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Bank will still look for ways to charge you.
My bank wil charge me for:
SMS fee
ATM charges
ATM maintenance fee
.........fee
.........fee
At times 2time a month. Until when I told them to close my account and transfer my money, some of the charges stop.

CastedDude:
Troops of Quick Response Force has intercepted a gang of armed robbers operating at Felele, along Lokoja - Okene highway wearing military camouflage and robbing innocent commuters.

Three of the armed robbers, Saviour Denis-39years, Isaac Donald-35years and Joseph Isah-35years were arrested while one Mr Atsen was neutralized during an exchange of fire with the troops.

Also, two female accomplices, Mrs Janet Isah and Oyinoye Ochefije were arrested during the encounter.

Items recovered include:

a. One AK 47 rifle.

b. One AK 47 rifle magazine loaded with 28 rounds of ammunition.

c. Four pairs of military camouflage uniform.

d. One pair of Nigeria Police pullover.

e. Three pairs of berets.

f. One pair of black boot.

g. Two machetes.

h. One Plier.

i. 22 handsets.

j. A sum of Sixteen Thousand Nine Hundred and Eighty Naira cash.

The suspects are currently undergoing interrogation and will be handed over to the appropriate authority for further necessary action.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/07/nigerian-army-intercepts-armed-robbers-neutralize-one-in-kogi-state.html

They MUST all be KILLED. no need of taking them to court.
Robbers are not human being so they must be treated as wait product.

Gabrie300:
Hello Guys my name is Gabriel Johnson, Am 31 years. I have been married to my wife whom is 29 years for the past 7 years.. We are blessed with two kids.

But the thing is that, I see her chats with a Guy she knew 2 years ago. My wife says the Guy is her best friend nothing else.

Though I have not seen anything related to sex or that, but I don't feel comfortable with her chatting with this Particular Guy all the time. She claims the guy is married and I am not interested to know. All I want is for my Wife to cut him off. She's married for Christ sake.

Please narialanders help me with advice.

Am already loosing it.

My brother, your wife should stop it, if she want her marriage. Cos before u no it, she will start developing feelings for the guy.

Jesusloveyou:
Terrorist Shekau is dead, and
Terrorist nnamdi kanu is dead.
If they are both alive, I challenge both of them to show face before October 1st. this is the first time the terrorist mother is granting interview and condemning his terrorist son.

But the jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of biafra terrorist parents was supporting their terrorist son to bring down the country in 2mins.
And to bring 2m jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of biafra to Abuja to take over ask rock.

May God punish you for insulting BIAFRA that is older than your parent

NLevents:
You can not say you love someone without trusting them


Few days to the Nairaland party 4.0

why would you want to miss out on so much fun ? Visit thread for more details

https://www.nairaland.com/4483935/nairaland-get-together-party-4.0

You can love without trusting sir.
You earn trust. You can see a person and you fall in love immediatly. Have u not heard the word " Love at first sight"

dainformant:
Operatives of the Special Anti-robbery Squad SARS in Ojodu-Abiodun area of Ogun State been accused of random shooting after allegedly at at young boys playing football some days ago. According to reports, the police officers who allegedly went beyond their jurisdiction into Yakoyo area of Lagos State allegedly injured some residents in the process of the shooting.

The pictured victim was said to have been protecting his younger who was running in front of him when he was shot at three times - with one of the bullets hitting him in the head.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/sars-operatives-allegedly-shoot-boys-playing-football-ogun-state-photos.html

This is not surprise, since they don't give account of bullets they shoot. May God help this Country.

freshkpomo:
The Israeli government has issued a notice for thousands of African migrants to leave the country or face imprisonment.
The migrants will be given up to $3,500 (£2,600) for leaving within the next 90 days.

They will be given the option of going to their home country or third countries.

If they do not leave, the Israeli authorities have threatened that they will start jailing them from April.

The UN refugee agency said the controversial plan violated international and Israeli laws.

