in hell cos we are all sinning in different ways.

Contributions please.

THE WHOLE THING TIRE ME SEF. If you no marry trouble; If you marry wahala. I dont know!

Dont mind them jor, They are for beauty though.