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Truvelisback:
Being a virgin adds ones worth, Yes. I will tell u some of its advantages: When a girl who is a virgin marries a man who loves her, and she loses her virginity to the man she loves, the tendency of she not leaving the man is very high. It will be very hard 4 her to leave her man. Secondly, Sex with a virgin is really pleasurable because the V.J is still tight or normal and not loose. Infact this is also one of the major reasons some men go 4 them or marries them. On the other hand, girls who aren't virgin or have had several sexual relationship with different guys b4 getting married, may not be faithful in marriage with her man. This is why some mothers who knows these always protect their virgin daughters like eggs.

Listen to yourself boss. What does a lady stand to gain from marrying a virgin guy?
Always putting down rules for women but not for your gender.

[quote author=OMOJOHN001 post=106368585][/quote]So a lady does not deserve to be blessed with a virgin man? You people just put a lot of stupid pressure on women, and it's sick.

Also, if you can't share your opinion without insults, you don't deserve to be heard.

seraphvictoria:
Nigeria @61 ����
Happy Independence Nigeria!!

Even as things are not as we want them to be, the change we desire can be made by us. From knowing the past, we can create a better future.

As we celebrate our independence, here are some books that will help you understand the country better.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mBdRnsEfB2w

You didn't include Becoming Nigerian by Elnathan John?
Sigh

I've been seeing a lot of headlines on people 'bragging' about marrying virgins, and while nothing is wrong with that, although some tend to take it the extreme, it's absolutely wrong to put others down for not being or marrying virgins.

Virginity is a social construct, and mostly linked to cultural and biblical praise. Being a virgin or not does not add or reduces one's worth. Culture makes it seem that way.

Why don't we ask ourselves why the term is mostly used for women? More than half of virginity advocacy only focus on women. You can't tell if a man is a virginity or not because both genders' sex organs are built differently.

Many people don't even realize there are ways a person can be 'disvirgined' other than sex. Imagine marrying someone who hasn't had sex before but isn't a 'virgin,' and because the society sees being a virgin as something worthful, you become mad. Does that even make sense?

danny56:
Bible asked a simple question; what is equal to a man's life? Same people who killed him are thieves themselves, only that they've not been caught...

I condemn jungle justice but you using the people as a reference is an irony.

siofra:
Americans are so obsessed with this DNA stuff.

Almost half of them were displaced and uprooted from their roots. Don't you think they deserve to know their identity? Don't you know where you are originally from?