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Konnektions146: op
YU DONT SOUND TO ME LIKE YU ARE EMOTIONALLY PREPARED TO FATHOM WHATS IN MARRIAGE.
your reasons are kinda flimsy for me and thats y i wonder y people get married wen dey dont know what it entails.
but come to think of it, u started dis thing early oooooo...chei 35 & 22, na wa oooo

i wish yu well but think abt what u want, i am a strong advocate of HAPPINESS, do all u can to be hapy and dont regret any of ur actions

is dis not the same man yu just hooked up wit some weeks ago after leavin yur school-boy boyfriend cos of snatched phone is askin for marriage, that means its de marriage thats pushing u to him and yu re here complaining.SMH for a confused little girl....its a pity

good luck

lol,my dear,i didnt meet him some few weeks ago.it's bn 5yrs k?smh

[quote author=Abeg_gi]Do not let anyone or anything stampede you into getting married because you'll regret it. Your decision to get married should be in agreement with your intuition.

Essentially, your boy friend is saying " if you love me you'll get married to me now " . Well tell him " if you love me you'll wait a few years till am done with school and emotionally ready ".

Your request is really not unreasonable but on the contrary, very mature and wise. I really admire you for that; your boy friend should too.[/quote]fnks dear,am delighted

M M M: Op
I need ur BB pin

lol

toluxa1: As I type this, I just finished season 8 of Jumong! My God that film is something else, didn't want it to finish. But I heard it continued so I went to buy the continuation (they called it season 9-12). Can't wait to see what will happened there but am so sad the figures am used to (I.e Jumong, Dae So, Mo Pal Mo etc are all gonna be dead). I hope its gonna maintain its thrill!

Has anyone watched the other films mentioned above? Which other Korean film is as interesting please?


PS: Abeg, dem curse this Koreans make dem no dey kiss? Lol...

nna ehh.d shld put more effort in dia romance

dayokanu: Funmilayo Ransome Kuti

One of the women elected to the native House of Chiefs, serving as an Oloye of the Yoruba people
Ranking member of the National Council of Nigeria and the Cameroons
Treasurer and President Western Women Association of the National Council of Nigeria and the Cameroons
Leader of Abeokuta Women's Union
Leader of Commoners Peoples Party
Leader of Nigeria Women's Union

added 2 the fact dt she wz the 1st nigerian woman 2 ride a car.can you imagine?

Amya: First off, let me start by saying this is a 100% true. If any one knows me on Nl, they'd know I don't make up stories.

My Dad's youngest sister is 39. she just got married last year to an AA guy she met on an online dating site. They got married here in Nigeria, so she has to be in Nigeria for 2 years before gets her green card to join him.

The guy has been to Nigeria a couple of times, but I haven't met him. He sent me a friend request on facebook, and earlier in the year, he asked my Aunty to give him my bb pin. We started chatting innocently. I call him uncle, and he calls me 'my sexy niece' he always try to chat me up every other day. After a while the communication stopped. We didn't chat for 2 months, but I could care less.

Yesterday, he went on full toasting mode. Telling me his marriage between by Aunty and him is over, and how he's always been in love with me and want's to marry me. I was trying to see reasons with him (more out of respect than anything else) why the liaison would never work, because his wife in question is my Aunt! Plus I have a bf I love.

He went on to say "Bleep tradition! Bleep family!!! I want you to be here in new york city with before the end of the year. We'll get married here and bla bla bla" It was shocking and traumatising.

I'll never be foolish enough to fall for that crap. But I may just teach him a few lessons never to mess with a naija girl (by chopping him mugu)

I really don't know whether or not to tell my Aunt about this and make it a family issue.

babe,dnt kolo oooo.if Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ know wt is good 4 Ɣ☺ΰ‎​,stay out of dis issue.dnt involve urself wif U̶̲̥̅̊® aunt's hussy,no matter wot,even if he's offering Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ plenty dollars.I know y am sayn dis

malaria: Poster u are seriously chasing water falls when u have rivers& lakes around u.pls if u arnt ready 4 marriage free the poor dude and give single ladies out there a chance.pls o! Take make decisions u'll regret later

mmmmmmmmm, ooooooooo.come and ave him then

[quote author=deal_ordea]@op: if I got your drift very well, you wanted to explore more after school which is possibly two years and your bf to be husband wanted you to be is home quick wifey which I clearly see him been insecure of loosen you due to qualities you possess in other to warn other men that she is taken!!

Gbam!!! First, I will call you a donkey girl for not yielding in to what your bf wanted, though you don't feel cool with what he wanted to bargain with you right now but do you know some ladies are out there seriously seeking a man who could just engaged them for a day(smile)...common, I know you are trying to be logical with your current financial status but your bf is not complain, he only want a guarantee status that you aint going no where. Also, your bf is getting older day by day and don't you feel he was been accused by is friend that his a child abuser?? I know a lot of members on here will probably say age is just a number but your bf is probably considering is age and he is afraid of regretting later in life that, if only had I know, I would have tie the knot with her which makes your man feel insecure presently.