Israel's unwanted African migrants

The Israeli government says their return will be humane and "voluntary".

The order exempts children, elderly people, and victims of slavery and human trafficking.

A spokesperson for Israel's Population and Immigration Authority told the BBC there were currently 38,000 "infiltrators" in Israel, of whom just 1,420 were being held in detention facilities.

Israel uses the term "infiltrators" to describe people who did not enter the country through an official border crossing.

Many of the migrants - who are mostly from Eritrea and Sudan - say they came to Israel to seek asylum after fleeing persecution and conflict, but the authorities regard them as economic migrants.

Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has claimed that an unchecked influx of African migrants could threaten Israel's Jewish character.


http://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-42541515

Chinedu, it's time to leave Israel. Collect the money and come back

BrainnewsNg:
Source: https://www.brainnewsng.com/13-things-need-teach-girl-child-early-age

Lalasticlala

https://www.brainnewsng.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Girl-Child-300x200.jpg

Then lastly, help children to cross the main road when ever they want to.

May God continue to protect our children from the hands of wicked and unreasonable men.

Angelanest:
The female soldier who died in a fatal accident on October 10 in Rivers state (a day before her birthday), has been laid to rest amid tears at her hometown in Sagbama area of Bayelsa state. Salo Roseline Tamarabrakemi, was killed in a fatal accident involving a vehicle and the motorcycle she was on while going to a market at Elele, Port Harcourt, Rivers state capital - to get things for her birthday which was the next day (Oct 11).

She was buried today amid tears as her colleagues, friends and family were present.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/10/female-soldier-killed-in-port-harcourt-laid-to-rest.html

See previous thread here >>> https://www.nairaland.com/4110010/salo-roseline-tamarabrakemi-dies-accident#61311908

That is the same pain we passed through when our brothers and sister were shot dead in Umuahia and Aba. May her soul rest in peace.

LifestyleTonite:
https://www.instagram.com/p/BZTVI4JHD5B/?taken-by=daddyfreeze



Nollywood Actress, Tonto Dikeh has denied reports stating that she was an errand girl and a cleaner in lagos before fame.

A report by Pulsenigeria247 had stated that she was an errand girl and a cleaner in Alaba, Lagos. This report was brought to the notice of the Actress by OAP Daddy Freeze who asked her in a chat to verify if the information is true.

The Actress denied stating that she never lived in Lagos before starfom (perhaps she wanted to type stardom).

https://www.wotzup.ng/tonto-dikeh-errand-girl-and-a-cleaner/

I don't just no why people like running other people down. Well it's lack of work.

sarrki:
"...You vow to burn the country down. You order for security agents to be killed. You display a ragtag army with military fatigues. You create your own version of a state security service. You solicit for arms. You vow to halt the constitutional right of others to vote. You violate every bail condition.

All your actions are TREASONABLE yet you expect to be given a pat on the back and a sit at a sane men's table.

Pray tell, how best does one define an enemy of state?..."

Keep quite Aboki when elite are talking.
People dey talk aboki too dey talk. Wonder shall never end.

sarrki:
Immediately PMB returned, in his nationwide broadcast, he specifically warned Kanu and he said he would stop his madness!!!

Instead for his supporters to warn him that "Dont take General's threat for granted", they were busy criticizing the President's grammar. Their focus was on what the president didn't say and not what he said!!! Now the president is keeping his broadcast promise!!!

Yoruba say "he who warned you before defeating you is a Master Wrestler...."

Long live PMB!!!

Received sense Aboki

madridguy:
GOD BLESS NIGERIA ARMY

For killing armless people? may u experience what they have done to the armless people in Jesus name.

Remimadrid:
Good for them, they taught they can just create mayhem because they are in their land. Stupid IPOB, stupid leader, Kanu is a pig.
quote me u IPOB sluts and face an early grav

God punish your generation. Foolish man. Never insult the IPOB in ur messerable life.


