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Goodman024:
Hello everyone, good day. I trust you’re all doing well. Please, I really need some matured advice from you people regarding something that has been troubling my mind and could affect my future. I’ll try to be as brief as possible, but I also want to explain well so you can understand me.

So here’s the matter: I’ve been in a relationship with a lady for almost a year now. From the beginning, we had our fair share of challenges, things like poor communication, not being very supportive (all from her end), and some other small issues here and there. But along the line, we both worked through those challenges, grew to understand each other better, and since then things have been going well between us.

In fact, I’ve already introduced her to my family members, and by next month I plan to go and see her people. I’ve been thinking seriously about settling down with her and hopefully making her my wife next year. That’s how far I’ve gone in my mind and plans with this relationship.

But something happened yesterday that broke me badly, and it’s the reason I’m here asking for advice. I recently found out that she lied to me about her health condition. To give context, some months ago, she was diagnosed with fibroid. I have been supportive since then, reassured her, and made her know that whatever happens, we’re in this together. But what really pained me is that I later discovered she has actually known about this fibroid since over a year ago, long before she even told me, but she kept it from me until recently.

As if that wasn’t enough, I also got to know that she has had two abortions in the past. And please, I’m not just assuming or accusing her wrongly, I have proof of everything I’m saying. Honestly, this revelation has really hit me hard, and I’m just confused about what step to take from here.

The truth is, I genuinely love this lady. But at the same time, my heart is heavy with a lot of thoughts. Should I let go of this relationship because of the lies and past secrets? Should I forgive her and move on, considering the fact that everyone has a past? Or should I take another approach?

I don’t want to make the wrong decision that I will regret later in life, that’s why I’ve come here for guidance. Please, advise me like a brother, or even as a son. I really need matured opinions on this.

I am a man but this talk about making wrong decision... Guidance is just thrash


You are an adult
If your mind is telling you go for a young girl who is a v.. then go
Quickly release the lady to meet a man who will be by her truly

Even all those ones who do runs get very good husbands who don't judge them

Abeg go and sleep Jare

Mensan:Even if I win that hoh,my assistant will be sleeping there,I'll be here,I'm serious

Faith:Who is going to be your assistant?

Mensan:I don't know, but at first, I wanted to pick Faith, though

Faith:Me?

Mensan:Yeah

Faith:You know what?...oh yeah, you told me

Mensan:You think I was joking? I was not joking oo

Faith:Nice one

Mensan:Because I don't want a situation where I won go where......where will I go to change

Faith:You can choose Thelma, Thelma is close to you

Mensan:Just like you said,immunity, but I love leadership

Faith:You know what?This Sunday fìght for that shìt

Mensan:Fìght?I am not fìghting ah ah see the last one na balance thing,I just want to just turn like this..it was so painful..

Faith:That's what I'm saying

Mensan:Do you know I can walk with that thing like this(He demonstrated)no jokes,that thing I was holding I can walk with it round that arena area and just to turn like this...(He demonstrated it scàttered)

Faith:You did it nah,were you not in Wackos stuff you did it nah. That thing I did with Koyin that throwing ball thing, you know it's Koyin and Rooboy that though me how to play pool,I am not that good at the game ,I am not,he's better than me and Koyin had been playing that thing for years but somehow I won.

Mensan:🤣🤣🤣

Faith:I'm serious,and in my head I felt I have come to realise that there are things beyond my control in that arena but the only thing you can control in that place is the effort you put into it,that's all you've,the effort ooo, once you've done the effort part nothing else is in your control,if they say run ,run as fast as you can,the rest leave it,if they tell you to jump,jump as high as you can the rest leave because if you start thinking about the other part that you can't control...

Mensan:In this last game, I wanted to play smart like this big brother caught me,I think he heard me discussing about that🤣🤣🤣🤣

Abeg leave the smoking for him.. as long as that's what works for him
After all Jona during his time was taking ògógóró to be able to face his work

Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

There was something he was doing to her which she felt was worth it to warrant her not breaking up with him..

