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Politics › Re: Hardship: Nigerians Are In Pains And Frustration. My Experience This Morning. by dynasty2017: 8:47am On Mar 02, 2024

@ OP Seezion

I have sent you something, take care.

Nairaland mate.

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Politics › Re: Hardship: Nigerians Are In Pains And Frustration. My Experience This Morning. by dynasty2017: 8:14am On Mar 02, 2024

It's really difficult for most people and no end in sight.

Send your account details OP.

Your Details seen above.

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Family › Re: My Husband Is Boldly Cheating On Me, Help by dynasty2017: 3:21am On Aug 17, 2019

Dear I think you should think of yourself and child first. "A dog that would suffer destruction, will never listen to the whistle of the guard". It's a pity this had to happen to you at this early stage of your union, but life must go on. Kindly move close to your family and those that truly care about you. Get a job, be happy and remember that there are people who love you.

I wish you all the best.

Family › Re: My Wife Is A Cheat. I Need Advice by dynasty2017: 3:13am On Aug 17, 2019

From what you have narrated, you are a good man who loves his wife. You should however know that at times love is not enough. You need to love and respect yourself because your children look up to you. Imagine that the one that is about 17years old get to hear about his/ her mum's behaviour from strangers, you might never know how he/ she will handle it. Face your business and raising your children, because she might not be in the right place to mentor them morally. If you want to help her in any way, sit her down and let her know you have had enough, let her seek help medically if she is nyphomaniac, or spiritual healing if she is under a spell, but it's something she has to do alone when she decides to change. Stay alive for yourself and children because there are so many diseases out there.

Do not listen to all those mocking you because only you know what you feel and I do not think you are less a man for putting up with her. Shit happens in life.

I wish you all the best.

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Family › Re: My Wife Often Denies Me Sex Despite That I Only Return Home On Weekend From Work by dynasty2017: 12:29am On Jul 06, 2019

[/quote]I[quote author=bigl post=79935633]I totally agree with this line of thought. Being at home and taking care of kids can be so stressful. Do you know her aspirations, is she satisfied with her accomplishments so far? Do you return home and just expect her to serve herself to you without consideration. She might not be getting anything from outside. So communication is the key, look for a way to take the children off her for the weekend for you two to have a heart to heart dialogue. If possible, also take a leave from work for a time alone with her. Distance in marriage could have negative effect on bonding because you guys eventually become strangers, so work on relocation. It's either she joins you in the state where you are or you seek transfer to where your family is.
I wish you the best bro.

Hmmmmmmmmm.... i understand u bro .... its probably stress and the fact that you are living apart ...

If she was like this when u got married; as in u always have to cajole her, etc before u have sex, then there's little chances she will change but if she's not being like that, then you really should address this head on.

But I don't think she's cheating. I still want to believe its the stress of taking care of the kids ... i'm a father and i know how tiresome one can be after chasing all these kids around (especially if u have them plenty).

And it can also be age factors affecting her hormones.

Sometimes, for strange reasons, some people stop having sex cos they just don't have the urges and they too can't explain; so they hide under "stress, tiredness, etc" though that can also be a contributing factor.

Try this: If u have a parents, let your kids go there for the weekend for the next couple of weeks, leaving u and your wife. Then take her out to see the world. Give her some trip/trills out there then come back home and have mind blowing sex.

If these doesn't work then there is need to see a doctor.

Whatever u do, pls pls and pls, don't report her to anybody: its like nailing a half dead man in a coffin.

If there are some more infos to these writeup, buzz me on whatsapp for some more private discussion

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Education › Re: Alleged Extremist Group In OAU Has Support Of Buhari’s Cabinet Member – DSA by dynasty2017: 9:51am On Mar 09, 2017

I am surprised that the school authority is just getting aware of this group of extremist that have been causing havoc to the school community. The have created a niche for themselves for a long time now. They should be investigated, brought to book for their crimes and flushed out of the school community.
The school authority has the responsibility to protect her students.
Long live great Ife.

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