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Hysmady:
Are they now insinuating that only Muslims patronizes them

No but high % is from them. The truth is unvailing now

Omagago:
Stupid boy

Must you insult? Everyone has his /her own opinion. That is what he want.

lefulefu:
Do you know that once you are a guy above 30 and you are still very single without a fiancee or you are a lady above 25 and still not engaged then there is a higher probability that you may remain that way for another couple of years?

I know you may not agree to this but the truth is that the higher you get in age from that point on the more careful you want to be and that is where the real problem sets in...."TRYING TO BE CAREFUL"

The honest truth is that at this stage,you need to free your mind and think less of making any mistake and in fact you need to rid your mind of any panic and be yourself....in other words,don't search because those who search usually make mistakes but those who just live their lives usually find that special person when and where they least expect.

So if you are a guy above 30 or a lady above 25 and single as in not engaged,let's discuss about business,romance and life in general.

Though this is not a dating or meet up thread but you are very free to make friends with anyone...

Remember that it is very difficult to come across single guys and ladies out there as these sets are usually very busy,focused and mostly indoor so let's make good use of this platform.

I know this is a faceless forum and i know some people below this age group will try to derail the thread but i will appreciate if such group will maintain a status quo and allow only single guys of 30 and above as well as single ladies above 25.

Thanks




u make marriage seem as if its a do or die affair.a man should set his priorities right and have at least a comfortable living before getting married.whats the point of rushing into marriage if u cant cater for ur family.hmm anybody wey take una so called love relationship advice on nairaland to heart go just run F9 in his relationship.in life there is no definite rule.

Ur absolutely correct. Well said

Daniyemi:
Hi everyone!
So the other day I posted the dilemma I was in and thankfully some of you gave me matured advice. Here is the link to the thread : https://www.nairaland.com/3697979/love-two-girls-wants-one.

I was In love with two ladies and wanted to pick one. I eventually settled with one.


The problem is the lady I picked I took her home to show my mum and she was super shocked. (She is unaware that I and my ex had parted ways.) She rebuked me strongly and warned me not to think of bringing any girl to the house to show her if not my ex. (I understand she really like my ex).
She didn't even give any reason for rejecting the girl I brought she just didn't want to even hear us out.

I had to allow the girl go in peace. Thankfully we had not gone far in the relationship. Not like I don't love her. But I think I love my ex more. Poor me right? (Currently single).

The big problem here is my ex doesn't even talk to me, she doesn't pick my calls. If only she would come back I'd ensure that the mistakes I did that led to the breakup in the first place won't arise again (we dated for three years). She went through a lot with me when I was still a student and broke. I am comfortable and I wanna reward her.

My question now is was I right to let the girl go on account that my ex has the love of my mum? (I love her too still) The girl I introduced to my mum was always complaining of my attitude to the relationship anyway. (She was always complaining of how I don't ever stop talking about my ex).

Has anyone broken up with his/her ex and reconciled a second time with the relationship strong like it was before? If peradventure she has a boyfriend what are my chances of succeeding considering the fact that we dated for long.(more than 3 and a half years.

Should I try harder in convincing my mum to accept the girl?

Love is really complicated. I feel like just being alone forever.


Insults are welcomed as usual.

My brother, I completely understand you. There are certain things u must understand which are: marriage is different from boy friend and girl friend matter. Don't allow any one tell you who to marry and who not to marry cos you are the one that will live with the lady. Secondly, there are some qualities you must look out for. Lastly follow your heart and pray to God for guidance. May God help us.

Nitrobemsin:
http://thenationonlineng.net/fulani-herdsmen-kill-10-cross-river/

You people are coward, don't u have youth. It's better to die fight, than running. Kill them too .

PrinzCarter:
If dat snake was in Nigeria dey would HV said hunger, frustration above all recession in its peak has hit d jungle #eventhekingmustswallowhispride

No wahala, when u see snake go and be giving it water

yemimajid:
Please those with the right information should enlighten me on professional certifications necessary to be acquired as a graduate of Finance who's interested in investment banking as a career choice. Thanks.

Get ur first degree and go for the masters