God bless Biafra

ChangeIsCostant:
cc; lalasticlala

Is this not why Nnamdi Kanu call Nigeria a zoo. #say no to Fulani

nwaanambra1:
this can only happen in Abia!


very useless, deluded and confused youths!



totally un-Igbo and totally unacceptable!









and the useless albino is gladly accepting the bowing and lying down


Next he will stat sucking his balls and sharing his poo to eat!


see his useless albinish hands and legs!

Guy...... But why. Why, Nna u fall my had.

Bigboyz32:
Age gap relationship advice is always the first thing every new date sought for before finally deciding to start a lasting relationship. The popular saying “age is just a number” is not even practiced by those that say it. Once they are cut-up in a relationship with a partner not close to their age, you will start hearing panicking queries like; what is the good age difference in a relationship?

Age is not a perfect indicator when it comes to relationship. To the question of the day: should age play a role in relationship? Yes! Age can and do play an important role in a person’s personality thereby affecting his/her functions in the relationship.

This is simply saying that age gap relationship advice can only be necessary when the age of the person begins to affect his/her conducts in the relationship. With age gap relationship advice, there is no right or wrong answer to this, because what affects Mr. A, might not affect Mr. B even with same age differentials; and that makes it a pretty hard nut to crack.

I want you to know that age signifies so much more than just a number (as popularly used). Your age most times reflect your level of maturity, experience and stage in life. Nevertheless, age can be deceptive too, for instance; not every 22-year-old boy reason alike with his mates. Some are already steps ahead of their mates in life with success evidences; and it applies to girls too. Just as the saying goes “different strokes for different folks” that you failed doesn’t mean that another will.

Age gap relationship advice is very important especially for teenagers because, as a young growing boy/girl, the early part of your age are stages for self-development and discovery. The later part of your age is the time for self-security and acceptance of your personality. For example, your little kid brother ( as a girl) was so annoying when he was 10 years old, what about now that he is 19 years old? You will notice that you rapport with him better than how it was when you both were kids; that is the effect of age and maturity.

When you have grown to the level that you are secured with your identity and personality that is when maturity sets in because; at this stage, societal judgments don’t matter much to you. This is the stage where age difference in relationship wouldn’t matter to you.

Age gap relationship advice can play a big role in the success of any relationship. I want you to consider the following points if you are dating someone with either an older age gap or younger age gap difference; the following will help you decipher if your relationship will last.

What is your age and that of your partner today?

This is a vital question that you must give answer to because; your relationship might seem blissful in the beginning and whither in the end. If both of you are still in your twenties with little age gap, the worry about age difference in your relationship will be very minimal but when it has to do with age fifties and sixties the worry can never be over-emphasized at this point.

Emotional maturity and accommodation of interests/ habits

This particular factor poses a very big threat in age gap relationship advice. It is a big factor to consider because it determines the longevity of your relationship. You don’t expect a 23-years-old girl to act same way with a 35-years-old woman in an anger control test. The older you are in age the calmer you are. The younger age is always impatient and restless unlike the older folks that might have been humbled by life experiences.

You equally have to consider your interests. What habits do you have in common with your partner? Do you workout in the morning together! Do you love cooking with him/her in the kitchen? Such interests that create bond between both of you should be known.

Peradventure you both have nothing in common, you had better get ready for disagreements in many things; and such smells doom for the relationship.

Insecurities associated with the already existing age gap

Hope your insecurities can be managed very well, take for instance; seeing your partner enjoy his or her own age type of conversation. Hope you won’t start feeling that your partner enjoys or connects better with those his/her age bracket!

What about family planning and possible past relationship baggage (like kids from divorced partner), have you thought of that too?

Can he/she tolerate living with your kids as a divorcee? Can you live with your partner’s past dating problems? Are you interested in having kids and does that go down well with your partner? These are questions that must be answered; with such details, you can forecast the future of your age gap relationship.

Can you grow old with your partner knowing that his/her energy level will depreciate with time?

