Ijeoma Okeke100: poster your damn fault that happened to you. why did you have to start this game in the first place. look let me tell you, whether man or woman nobody like to get bored and we all wana explore once in a while. there is nothing wrong with some exploring before one ties the knot so that when she is married she becomes a proper wife. she is only 23 and needs time to play and make er own mistakes. she was not there when you explored your youth so stop being such sour grapes. By the looks of things, you never even gave her a chance to play coz you turned her into an unofficial spouse from the tenter age of 20 or 21 and that is the time someone wants to see life. your fault again that yalls was fiance for over 2 years. who the hell wants to be a fiance for soo long. nigga pleassssss

what is wrong with a 23 year old maintaining a promising relationship. I heard Omotola got married way below that! If her actions was as a result of getting bored wit a barely 2 years relationship,then our mothers who have been faithful with there marriage of many years deserve praises. Besides, what stops her from walking away honorably.
I still have no cause regretting taking it this far.

I never intend to bore you with this my personal experience on how unfaithful ladies can be.
I have a girlfriend of close to 2 years that has almost become my wife because we are planning to have our introduction in a few months time. She is 23 years old while I'm almost 29. She is completing her NCE by september and thats about the time I will be resuming for my Masters. She respects and adores me (Don't know wether it's as a result of the difference in status) and I equally cherished her. She stays on campus and comes around on Fridays. She is becoming a part of me - like the proverbial missing rib. To be frank, I'm always happy around her.
My trouble with her started a few weeks ago when she began to exhibit traits of a girl who wants to test the waters. I called her, made my observations known, softly scolded and advised her. She practically went on her kneels weeping with a promise to be a good girl afterwards.
This new episode started last Sunday when I registered a new account on her favorite social media with a new identity. I sent her a friend request which she accepted promptly, then the conversation began! After she had given me her details all of which were accurate, I requested that we should exchange numbers, as a team from my office is likely to come to her town for a meeting with some government officials and I will like to meet her. She was reluctant initially, but dropped the number after a little persuasion. I had thought the number was fake because I didn't know her with that number. You can imagine my bitterness when I dialled the number and was greeted by her voice. So this girl operates a secret number I didn't know of!
I kept my cool and continued calling her as a stranger with a strange voice on this line. We exchanged messages both on the social media and on phone.
Then on Friday, I called to inform her that we are already in her town lodged in a hotel for the meeting and asked if she would come around. Her excuse was that she couldn't make it that night but promised to show up the next day. I couldn't wait for the next day to break when I've started calling and sending messages to make her realise how important it is for us to meet. She promised to come by 2 p.m and exactly on top of the hour, she called to inform that she is setting out. All these while I was becoming restless. I left my home immediately so as to get there before her. Everything worked out as planned. I was stil lurking around when she called to announce her arrival. I told her to stand at a spot so that I could come pick her, she did. When I eventually showed up as her date, she nearly collapsed. Enraged as I were, I managed to stop a cab, took her home and gave the red card. She requested that I give her writing materials, which I did.
Her excuse was that I didn't allow the game to end properly as I didn't know her plan for showing up there. That even made me mad the more! What reason could it be?
She is pleadin for forgiveness now and thats why I need candid and matured pieces of advice from fellow nairalanders.
I must state here that througout our unfortunate dating period, I never cheated on this bitch not even once!

Absolutely commendable!
How I wish they publicise our debt profile like this, then we'll know if they truly deserve the praises