Lastly you are mouthing yourself... Why do you forgive a cheating girlfriend... A girl that has shown higher chances that she can never be contented with you...


Obviously she never rated you... Na you dey carry her matter on your head.. your ex relationship wasn't about love

motymop:
People contributed money to support his activism. After that, he began referring to himself as a man of integrity even calling himself the only man with integrity in Nigeria. But since then, there's been little to no transparency about how the NGO funds have been spent.

He has been handing out ₦1 million here and there like it’s a giveaway. He has also announced various projects he is working on, a borehole here and there, To date, we’ve only seen evidence of maybe one project he claims to have completed. The rest? We only hear about them with no pictures, no reports, no documentation to verify anything.

There's a troubling lack of clarity between personal funds and NGO money, today, he will say, he used some his personal money and took some NGO money for a project, seems he can not seperate personal money from NGO money.

He constantly shows up in places uninvited, making it more about performance than purpose. There is no real accountability, just performative activism, constant storytelling and gaslighting much like the very politicians he claims to oppose.

If he truly considers himself a man of integrity, then the bare minimum would be to publicly publish a detailed account of how funds are being spent. That’s what integrity demands.

If e sure for you.. go and drop all these things you wrote here on one of his posts or in his DM .. wait for a reply .. I believe he is within reach to respond like the politicians that someone can't reach to voice out their minds

Obviously she needed to escape from him

renderme:
Dt girl calls herself his friend. I don't think that's the jaysons girlfriend.
Most of them don't announce themselves until after the show.
I remember Seyi Awolowos girlfriend only talking when she went with him on media rounds.
Better way to do it, if not u go just chop public embarrassment if ur guy had misbehaved in the show.

True talk sha 😂😂😂😂

Travel Beta Task

Team Visa
Isabella
Faith
Tracy
Zita
Dede

Team Hotel (Winner)
Kaybobo
Kola
Imisi
Bright
Rooboy

Team Flight
Mide
Kuture
Sultana
Koyin
Joanna

Team Tip Travel Beta Installment plan
Thelma
Mensan
Denari
Jason

renderme:
Jayson said today he misses his girlfriend sooo bad.
Brights own was even an afterthought after big brother asked yesterday and he mentioned missing his family.
But everywhere is quiet compared to yesterday.
No one is dragging Jayson, na only Bright dem go drag. Our special haters.

The so called girlfriend that's outside here.. the Kosoko girl... Has she ever posted that people should vote for him..

Who do us this strong thing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wo coming from them, anything is possible
We await their PRO to come give us stories

Watch ooooo
The budget will be like 15 billion dollars now
😂🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣🤣

OP go look for enough money so that you go to Lagos Business School o..

*Colgate Task*

Team Strong Teeth: Thelma, Jason, Isabella, Dede, and Koyin

Team Zero Cavity: Kaybobo, Denari, Sultana, Joanna, and Kola

Team Healthy Gum: Bright, Imisi, Faith, and Kuture

Team Fresh Breath: Mide, Tracy, Zita, Rooboy, and Mensan

Friendly25:
My biggest disappointment this season is Sultana.

Such a beautiful plus-sized girl with natural aura. I feel bad for her life experiences at such a young age. Shes basically a victim of r**e.

I expected her to set a template that would allow more core Arewa girls participate in the show, and even if she was to fall for someone, it shouldn't be to the point of being used recklessly by an extreme jerk like that Ado-Ekiti Usher Raymond called Jason Jae who disrespected her to the point of denying her and kissing & telling her business like a Hot house boy!

This is the low budget Dudu Osun that somehow thought he could take down Dede!

Ado- Ekiti Usher Raymond

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

So in all these things now wetin Fubara gain

When will the crop of Nigerian politicians we have today start to tow this path

This information isn’t updated na. OP try to read through intending posts before posting

Obviously has to be through being a fraud.. the kind of people happy for him.. all of una must to share in the jail sentence
Una dey think say the money na life time fortune abi…. It’s actually the jail term that will be the life time.

