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Phones / Auction Valid For 30hrs by Eaxy: 8:31pm On Oct 27, 2010
U.k used. Nokia N70 and Nokia 3230 with usb cord , charger and there ear pix for sale all for 16500 naira, my phone number 08033725371, email nonsochukwu@yahoo.com
Education / Pls Who Owns This Message? by Eaxy: 7:04am On Jul 23, 2010
THE WEST AFRICAN EXAMINATION
COUNCIL, NIGERIA Dear NWAFOR
NONSO CHUKWUNONSO, Your
November/December 2010 WASSCE
(Private) Candidate Profile was
successfully created, below are the
details: Username: chibu1 Password:
angel1 Card Pin: 108012528714 Card
Serial: RC40021607 (Thank you.)
Yours Sincerely WAEC, Nigeria
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: A Driver Needed Urgently by Eaxy: 11:10am On Jul 15, 2010
what should one be expecting as the salary?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Driver Living Close To Gbagada, Lagos Needed by Eaxy: 2:22pm On Jul 10, 2010
Please i need to know if this job offer is from a company and what's the name of the company or is it a private individual, what are the other benefits like allowances. Thank you
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Im Married But I Need A Male Friend by Eaxy: 11:29am On Jul 05, 2010
Many thinks that i'm a counselor but only few knew that i'm gifted but to me counselling is part of me. Now this is not just for u alone but for the Universe, During a marriage counselling
seminar, a woman asked a
common question. She said, 'How
do I know if I married the right
person?' There was a large man
sitting next to her so the counsellor
said, 'It depends. Is that your
husband?' In all seriousness, she
answered 'How do you know?'
Here's the answer:
EVERY relationship has a cycle.
In the beginning , you fell in love
with your spouse/partner. You
anticipated their call, wanted their
touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies
(unconventional behavior/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse
wasn't hard. In fact, it was a
completely natural and spontaneous
experience. You didn't have to DO
anything. That's why it's called
'falling' in love, Because it's
happening TO YOU. People in love
sometimes say, 'I was swept of my
feet.' Think about the imagery of
that expression. It implies that you
were just standing there; doing
nothing, and then something came
along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive
and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of
marriage, the euphoria
(excitement) of love fades. It's
the natural cycle of EVERY
relationship. Slowly but surely,
phone calls become a bother (if they
come at all), touch is not always
welcome (when it happens), and
your spouse's idiosyncrasies,
instead of being cute, drive you
nuts. The symptoms of this stage
vary with every relationship, but if
you think about your marriage, you
will notice a dramatic difference
between the initial stage when you
were in love and a much duller or
even angry subsequent stage. At
this point, you and/or your spouse
might start asking, 'Did I marry the
right person?'
And as you and your spouse reflect
on the euphoria of the love you
once had, you may begin to desire
that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages
breakdown. People blame their
spouse for their unhappiness and
look outside their marriage for
fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment
comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most obvious. But
sometimes people turn to work, a
hobby, a friendship, excessive TV/
computer, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma
does NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying that
you couldn't fall in love with
someone else. You could. And
TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But
you would be in the same situation
a few years later. Because (listen
carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN
MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING
THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S
LEARNING TO LOVE THE
PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or
spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER
just happen to you. You can't 'find'
LASTING love. You have to 'make' it
day in and day out. That's why we
have the expression 'the labour of
love.' Because it takes time, effort,
and energy. And most importantly,
it takes WISDOM. You have to
know WHAT TO DO to make
your marriage work. Make no
mistake about it. Love is NOT a
mystery. There are specific things
you can do (with or without your
spouse) to succeed with your
marriage. Just as there are physical
laws of the universe (such as
gravity), there are also laws for
relationships. Just as the right diet
and exercise program makes you
physically stronger, certain habits in
your relationship WILL make your
marriage stronger. It's a direct cause
and effect. If you know and apply
the laws, the results are
predictable. , you can 'make' love.
Love in marriage is indeed a
'decision', . Not just a feeling.
Remember this always:
'God determines who walks
into your life. It is up to you to
decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and who you
refuse to let go.'

Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Boyfriend Ooo by Eaxy: 9:43am On Jul 05, 2010
Don't tell me b'cos u get dumped or broked up, dat's d reason y u r posting 4 anoda man, pls get real, go back 2ur man & makeup wit him. Finally, if u ve fear of God, u 'll change him. Ve a nice day.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need A Boyfriend Ooo by Eaxy: 9:35am On Jul 05, 2010
Don't tell me b'cos u get dumped or broked up, dat's d reason y u r posting 4 anoda man, pls get real, go back 2ur man & makeup wit him. Finally, if u ve fear of God, u 'll change him. Ve a nice day.

Romance / Why Do Ladies Always Wants Guys To Be On Top? by Eaxy: 7:58am On Jun 14, 2010
Nigerian ladies don't like to be on top.
Computers / I Really Need To Upgrade My Compaq/hp Laptop Presario V6310us Memory (ram) To 2gb Or 4gb, Pls Help by Eaxy: 1:14am On Jul 23, 2009
I really need to upgrade my compaq/Hp laptop presario V6310US memory (ram) to the highest it can take, either 2gb or 4gb, the ram technology is DDR2 SDRAM and the form factor is SO DIMM 200-pin. Pls anyone that wants to sell or know who has, don't hesitate to contact me, my nbr is 08033725371. Thank u.

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