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favour32:
Nobody can satisfy some human beings especially you!
If Osmhem goes to England and do well,you will also complain and shift the goal post.

...and possibly shift the goal post to Osimhen has not played for Bendel Insurance!
I understand you joor. People of that category are impossible to please and are never happy with themselves even when they achieve stellar performance! So you expect them to be happy with people who is breaking records?

Safyqueen:
Husba not Hisna. And again, how is Hisbah useless here? Can't you see the girl is a matured dwarf and the man is using her for content creation in a way not allowed in Islam thereby exploiting her inaccessible to a man of his type in marriage maybe by viture of her disability.
Hisba is headed by Mallam Aminu Daurawa, a knowledgeable Imam in all aspects of education you may think of. Next time before commenting on issues about north, remove that notion of illiteracy and uncivilization from your skull. A northerner is more educated and informed than a typical southerner because he has both education, Islamic and Western.

Your points are spot on. However try and understand the fact that both are content creators as stated and both consented to this...you and I know what content creators do. How do you now tie this to exploitation? For that fact that the lady is dwarf does not mean she is a minor not capable of making rational decision. This is her business! Also I did not read anywhere on points that highlight that she is a woman that is of unsound mind to further justify your claimed exploitation.
No offence, you and I are reasoning logically.
A new Nigeria is Possible

PeterObiGuy:
You will see Africans claiming their grandparents is 140 or 130 etc.

If you don't have the birth certificate then no evidence.


My father died last month at 63 he say it's not easy for anybody to reach 100.
Say to know the age of an elderly woman, add 40 years to the age of her last child you must get her age.

@Ditari of Ijaw.

The bolded model is fallacious and could be misleading as it is not all encompassing!
How do you account for a case of LONG delay in child bearing? Let us mind what we post. No offense please.

BTW:
As for Guiness World Record (GWR), I see the whole thing as na who carry matter enter limelight be the thing wey people recognise or certify. Go our rural area make you go see age. Even for china, some chinese grand pa senior this small boy
Na Rubbish the GWR be in my own opinion. Crap as usual

Trump is subtly throwing shade at Palestine's recognition as a state is impossible

APOPTOSIS:
Someone is phucking Someone's daughter without due clearance and you are talking about faithfulness? 🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️. Faithfulness to who, please? A boyfriend not acknowledged or known by the father....Do you know that if that GaL dies in that so-called boyfriend apartment, that boy will be in grave danger ( homicide straight).
But if a wife dies in her husband's house, doors wouldn't be closed at the man most likely.
Think oooooo. I don't care what the gal does with her life, for that's her choice. It's for the boy to make his decision whether to go on or not. He has no iota of legal right over that GaL.
You Guys don't understand the "Law"

I believe you are catching cruise with the subject of discussion, because the comments I have read so far are actually ANTI-APTOPTOSIS!
What is happening? I see you as a bright mind when it comes to logical/critical reasoning (I follow your comments/thread unknowingly to you most times). Your response to Nairaland topics is always apt! This one get as e be o!
Hope you are good?

MistyDense:
Thanks so much brother. Thanks for your understanding. When I saw that guy's comment, I was really shocked. Sometimes I feel some potential nairalanders should take SANITY TEST before they become members of the forum, also there should be age restriction here, because sometimes whenever I read people's comment about a particular subject, I feel they don't have conscience

You crack my ribs with the bolded sis.
Honestly some of the comments on this forum nowadays point to low level of maturity of some of the members.

Daejumong:
Dae Jumong 16/9/25

OP, you did well to have dug into archives to substantiate your points but I still feel you did not dig well enough to know many things are playing out in the background as regards regular fundings, cares and support being given to the Akindayomi's family

APOPTOSIS:
What right does your Younger Brother have over a lady he has not paid her bride price?
The effrontery with which people take ordinary relationship is unbecoming.

Just imagine ordering the steps and redirecting the future of a young girl whom you haven't sought for her hand in marriage officially
Isn't that madness?

While I totally agreed with the bolded words, This is to remind you that marital union under the guise of wedding resulting to marriage has steps bro! Some things have already been established by her kid brother which the OP and other member of the family have thrown their weight behind. We are complaining of moral decadence in the society, paternity fraud etc. These are all traceable to activities like this.