Hmmmmmmmm but one day surely he will go... Everyone will go... It's just the timing that matters. The prayer is we all pray to live long enough to enjoy the fruits of our labour

This one that must be seeking asylum in another country

Tuc abi wetin una call una selves…. Go rest… irrelevant organization

Toymax88:
I have no RIP to waste

Many got the JOB through the backdoor

I took the exam in 2007 and scored 69, we were told to proceed to Ojoo Cantonment in Lagos state.

Only for the politicians in the Government House to hijack the list, they gave those who did not take the aptitude not travel to Lagos

I was not deterred, l still applied like 6 times but I wasn't shortlisted

I applied as Detective I (2x)

Detective II (2x)

Specialist 2x

Officer 2 times

Many of u got the job because your parents are influential


My RIP don finish

Repercussions of not having a Godfather

No job is easy jare
May their souls rest in peace

Not had light 🚨 for the past seven days now o

Dogalmighty17:
Ali Baba's wife through her bank inflated a loan figure they gave to the original owner of the building their studio was in. I think the matter contributed to his increased high blood pressure which later led to his death. The bank repossessed the property and then sold it to Ali Baba.

Seeking redress, the kids of the original owner of the property challenged the unlawful sale in court and the court ruled in their favour. Without delay, they threw Ali Baba and his studio out.

Are you saying Ali Baba is dead
You go just open 👄 like waaaaaaa dey spew wrong information

renderme:
Mhmmmm🧐
I think he likes Dede and dt slim body type.Interesting.
Na why Bright no believe in this brother-sister thing. Na so e dey start.
Some people don Dey ship dem sef. I just don’t see it sha. Nepo vs Pako.

Kola is more of the aesthetic type.. so on a normal day sef.. if he met Dede and Imisi outside he would first and always move towards Dede s type..

Bright and Mide conversation about Imisi and Kola

Bright... Eheee, there's something i don't understand. Yesterday, when we were there (Pointing at the kitchen side), Kola and Imisi were playing, and the next thing i heard, Imisi was like, "Stop nah ,stop telling me to kìss you, and I was like kìss kwa,Imisi said ehen nah and this is not the first time, like 3 times now. And Kola was like ah ah na, I was only joking

Bright to Mide... Don't tell anyone yet, I am only gìsting you

Bright... For someone you called your sister, you shouldn't be using that kinda word on her,and be saying that it was a joke

Mide:Are you serious?

Bright:Yes. I couldn't picture if he was really joking joking joking or .. but Imisi said this wasn't the first time nor second time. It was wèird

Mide:Very weird. There's this time I saw them hugging the hugging was really giving....do you get?

Bright :I feel like he's already having feelings for her

Mide:I feel like he likes her as a person, but not really, really like that in that way....you know for someone you're always close to there would be this....

Bright:If he likes her, he should just say it to her

Mide:I don't think he'll try because it is just....

Bright:I found it interesting

Mide:In that way right...maybe it's just a brother and sister thing

And why would he even say kìss me why not do it if that's what he wants? Maybe it's pecking he meant....

TheEnforcer:
He is literally ass licking her.Someone that disrespect him everytime everywhere.She has said shed not attracted to him even to big brother because of his small build. Just tolerating him.He has even tried some lines on her shich she rejected immediately. Why stick with such a person?In fact he is making her feel superior to him.Its now a case of hanging around what you can never get.And she just playing along.The guy they vex me.Have some self respect around her come on!

I just wish she says this thing to Kuture and he helps us do the Lord's work...

geezprince:
Thank heavens the camera man moved the camera away… Joanna was about singing like a canary. She won cast the boy.

That girl always coming with the attitude of
Although I am 21 years old, I am very "smart and knowledgeable"
And it is Faith I really blame for giving her highlights two weeks ago, where he was just singing bla blah blah about her on eviction show

Tufiakwa