Did u say you guys dated for 5 good years and you said you love him but don't want to settle down now, common, he doesn't want to tie you down lady, he just need a guarantee that you aint going to end up with another man.. My advice to you lady, hit the ball while not in motion cos once its kicked out, you've lost it!!! You can engaged him and talk on mutual understanding that you got to finish your blah blah blah before finally settling down with him...

Peace out[/quote]thanks dear,wil fully discuss dt wif him wen he kms back

Rocktation: Ok, so he snatched you from your cradle and now you want an open relationship that will last for 2 years, so you can have your own money to buy souvenirs for your friends at your wedding...or what are you even saying sef?

.dnt read it literally,I didn't say I wnted 2yrs freedom 2 ave enough money 2 buy souvenirs.I hate dependn on sm1,atlist nt nw.so I wnt 2 know wt it feels lyk 2 b independent b4 I tie the knot.

[quote author=A-ZeD]At what age does one become an aristo?
#Just asking[/quote]wt has dis gt 2 do wif d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ matter @ stake?

Onegai: Hmm, you guys don't like you're walking in-step with each other. Honestly, there's nothing wrong with wanting some time, yes you need money ( and not for sharing souvenirs at your wedding, how shallow are you?) but for you to know how to handle and earn a living and manage yourself. And if you really see him as a good husband and father (though he's 35 and lives in Abuja while his gf is 22 is telling me a lot about him), then make the best of the situation. What you should be looking for is emotional readiness in marriage, because cooking soup and having babies is REALLY EASY compared to supporting and loving and building up someone for the next 40 years while nurturing his kids to grow up well and providing a home free of screaming, nagging, fighting endlessly with your in-laws, and trying not to make too many big mistakes.

Do you want independence because he kind of feels like your dad, you wanna have some fun and party a little or is it because you want to at least know what it's like to have bills to pay for a year? Nothing wrong with all of those, as long as you are making a choice. Some of our parents did go from Daddy to hubby.

naaaaa am nt saying,give me more tym so dt I kn gather money 4 souvenirs.it wz jst an instance.well,I ave 2 wait til he gets back on august 2 digest dis whole issue

[quote author=val_dee]You are still not tired of testing different joysticks abi?
Ok na, continue. When the guy leaves, your eyes go open.[/quote]see dis person ooo,dis has notn 2 do wif joysticks,after all,I dnt even know any oda joystick apart frm his.I jst want 2 feel what it means being independent.I jst pray dt mayb b4 nxt year ends,I shld b reasoning wif him on dis issue,if nt.....well am jst confused shaaa

Well,i ave 2 talk it ova wif him.I nid 2 convince him,I rily nid 2

My dears,I have bn dating my boy friend for 5 yrs,since my ss3 and I am currently in my 400 level.he is working now,bt we are in different states because of his work.since early dis year dt he gt work in abuja,he hasn'† bn comfortable leaving me down here.he opted 2 meet my parents @ the end of dis year,bt I tld him ealier dan now,infact right frm time dt I don'† want any marriage issue til I'm out of sch.I ave got 1 year of my final,my internship and service,dts 3 yrs.bt since he went to abuja,he has given me just 1 year 2 finish my schooling,dt my internship and service wil b done after wedlock,bt I dnt wnt dt.I feel soo tied down.I love my bf sooooooo much dt I can't choose anoda,bt all I wnt is a little indepence,mayb 2 yrs.we even had a big fight over the phone cos he felt I wz no longer interested.I dnt knw whether 2 agree because I dnt wnt him doubtn my love cos I lv him,bt in d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ other sense,I wanna do my internship b4 wedlock.my elder sis got married in her 500 level,and I saw how she depended on d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ husband during d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ weding preparation,souvenirs and the rest.she hadn'† even enough money to make souvenirs 4 her cosmates.dt I dnt want,bt he does nt want 2 understand.this is really causing Trouble.I dnt know whether he is also considering his age,bt am nt complaining.I am 22 and he is 35.should I keep quiet til he returns in august or keep saying my stand on it.pls useful advice pls.

ATMC: its not a must. Neither is it a do or die matter

thank Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ my dear,tel dm ooooooo.wts d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ big deal of getn married sef.those in it wanna come out,divorce everywia,yet Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ guys arE so concerned if my genny gets married.dts nt her priority,after all she has a child who wil luk after her @ her old age.so Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ guys should scam!!!!

[quote author=baby-boy]D'banj wont stoop that low!

Why would he settle for Burger when he could have steak!!!![/quote]dude,I fnk Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ got it all wrong.there wz a misplacement.rather,Genevieve wnt stoop too low.D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥'banj is a small boy 2 her.so cut dt crap ok?

Who is dis person carrying dis dirty rumour?my dear,get bizzy. Wif something and stop spreading dirty rumour.mtchewwww.smh

zone77: Searching for Mr perfect will cause you nothing but heartaches.

