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ShoeShineGuy:
Honestly, I wanted to react immediately to her post but I decided to scroll down first to see if someone had replied and here you are. I would like to submit that it's quite a pathetic case but for the OP to even take sides without knowing the full story was unfair. I don't even want to judge without knowing why he would act in such a manner. As for the OP accusing the father of denying them a better future and all, I wonder if she had also asked what if the man was indeed super-rich and could have afforded to train the kids without them being taken away from him without his consent.

My point is, it looks as if the man acted in a wicked manner but I still wouldn't want to judge without knowing the entire story of what transpired. Do we even know what caused the separation? It could have been infidelity from either party and it could have also been something else. I am a father too and I love my children so much that if I noticed my wife had betrayed me in the past and now seeking to run away with my children -even doing it to scorn me, my dears I would not deny it, I might act similarly to this man because deep down I know I have given my all to my wife and kids.

As I said, this is quite a depressing end. Marriage is such a complex contract and this is one of its numerous negative fallouts. Instead of genuinely finding a way to fix the crack (not just patching it up) when there's one, we tend to ignore and allow things to fester. May God help us all.. Still, let's desist from judging based on emotions.

I totally agree that there is more to this story than is being told. This story somewhat sounds very familiar to a story I have heard. The woman forged custody documents to take her children away to join her boyfriend who is a married man in Canada, and i hear she almost broke another woman’s home, all in the name of she and the married man were classmates in secondary school. I think the husband got wing of the whole thing and fought to keep his children back in Nigeria. The woman and the married man are still dating till date.I never jump to conclusions when I hear stories like this. Some people like social media sympathy but not until you hear the other person’s side of the story.

I totally agree that there is more to this story than is being told. This story somewhat sounds very familiar to a story I have heard. The woman forged custody documents to take her children away to join her boyfriend who is a married man in Canada, and i hear she almost broke another woman’s home, all in the name of she and the married man were classmates in secondary school. I think the husband got wing of the whole thing and fought to keep his children back in Nigeria. The woman and the married man are still dating till date.
I never jump to conclusions when I hear stories like this. Some people like social media sympathy but not until you hear the other person’s side of the story.