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so ever since i started dating her i've had a jealousy issue. this guy has really become close to my girlfriend, and its really bugging the poo out of me. just seeing him with her makes my stomach turn every time, and i'm really getting sick of it. this problem has been caused partly by facebook and at school. i've talked to her many times about how i feel about him, and it doesnt seem to cross her mind how much it bugs me. i've been noticing that shes been paying much more attention to him at school then me. so here are the things that are bugging me. on facebook, 3/4's of the stuff she posts are about him. she talks to her friends about him on wall to wall all the time. she even talks to him on wall to wall, and it really bugs me. almost everytime i'm with her at school or out in public, i notice she's texting him all the time. i've seen them walking around school by themselves and they chill at her locker all the time. the biggest problem is that they have first period together. i purposely walk by their class to see what theyre doing. everytime i walk by i see them sitting together, either with another friend or by themselves. i can tell theyre always talking about something that makes them laugh, and it bugs me that i cant be there instead of him. yesterday i walked by and she was hitting repeatedly with her hand on his leg. i actually wanted to cry it hurt me so bad. i told her about it and she said he was acting like an idiot, although it looked she was having fun, laughing and everything. she just doesnt understand how much it pisses me off, and yet she continues to do these things when i'm not around. i also have this strange feeling that they hang out behind my back, as they live so close to eachother. its almost like he is her second boyfriend. it just bugs me that she never acts the way she does with him towards me. whenever she sees me she doesnt even look like shes excited to see me or anything, yet when she sees adam, and a select few other people, shes her regular happy go lucky self, smiling, and yelling their name. i just dont understand her. anybody got any advice or suggestions?