It is an endeavour in futility because no such creature exists.

Why do you seek perfection when you are not perfect yourself?

Why do you place such an insurmountable obstacle infront of you?

Why have you made your life and relationships difficult because of such an irrational demand?

Unless God sends down an angel to marry you, which is an impossibility, you have to choose a human being, like the rest of us.

Any woman you see enjoying a great relationship worked on that relationship. There are no short cuts. Perfectionism may work well in a novel, movie or television show, but in real life it will frustrate you, and lead you to massive pain.

Are you compatible with this guy? Can you live with him in peace without going crazy? If your answer is yes, then you are in a very good place.
You can deal with the ‘minor’ details later. However, if your answer is no or if you had rather dip your hand in a pot of boiling oil than spend time with this guy, I will suggest you look for another guy. Not having lots of money is not a good reason to give up a great relationship.

A guy may have lots of money but be abusive and insensitive to your feelings.If this guy, who doesn’t have lots of money, makes you feel on top of the world emotionally, then you should think about how to work out the financial angle in your relationship. Think and pray through. But don’t throw it away. Not just yet.

Is he too short, too fat, too tall, too smart, too dark, too light, too hairy, too muscular, too skinny, bald? etc These are things you can work around. If you don’t want to get married to a short man who will do anything to make you happy, would you rather he was tall and mean to you? A man’s height or physique will not make you happy. Stop delaying your marital destiny by desiring the wrong things. The media sells us the picture of the perfect man with well formed, a perfect body, a perfect job, an IQ of 180, perfect teeth, a nice apartment, a great car,etc. If you want one of those men, you will have to find them in that magazine and no where else. The fact is that if you want a good man, you must be willing to work on the relationship. You should be vary suspicious of any man who looks too perfect. In fact, I will advise that you step back and watch him closely.

thank you my bros.na big point Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ hold dia

Shokoloko: Olu jacobs and Joke silva. Stephanie doesn't speak fluently. she hardly knows english prononciations

thanks you my dear,stephanie only forms

GboyegaD: I think yours is gross misunderstanding. If all she was concerned about was the guy not caring she wouldn't be angry that he couldn't buy her a nokia torch as though it is part of his responsibility. In as much as I do not support a 35year old girl dating a 21year old particularly one whom he might have indirectly lured with material things, there is no crime in him being single at his age because you wouldn't know why he is still single.

mmmmmmmm,L̳̿Ö̤̣̇☺ː̗̀(=)))ː̖́☺Ö̤̣̇L̳̿‎​ .....Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ guys are missing it.well,una no go understand!!the only tn poor Amzy wants is just love and care!!finito.aint materialistic.

OMG!i ave seen ma fellow tripper.u dnt lv her d way i do.everybody complains d way i adore her.she's ma role model,my mentor.after God n my mum,na she follow.at times my bf wznt km4table wif it,bt nw hd promised me dt i wil get 2 meet her.bt i knt wait o.i rily wana meet her,let her knw dt she hs a fan fanatic.everytn abt her mks me dream.infact,every every.hw i wish i kn get her pin or no.i lv actn n wld wish 2 act wif her,evn if it means her maid.OMG!!!

Naaaaaa,Ɣ☺ΰ‎​ are nt done yet.continue with kingdom of the winds,1-4.that is d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ contnuation of jumong.the king there was king yuri.jumong's son

Ma 1 n only best actres is genevieve nnaji.al her movies r my best.lol

I wanna introduce u guys 2 dis exceptional movie guild-the korean movies.if u shld ask me,d shld rank 1st in international awards,even b4 hollywood.pls dis korean movies are a must watch:Jumong,Dong yi,Sea God,A man called God. useful comments kos wen u watch dm,u'll never pick anyoda seasonal movies 2 watch.am sooo addicted.

Dat guy must b silly.is dt an excuse.a marriage dt is yet 2 clock 1 yr!nawa o.doesn't he knw wts patience?if he rily lvd d wife,2ys wil b notn 2 hm.mtcheew

If you talk of,mayb I ave nt given him enough chance.dis is a relationship that gets me thinking all day.he rarely calls,wen I confront him,he says he prefers nt hearing from his chick 4 a long while.ok,I stil did the calling.when he travels,you rarely hear from him except dt week he's kmn back.yet I stil lived with that.infact,it got 2 the extent that I wz over naggn,always fEeling sober.so if you think I ave nt given him enough chance,then you are loosing it.as young as I am,it's too early 2 suffer frm high BP

Mmmmmmmm

He who isn't wearing the shoe does nt knw wia it pains.I never sed I wanted him 2 buy me blackberry,make my hair n carter for my schl fees.my realtionship of 1 year +,he has never sed,tk dis,hw r Ɣ☺ΰ‎​?who then shld he show his little affection 2

He who isn't wearing the shoe does nt knw wia it pains.

Funny