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Testosterone. Nothing else. Women who are more assertive have been found to have higher testosterone levels compared to other females.

GANTUX:
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.

For years, one thing I’ve noticed is that finding good opportunities often takes far more time than it should.

You open multiple platforms.

You scroll through pages of listings.

You filter through roles that don’t fit.

You open tabs, close tabs, save some, ignore some, then repeat the whole process again the next day.

Sometimes after spending all that time, you still feel like you haven’t found anything truly worth applying for.

And sometimes the really good opportunities move fast.

By the time you see them, hundreds of people are already there.

Personally, I don’t think the biggest problem is lack of opportunities.

I think a big part of the problem is the amount of noise, manual searching, and how much time it takes to find something relevant.

That can become mentally draining, especially for freelancers and remote professionals who are already trying to balance work, clients, learning, and life.

I’ve been thinking deeply about this because it’s something I’ve dealt with personally for years.

Curious — what part of remote job hunting drains you the most?

Is it the endless searching, low-quality listings, too much competition, or simply finding the right opportunities too late?

It can really be a struggle. Whenever I am rejected and that happens quite a lot, I always send an email thanking them and wishing them well while saying to myself that they have lost an incredible staff to work with. This keeps my morale up. I also do my research to see where I am falling short compared to my peers in the global space and I try my very best to fill that gap.

With perosnalized AI, applying for these jobs usually take a few minutes so that's not really a hassle. Recently, a senior colleague who got a remote job confided in me that she applied to hundreds of job positions before she succeeded. I remember her story anytime I am rejected so I never stop applying.

Do not despair, all it takes is a single opportunity and your story changes forever so keep at it.

IronGalaxy:
thought as much..

Sorry to burst your bubble

IronGalaxy:
No, lets rather begin with a topic that concerns you and your people. Tribalism

Right after you

isrealoski:
Normally I no say the hard work I put into this work no concern you and I'm not complaining.

But here is the thing.

I compressed years of experience into this thread.

I knew it was gonna go viral even before posting.

With all said.

I'll suggest you go through it slowly.

The thread as something for everyone even you

Take your time go through it my friend you'll pick 1 or 2

FOR SURE

My dear, I reserve the right to read or ignore any piece of write-up on social media. I have chosen to ignore yours. Is there something in the water that I don't know about?

Duplicitous, cunning, dangerous

Many thanks for the information but a more fitting post will be to enlighten us a topic that concerns us all.. Xenophobia

What is her karotype eg XX or XY? Any atypical genita1ia... ie does she look like a female down there? Is she very tall or very hairy?

Akalia:
I don't like you women for this admission. Even my own wife could be playing along because of benefits the whole time. Geez!!!

You had asked and I answered honestly. Why are you then getting annoyed? Also, benefits may mean different things to different women. For some, it could mean financial gains and for others, a high emotional intelligence, kindness and gentility, etc

Saying that you don't like us because of my feedback kinda puts you in a certain box in terms of personality which means that you need to work harder at the alternative which is being a good provider or any other thing that makes your wife tick. It's just the way it is

And please I speak only for myself and would like to plead that you do not extend my opinions to your wife's perceived actions or emotional status. We are all wired differently.

Akalia:
Spoken like a true woman that understands your gender. So the OP's hypothesis is a credible fact.

Didn’t go through the post. I just instinctively know that our emotions are mostly transactional. What you give is what you get.

We need more information. Duration. Recurring or progressive? Itchy, painful? Any similar history in family? Interventions done so far and response to them? Any aggravating or relieving factors? What about the other arm? Same lesion there?

The movies and novels say so. In reality, I have my doubts.

I barely follow their work.but wish them all the best.

adenigga:
Oakland’s City Council has voted that a Nigerian medical doctor, Matthew Bernard, and his wife will pay a fine of nearly $1m for felling 38 legally protected trees on and around their Claremont Avenue property in the United States.

A California-based media platform, KQED, reported that more than 20 residents at a public hearing on Tuesday demanded enforcement of Oakland’s tree protection laws.

They argued that the leafy canopies of the trees in the area were important for wildfire prevention, public health and environmental equity.

Diaspora Tales reported last month that Bernard and his partner, Lynn Warner, said they removed trees from their property on an arborist’s advice.


At the hearing on Tuesday, the Nigerian medical expert told the council that the trees removed from his property nearly four years ago were “dead, dying, leaning,” or in “hazardous condition.”

The city, however, disagreed and fined Bernard and Warner $915,135.40 and placed a claim on their property that would prevent them from developing or selling the land until the fine was paid.

Defending the fine, a community tree specialist, Erys Gagnez, said, “Trees of that size are not commercially available for replacement. Even with replanting, it will take decades, even centuries, to restore the ecological and protective functions that were lost. The scale of the fine reflects this reality.”

Source: https://punchng.com/nigerian-to-pay-1m-fine-for-cutting-trees

What is wrong with us? They should have been made yo pay more

Shrimp welfare project comes to mind. It's time we paid attention to animal advocacy

Aborting a 6 month pregnancy. Very dangerous that is if this story is true

Enterobius vermicularis is the most likely culprit

Bizmind95:
Too much money gives you one kind confidence to say stupid things whenever you feel like.

I totally concur

How was he able to ascertain what other people spend money on because the factors that he mentioned would never had crossed my mind. I would have gone for clothes, jewellery, vacation etc. He went with cocaine and homosexuals. Strange

Na wa. This is getting worrisome

PR company: "To make significant strides in securing your base and winning the midterms come November, it's imperative that you repeatedly quote bible verses in your speeches and publicly affirm your relationship with God Almighty."

Trump: Starts reading the Bible. Depicts himself as Christ and medical doctor healing Jeffery Epstein

Hegseth: Quotes fake bible verses from the movie Pulp fiction.

The rest: Still working out the kinks

sacajawea:
Is it?

Hilarious

Hilarious story

And someone out there is demoralised for being fat and short. Love yourself. Give it time

My honest advice is this RUN. Just realised that there's a video. A actual video of the said culprit. That's strange. Most certainly not real

What is wrong with a public yard?

I cringe whenever I see them down here doing the above or barbing hair. *Shudders*

Amwitty:
I hadn’t started it yet I was planning to, but a friend told me it’s not as interesting as The Big Bang Theory, so I held off. But since you’ve recommended it, I’ll give it a try.

Definitely interesting and better, in my opinion, than Big bang theory. You should definitely watch it.

Amwitty:
Big bang has to be one of my favorite TV series I love it soooo much

Same here. Have you watched Young Sheldon. If you haven't, then it's a must watch.

Why ever will an ex be an enemy?

That's a lot. Most likely left his hotspot on and his teenage kids finished it on movies and games

Hullcity:
This man Churchill is a shameless man

I agree. Terrible human