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When you go dey see you babe dey fantasize how her ex been dey rough handle her, the dirty minds people have nah once you go run mad

Unlimited money and time travel jor

Jennyclay:
I have never for one day had such an ill mindset.

Me, suffer with a man? God forbid .

If you don’t have money to take care of me don’t even dare come close to me.

See this own wey dey trek steady for Ajah Dey talk sef

I believe the weight of the pot wasn’t evenly distributed. Take, for example, the tables used by Point of Service (POS) vendors you’ll often notice a hole in the center. Many people assume it’s meant for an umbrella, but that hole actually serves a structural purpose. It helps distribute the weight evenly across all corners of the table. Without it, the imbalance could easily cause the table to collapse, without balancing the weight of that pot it was inevitable after the heat from the fire

KobolanderSegun:
The guy is a sharp guy. The sins of the mothers are passed unto the 7th generation. The guy is either a Nigerian or a Christian to understand the dynamics.

There was this girl I really liked back in the day, she was everything I wanted and I can tell you man she was a spec. I didn’t know she was a single mother until she told me, and honestly, I was okay with it at first. But later I found out her own mom also had her under similar circumstances and from the tone of her voice, she didn’t see anything wrong with it, and that made me rethink everything, which I ended things— it wasn’t easy to let her go but I knew it was for the best. So my point is, a lot of women don’t always think about the long-term impact of these choices. But for men, it feels different because it’s something that could affect feature generations too.

casualobserver:
I know the story is fake! There is no way a girl comes from that kind of home. You dated her you didn’t see signs. You made wedding plans (don’t forget he said he cancelled the wedding meaning he had already meet the parents) and they never displayed this kind of behaviour? How todo you call off a wedding that didn’t involve the parents? Meaning it’s not his first time meeting the parents.

C’mon we are not children and not all of us are gullible!

I get your point, but I’m saying—things happen and don’t be too quick to sideline it as fake
Your level of understanding and decision making might not be same as the guy.

casualobserver:
What I said was if it was true, a girl who comes from such a home would have displayed such traits. You don’t need to visit her home to know she is not wife material. Hence it is a fake story. There are things a girl raised in that environment will have displayed in the course of dating.

Well you don’t know better than the guy, so just let it be

casualobserver:
Recognize a fake story when you see one!



I could have believed the story if he didn’t overdo it and say the mother was shouting at the father.

Back when I lived in Benue State, my landlord’s wife used to hit him over the smallest things. He was such a calm and gentle man—a professor, even. So yeah, my guy, things like that really do happen.I’ve also met a lady who said she’d only marry a man who does house chores.

I would do the same, because if her mom could do that, she can also do same to the guy
Ladies that grew up in such homes don’t turn out to have respect for their spouses

They should focus on creativity and innovation, that’s the only way they will beat the norms and not by doing repetitive tasks

That girl should get a good lawyer asap

Peter Obi is a man with admirable intentions. However, the reality of Nigeria’s political landscape presents a formidable challenge. The current system tends to favor those aligned with existing power structures, and with the ongoing regional rotation of presidential power, success often hinges on backing from previous administrations and the prevailing religious and ethnic expectations tied to each political cycle.

The Igbos, unfortunately, have yet to fully integrate into this deeply entrenched political system—a system that, for now, appears to reward strategic alignment over idealistic ambition. Figures like Akpabio and Wike seem to be positioning themselves for leadership when the presidency rotates back to the South after a Northerner completes an expected eight-year tenure.

Unless the Igbo political bloc begins to engage the system on its own terms, the dream of producing a future president may remain elusive—and the cries of marginalization may persist indefinitely. I genuinely hope the Nigerian electorate will defy these patterns in the next presidential election and usher in a new era of inclusivity and merit-based leadership.

Peter Obi is a man with admirable intentions. However, the reality of Nigeria’s political landscape presents a formidable challenge. The current system tends to favor those aligned with existing power structures, and with the ongoing regional rotation of presidential power, success often hinges on backing from previous administrations and the prevailing religious and ethnic expectations tied to each political cycle.

The Igbos, unfortunately, have yet to fully integrate into this deeply entrenched political system—a system that, for now, appears to reward strategic alignment over idealistic ambition. Figures like Akpabio and Wike seem to be positioning themselves for leadership when the presidency rotates back to the South after a Northerner completes an expected eight-year tenure.

Unless the Igbo political bloc begins to engage the system on its own terms, the dream of producing a future president may remain elusive—and the cries of marginalization may persist indefinitely. I genuinely hope the Nigerian electorate will defy these patterns in the next presidential election and usher in a new era of inclusivity and merit-based leadership.