For me it as simple as this...If you are in the game (relationship) to cheat meaning you are not ready to settle down and you are not worth having me...this is what the kid bro and OP are saying. The pain bore by the kid bro is the time, energy and financial resources invested because it takes time to love (though some school of thoughts believe in love at first sight).

My 2 kobo contributions.

Iparis7:
That is very possible I'm not surprised but it is a taboo in my village

You are so right! This is taboo and should be out rightly condemned!
However the POST did not say BIOLOGICAL MOTHER OR BIOLOGICAL DAUGHTER or am I missing lines in the right up posted?

Maybe na school daughter she be o ; !
Anyway as far as they are happy...their life, their choice.



But if na de same blood, this one BAD o!!!

PUNANI01:
Go away from checkpoints, Civilians are suffering too.

If Police totally vacates check point, it will be bloody for civilians o! Though they have their ills, but their presence at the check points create some regulatory measures on the bad guys, take it or live.

Kobojunkie:
Wait a second! What was your original intention in taking the girl in at the beginning? To use her in raising your own family or to adopt her as one of your own kids?

2. So, your wife is looking for a slave and not an employee? And she believes this gal is meant to be a slave for her purpose, something you seem to think makes sense?

If you say your wife is not looking for a slave in this case, then why can't the chores be distributed between your son and the girl? Or is your son not intelligent enough to handle chores or something? Help me understand why you are asking us this question, because what is obvious is that your wife is not happy that this gal is getting the same treatment as her blood in the home.

This (bolded) is just the conclusion of the whole saga.
OP, your original intention was the concept of adoption based on what you scripted. Stand by that and present your case in a mature way without slighting your woman.
As Kobojunkie rightly stated, there is nothing wrong in introducing the two kids to light household chores at their current age. Be fair and transparent in this approach. There is a blessing awaiting you in the life of sacrifice you are paying for this cousin girl of yours.

If the work is becoming too much you can get someone that will come and do stand alone clean-up/household chores and live, while subsequently calling on the person occasionally based on wage approach (Me I nor dey support permanent stay with family approach)

Kobojunkie:
Na only when thief thief your own money you go acknowledge say na thie I'm be? 🥱🥱🥱

2. Tufiakwa ..I respect no human beings age. 😩😩😩😩

3. Even the man don confess say im thief money for at least the last 4 decades by preaching lies. But I am sure that one no matter to you since im be your god. 🥱😄😄

4. Why can't I judge a thief a thief?🥱🥱🥱

5. No be me dey preach to people...so no log to remove from me.

At least try to learn the correct application of these ideas before you go around thinking to use them as weapons against others. All they do here or reveal how ignorant and desperate you are in trying to exonerate this man of all his faults. 🥱🥱🥱

You are not a child because my guess is, you are more than 18 years old, so I cannot say your replies indicate you are yet to come of age.
On a flip side (as an adult), your replies (especially number 5) shows your a bitter soul! No offense please.
Maybe something bad happened to you in the past or you had a horrible experience with your childhood and/or tweenage to teenage age that short circuit your mind and eventually patterned you to always think like the way you are doing. This further makes you not happy, especially when it comes to matters like this.
This will not do you good if you continue like this.


If this is true of you, my advice is this: Free your mind of the past and let go off these burdens...that is the only way to gain happiness and inner peace.
Try it for one day and see how your thinking/perception changes for good and by extension you will know when to draw borderline whenever you are posting or commenting on social media platform like Nairaland.

Kobojunkie:
He stole the dreams and lives of 10s of millions of Nigerians by way of his lies and manipulations. Is that not enough reason to stand against him and his lies? 🥱🥱🥱

Did he steal from you? Or he stole your spouse which happens to be you dream/life?
At least respect his age and Octogenarian status when criticising him..you are going over it as though you were dealing with a primary school boy!
What evidence do you have for these claims?
This you are putting up here are they not lies and manipulations also which your posts are always laced with?
Who are you to cast stones when you yourself is not free of such!
Remove the LOG OF WOOD in your eyes first before you start doing that of others!
Constructive criticism will do not abusive criticism approach you always adopt in your post.
You are too bittered!
Try to be happy, it will help rid off your approaching of commenting on Nairaland

Kobojunkie:
Just wait for it. This man will likely not die a natural death on a sunday after one of his service like he predicts, but his propaganda machine will do its best to ensure the public is kept in the dark about this. 🥱🥱🥱

Wetin this man do you?
You see am for your dream or did he collect your most treasured possession?

