agiboma: @ op good luck with what you are searching for,so its been 6 months any luck yet.

A similar thread made me remember this my thread I cant believe people actually buy into ds "contract marriage" idea and were forming saints wen i mentioned it.

Well, me is good now, very happily married to a man dat loves me like crazy (and pls i dint meet him on NL o, and yes he meets almost all my physical and pocket requirements ). I still struggle wt opening myself to him completely but I got my fingers crossed and still have all options open , if he tries nonsense, i jeje take my children and move (tho i dnt see dat happening at all )

Guys seriously? When i talked about ds contract marriage thing last year i was almost crucified. Beyond shocked dat a lot of pple actually buy into it now. O ma she o

Anywayz, im 3 months plus in marriage now, and honestly, nothing like being married to someone dat appreciates u, its heavenly. But i still cant let go completely; so i still maintain my miniflat at oniru, plan to take off there wen i need my space.

@ lurkee, me is loving u too Every gal truly wants it good but not every gal can handle d pressures of love. It wears me out and I know it. Thanks for your loving wishes for me

I always have a great time wt my guy pals, we get along perfectly well cos I dont care abt wat they are doing on the side, both the good, the bad, ugly, womanisers, churchees etc, we are always there for each other, support each other and have mad good times together. Dats the principle I want the marriage to run on, no love drama, no high expectations, no judgements

Gotten a lotta interesting emails already, some seemingly interesting pple, sounding well educated and understands the game, will keep u all posted on how it ends, no matter hw long dat is, Peace out y'all, need to get back to my life and the numerous emails

love nairaland walai talai

Nah, I dint take off, was tied down wt work.

True y'all, I really mustnt get married bt I dont wanna end up like those "aunties" in our offices that we all give dat "pity stare" each time they walk by; and whey they get upset over a normal situation, its termed over-reaction because they are fruastrated cos not married.

Hey its an honest arrangement where the 2 parties involved are upfront wt themselves, and its pretty much based on agreed terms. No sneeking behind ones back to do stuff like we all see in our "love filled' relationships and marriages these days; and coming back to your spouses and children and smiling like d perfect one.

For all of the responsible and righteous pple crucifying and judging me, i may b guilty as charged, BUT, make sure dat you have never cheated on your spouses before, or at least u were honest with them wen u did. Otherwise, rethink your statements. Nigerians and our self-righteousness, wont be surprised if its d same pple judging me dat have sent me emails

Truth is, it really mustnt be a dirty arrangement, dats why i cant write enough "matured guys" in my post. The terms would be agreed and mutually acceptable to both parties, c'mon y'all im too pweety to want to die of an STD or smthin. Moreover, if I dont get anyone dat suits my requirement after it all, i go jeje settle wt one of my suitors/toasters (nice guys too). Doing this because I know dat I cannot love any man again, i know hw it feels wen u love someone and d person disrespects d love and even cheats on u, its horrible and i just dint want to inflict it on anyone.

Have faith dear, not a scam, its a woman deciding what she wants, Moreover, wats there to scam in this, wat can be in for a scammer in this arrangement mode of communication, strictly email until both parties are comfortable to meet, I set up a yahoo account specifically for this, u culd do that too if u want

After deep thoughts into my past relationships, I have decided to opt for a "no-strings" attached marriage. Decided I cant handle the pressures of love.

I'm in ma late twenties, would say im pweety and have a successful career. Usually, Im the most fun-loving lady any man would want to have around. I really can be sweet, very playful and can easily flow with any line of conversation. I am also an excellent cook (local and continental dishes). BUT I can get melodramatic when my man hurts me and it can be really really bad.

After my last relationship, I realized that I get dat way because of LOVE. Maybe I really cant handle love. But I need to get married because there's pressures from every angle, and a lady cant honestly be taken serious in Nigeria wen she is not married. So I have decided to do this.

The principles would be simple: We get married, live together but each person has their lives/privacy. You are free to do whatever you like and so am I. We are not answerable to each other for our actions but we always have respect for our personal lives and choices. Would love for us to be friends, at the least lets be able to share jokes and drinks cos we would live together. We would share financial expenses, and both agree on the terms for sex and children (if any): adult style, no drama.

What I need from the man: Maturity to be able to handle the situation without abusing it. Also he must have a successful career/business (cos I do and dunno want a man with inferiority complex issues around me).

Interested matured men send me an email at womanneedhusband@yahoo.com and we will take it up from there.

Chose nairaland to do this cos I love the diversity of people on this forum and belive I can find dat man here