TrackerSK:
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Seun should change the 40 characters to a good sentence
Like wtf is this 😂😂😂😂😂

OP go to Settings - Apps - See all apps then Sort by recently installed or look for apps with no recognizable name or icon. Tap any suspicious app and check, Does it have weird permissions like access to SMS or system settings ? Was it installed around the time the issues started?
If yes, uninstall it immediately. If the uninstall button is greyed out, it might be a system app
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The moment I saw this, I knew the OP is a lady
That gender don’t want to bare the consequences of their actions, they think there’s always some short rout to happy ending 😂😂😂

My ex was wealthier than I was, but I always took her out and gave what I could afford no pressure, just genuine effort. Even though she owned a house here in Lagos, I never stayed over; I preferred her coming to my place. When she moved to the U.S., I ended things I don’t do long-distance, and I don’t double-date. We’re still in touch though.

If you’re thinking of dating her, don’t ask her for money. Build your own. That way, you’ll earn her respect and keep yours intact

Interesting how the architect of the storm is now upset about the raIn, Oga rest

Ever since I realized that I’m always been cheated by this market women fore my inability to price goods, I make my GF go to the market for me every weekend

Some things nah for women abeg 😎😎

Penguin2:
Lol! The woman is clearly not impressed by their deceit and photo-ops.

It’s like a woman that is married and facing hell in her marriage.

Her husband uses her as punching bag.

Starves her of both food and sex.

Restricts her movement.

Then one day the husband heard his wife’s people will be visiting and he quickly rushed to the market to buy wrapper for the woman. Gave her money to plait her hair so she can look good.

Do you think that woman will be impressed? No!

Because she knows her husband is not doing those things out of love for her but just to cover shame.

The people know who loves them. And that’s Peter Obi.

And in 2027, Obi will come and rescue them.

You were making sense at first then sound stupid at the end, everything shouldn’t be politicized

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The era of automation is here, and with it comes a shift in priorities. Humans must now focus on creativity and problem-solving, rather than repetitive tasks most of which will soon be handled by machines. If you don't cultivate the ability to think critically and innovate, you risk becoming obsolete in a rapidly evolving world. The key to staying relevant is through innovation. Be creative people

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correctguy101:
Lols.. I just passed by his royal resident along bouillon now. Come meet me make we go drag am

Police line up from falomo to his house o.

Lols

Modified

No come again, I hear say the man suspect say we wan come "draw" am. E don run go Abuja... Until next time

lol person wey no want opposition party nah him house you want go drag am, you want to be tagged as an unknown gunmen ?

correctguy101:
Na Indian film?

In a serious debate, any werey wey make such eediotic promise suppose try defend how e go take achieve that kind matter.

But people voted for him without asking him to tell them how he would achieve that

Chram:
I write with Pains in my heart.
I wish to ask God why some certain events occur in life.
I have lots of questions to ask, but nobody to give me answers.

I describe as Selfish, inconsiderate and egoistical the decision of my mum to remarry.

So, I lost my lovely and caring dad six years ago. We had lived in Port Harcourt prior to his death. When we were traveling to the village, we packed all the little properties we had cos we were not going to return back to PH again since my mum would not be able to cater for myself and little siblings.
After the burial and funeral ceremony, we all stayed in the village. I mean a typical village where there's no good road, no electricity, no mobile network. I stayed for a few months, then left them to go squat with my friends in port Harcourt so I could hustle with my muscles and return back to sch at least because it had always been my dad's desire for all of us to go to sch, so I beat my chest and vowed that I would go to sch and graduate. Thank God, I'm done with sch now.

My current challenge now is my mum is in her mid forties and wants to remarry to a man in the village. She hasn't told me yet. But my paternal aunt called to inform me. I'm really worried because if she gets remarried, she will abandon my younger siblings who are there with her because she won't be allowed to take my siblings to her new husband's house as it is an abomination based on the customs and traditions of our place. If my siblings must live with her in that place, then they will have to start bearing the new husband's name as his children. Why ?

Also, as a male child, I'm not allowed to go visit here and eat or sleep over in her new house. If I do this, I might die. Why is this?

Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic terms, I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.

I wish u guys can beg my mum not to remarry please. What's the difference between me and someone from a Broken background?
Life is not fair to me and my siblings. Not fair at all. I know how I'm feeling right now.

Let me make it clear at this point that if her plans of remarrying goes through, I will dis-mother her. I'll cut all ties and destroy every bond that ever existed between herself and us the children.

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I think we share some similarities when it comes to life’s unpredictability. Your mom deserves to be happy, and the best way for her to achieve that might be through marriage. She even tried staying single for six years before remarrying.

I lost both of my parents and had to take on responsibilities at the age of 24. I sent my younger sister to learn fashion design while my youngest sibling focused on school. Fortunately, I was able to secure a job with a nonprofit, which helped me cover their expenses. Today, they both have something to support themselves, and I still assist them in whatever way I can. Despite everything, we share a strong bond built on mutual respect.

You seem like someone who is determined, and with that energy, I believe you can still maintain a close relationship with your siblings and your mom. No matter what, she still loves you all as her children. Try to look at the brighter side—holding onto grudges during your youthful years won’t be helpful in the long run.

teekrackz:
As Naira no dey there, children of perdition no go believe

Is naira anything to write about?

I will make #1 = $1 how far?