Na wa o!!!

DelilahMakinde:
Usually the other dies within 48 hours

WOW!
In Nigeria street context...This na follow come twins.
I am really fascinated with they way they are both manage themselves...during menstrual flow and other routine personal body cleaning activities. You cannot beat the fact that the duo will be best gisting partner with a lot to talk about. Them go gist about the Mr. groom turned hubby taya.

Nature is indeed wonderful with a lot of awe!

Dogalmighty17:
Considering that they have separate hearts, brains and lungs, what happens when one dies?

This question hot o!!!

helinues:
You know, a noob can fly airplane with mouth without crashing

The question is: What is that problem in Nigeria that can not be fixed in 4 years?...This is the question you were asked

Angelfrost:
Needless sensationalism...!

That doesn't make the baby old or oldest.

Baby's age starts the moment they are born not conceived or in the embryonic stage of development.

This (bolded) is the conclusion of the whole matter!
To support and strengthen your argument @Angelfrost, it is very possible at the point of birth (way back 1994) the baby may die or survive during the cause of labour hence the claim of oldest baby as it is being purported is a needless sensationalisation.

You are indeed highly cerebral!!!

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Unfortunately the damage has been done.
He has finally learnt his lesson the hard way that the masses (citizens) is bigger than the siting president of any nation
This will help him bridle his tongue next time!

Certificate wey dey idle all these while begin dey jump out! Nigerians get mouth

Eriokanmi:
I've heard and read about it too. But with constant healthy diets. How many Nigerians eat healthy? If you eat healthy, sperm is produced much faster and you enjoy general well-being.

It's always better not to practice what you cannot preach.

"How many Nigerians eat healthy?"...True talk bro!!!

ITbomb:
What if after all these, we enter heaven come found out say sex no be sin

Brotherly, sex no be SIN if you (as a MAN) do am with your WIFE (Woman) alone.
So if yo run am with your wife (as a married man) and you know Jesus as your LORD and Saviour, heaven na sure for you o

Eriokanmi:
Men should be happy whenever they say they're tired. Look at every home, except a few wives who left early in life and those men, whom God just wants to show mercy of ongevity, how many men outlive their wives? Use your brain. Women are the receiver while you're the one discharging your energy. You're the one losing each time.

That energy you're shedding will make you age faster and lose strength. Under a good diet( which is lacking in our clime) it takes an average of 21 days to recover that thing you're discharging. What now happens if you're mostly on hard drugs, energy drinks and eating junks? You'd be 50 but looking like 70yrs. It's not even advisable to always give in to sexual urge when it comes. You think of children schl fees, family responsibilities, you'd think of how to sustain what you give to parents monthly and your personal responsibilities join. You com dey sleep with her all the time join,only one pesin haa!

If you push some guys slightly, before you know it, dem don fall yakata,no strength remaining in them. Life is not all about sex. It's for your own good. If you don't sex all the time, you'd not be falling sick, your immune system will be srong etc.

I agree with you bro on some of your comments, however, the bolded may not be entirely true!
Regualr sex with healthy life style have been scientifically proven to be a strong anti-aging elixir for men.

AImiron:
Hello bro, I'm good hbu? Thanks for the analysis above 🤝

You are welcome bro!
Highest regards

AImiron:
I just want to ask who arranged those rocks?

Nature did!...through a process known as denudation. This has really shaped the Earth to the present day condition.
Indeed we can say nature is so talented with handi-work just as your Messi and C-Ronaldo doing their thing

How are you doing brother?
Greetings

merits:
I want to study native doctor with advanced yahoo.

Okay, I see!
I think it will be better you study native doctor with advanced yahoo yahoo, instead of advanced yahoo (single) you are proposing

Why don't reverse be the case...Trump visiting SA?
The whole thing is sounding as if, it is a free ticket to heaven!

merits:
Me wey I scored 99 how I wan take tell my parents say I passed but JAMB marked me down this boy finally bring me out,this is the breakdown of my scores:

Maths 33
English 33
Biology 11
Chemistry 22
Total 99.


And I want to study medicine oo

which couurse you wan do wey you dey do maths in place of physics? Anyway it confirmed the fact that you were catching cruise