If you can cope with the age gap and energy drop with time then, you are ready for a lasting relationship with your partner.

I want you to bear in mind that no matter how true your love for an under 18 teen is, you are close with a legal problem.
Focusing more on the age gap relationship advice can really be a waste of energy and time, when such energy can be channeled into the building of sustainable grounds for your relationship to stand the test of time.

Don’t be in the habit of attributing every misunderstanding you’re having with your partner with the age gap in the relationship; such can really suck! Address the age difference issues when it is necessary, you don’t need to dominate your conversations with age gap advice.

BEST OF LUCK!

SOURCE

Age also matters, I don't expect any one below 18 to be in a relationship.

emefav:
Talk about dating someone all the time not knowing you're the side chick, and here's one. A Nigerian lady, Aminah Dupree, has revealed on social media that her boyfriend of 2 years got married to another lady today, yes this Monday. According to her, she was with him on Sunday, but he never hinted he was getting married today.

Aminah who shared photos of the newlyweds, asked everyone to wish them a happy married life while wondering why she was never given an invite.

Here's what she wrote;

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/07/ladys-boyfriend-2-years-sunday-married-another-today-monday-photos.html

Lalasticlala

That he is dating you don't mean I should marry you, maybe he saw several things in that I didn't like.

obonujoker:
Lol.... this govt need to be kicked out in 2019
... they are very enormously clueless... haba!

It will always do you good to think before you write.

Biggcake:
Sense has fallen on him...

Great Nnamdi Kalu continue. Enemies of Biafra, if you like insult our great leader Nnamdi Kalu it does not change his name. God bless Biafra

[quote author=ChukwuemekaVal post=58170201]You nearly committed suicide when she left you the first time. Now she has come back to finish her unfinished business, congratulations in anticipation for your smooth death. Save journey [/quote




she might be sorry genuinely. Remember, to err is human to forgive is divine.

mostsimpliest:
Dear Nairalanders I beg you guys with the name of God I really need the brotherly and sisterly advise on this issue that's being bothering me since yesterday

If you guys can recall my last post https://www.nairaland.com/3851768/dont-know-it-ask-forgiveness where I nearly committed suicide because of a girl that accepted me as a side boyfriend and later abandoned me like trash. This same girl is now calling me, begging me that the guy somehow deceived and bewitched her, that she truly loves me and that I should give her a chance..

Seriously I felt some kind of pity for her cause deep down inside me I still have strong feelings for her...I cant stand see her crying or being disturbed. Please you guys should help a brother in need don't want to regret my action

mods, please help me attach my previous post, I don't know how to do that.

Go back to her but don't show her that you love her until you are trully convince thats she 100% in love with you. Use you head this time. I wish you well.

sunnysunny69:
Just look at this fool, he's at it again running his watery mouth sowing seeds of hatred . You can't liberate your people by splitting hatred and disrespectful. What the Yoruba achieved they work for it, if they think sovereign national conference is it few years ago and soften tones now they have their reasons, and they will get there.

Igbo being scheme out of Nigeria goodies is their own handiwork. When soldiers overthrow a government, the coup plotters put their own life at risk and if successful head a new government, the fact no Igbo officers made attempt at this for over 50 years is no ones cup of tea, no one stops them risking their lives. You can't be expected to have same largesse with the ones that took risks.

Same goes with democratic process, there is no law stopping or banning Igbo presenting a presidential candidates, no law stopping Igbo forming an alliance with other regions, so if Yoruba put their heads together and come up with a plan to be closer to sit of power it's non of your business .

You failed to build a virile economy in your own region and yet find no offence in insulting the ones that took you like a brother. Kanu actions is definitely going to take away the little meagre they get from national cake and there will be so much hatred for the Igbo all over the land as a result of his utterances.

https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/breaking-bad-fu.gif

You are not normal.

mylander:
Please advise.

I was in an employment of a bank until recently when my employment was terminated.

