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Johel:
Dope shit like what In this hell of a difficult country??...,I've tried too many things...but guess what, Nigerians are dream killers, very wicked people who don't Wana see the next man grow...it's difficult making money legitimately when one is from a poor background without support or even a guardian,...saving up is difficult because unforseen bills surfaces month in month out,we have ourselves to Takecare of,bills to pay,a partner to support,friends to assist,family issues to sort,man go still flex small make man for no crase,income is little ,business slow to enter due to many competition and bad belle People,things are super costly in recent time...it's just difficult for those without no one, earning little yet trying to get to the top and make life meaningful...someday God will remember us for good.... whatever I get now,I just manage ,try save and hope for the best...because most times no be by power or sense,it's about grace,time, information and opportunity and when the opportunity comes,will you be financially ready??

You know LIFE !! Its all about grace, time, information and opportunity and when the opportunity comes, will you be financially ready??. I could have not said it better.

Hi @sijibomi33.

Wow! Hats down to you my man. You have done well. I think though that the problem lies with your church leaders and maybe the members also. Remember that the church has to be there every step of the way in your life. It seems like that the leaders in that church are only happy to see members attending only! Not how are they doing in their lives, how are they coping, and what stages in their lives they are currently on.

As a grown man, about the age of 30, someone (preferably an elder) should have noticed and guided you, and maybe arranged a date between you and someone compatible. I think you have done much better and you should be proud, find someone preferably between 27 and 30 years old and everything will be alright.