When I had the job, I took my family welfare as my priory. My wife and our only son were faring good, I always ensure we do not lack the basic necessities. Meanwhile, my wife did not have a job then. All the house upkeep expenses including the cost of running her postgraduate program were on me and I felt comfortable bearing the costs as the breadwinner of the family.

After I lost my job in the bank some month ago, my wife got an employment with the state govt. With her little income, she has been able to assist in bearing some expenses, even she pays for fuelling our car sometimes.

The drama has now started in the house and our marriage is on the verge of breaking up.

Any little issue, my wife will turn it to quarrel, different abuses. Funny enough, she would be referring to the financial supports she has been rendering in the house. This is a woman that did not work at all for 2 years and I was bearing all the expenses with pleasure. Now she had only supported me for about 4months now and she's is misbehaving.

To my surprise, my wife maintains a record in which she records every penny she spends in the house including food items and fuel. With this, she always ask me when will I pay him back.

At the instance of a simple argument/misunderstanding, my wife would be boasting of 'I paid for this, I paid for that....' 'If not for my support since you had problem at work......'

Please advise me, I am getting fed-up with the situation, my wife had changed totally.

This is what you get when you marry a bad woman. A good woman builds the home.
Don't break your marriage. I strongly belief that your job is on it's way.
Now you have known the kind of woman you married. Goodluck.

JahsPet:
good evening nairanlanders.

I recently paid my fiancée an hagast visit where she works only to discover that this girl has been occupying an apartment with a single door lobby as entry and exit comprising only two rooms with a male senior colleague.

I know many of us especially ladies will argue it doesnt matter. But I have since then been processing all her past suspicious actions , namely: she seldom answer her phone if i call in evenings (between 7 - 2am usually). At 2am she usually calls back that she saw my calls but she was asleep.

Ater that visit i began putting video calls though, she ignores mostly.

I told her she must look for a roommate and she has since then been adamant about it.


I love her and I have had many terrible dreams about her cheating long before I visited the place (God bears me witness) but i couldn't just relate the nightmares to her.


I'm at the verge of breaking up with her, but what if shes innocent This is why I need to compare various stand points.

Bros just cool down, she might be innocent. It's a 50:50 thing. Just get your fact before leaving her.

tosin400:
Controversial US trained, Nigerian journalist Kemi Olunloyo.

Kemi who was released Last month from Port Harcourt prison after spending 81 days in detention.

Recall that the daughter of former governor of Oyo State, Victor Omololu Olunloyo, was remanded in prison for purportedly publishing materials believed to have defamed an influential cleric, Pastor David Ibiyeomie, of the Salvation Ministries in Port Harcourt.

She took it to her social media pages to blast Biafrans and their leader, Nnamdi Kanu. According to her, what happened in July 1966 is not something anyone will pray for to happen again.


See below:


Source: http://www.flexygist.net/2017/06/30/biafrans-are-so-dumb-controversial-nigerian-journalist-kemi-olunloyo-blows-hot/

You will soon return to where you came from (prison). Waka

MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?

I can feel your pain but ensure you do the paternity test to no your ground. From ur write up it's very obvious she played away league. I wish you the best

hmbassey1960:
Namndi is a fool of the century if i get i swear am going to beat is bloody ass like he is a dickleg

God punish you

ifenuwon:
Good day pple,

I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.

She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.

The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)

Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...

And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.

Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.

No insults

Bros use your brain. It's very clear that she don't want you again. Go get someone else, there are good girls out side who are ready for marriage
.Get ur self one.

ifenuwon:
Good day pple,

I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.

She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.

The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)

Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...

And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.

Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.

No insults

Bros use your brain. It's very clear that she don't want you again. Go get someone else, there are good girls out side who are ready for marriage
. Get ur self one

teekay213:
They suppose hang that guy by his balls.
All these IBO people sef,I don't care if he come from Benue they are all biafra ud to me.

Received sense and stop talking like a fool.