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You do not have a problem dear, there are many of ladies like you out there who fits into your lifestyle.

But my simple advice to you is this: You alone understand your want and what makes you happy with the opposite sex. Do not compromise this for anything.

We all have our criteria for the ideal person, which to me is not a bad thing, but you must be ready to be flexible. Look for a man with a good heart. He must respect women too.

Don't let it bother you. Everything has time. Your man will come at the appointed time.

LordAzubuike:
What if he saw another person he mistook as Michael? And that one didn't respond coz he was just looking at him like "who this one dey call Michael". Learn to reason things from different perspective. Think outside the box

Will you see your own classmate and not recognize him?

This happened in a boarding school in the South East.
Michael (not his real name) was the school's top student when it comes to tracking events. He was very popular. There is also Alex (not real name) who likes to sneak out of the school during weekends to visit his relations who stay in the town.

The school was preparing for her annual inter-house sport, so students were practicing. Michael was also part of those taking part in the training. But something unfortunate happened that day. Michael slumped while training and was rushed to the medical center. He didn't make it. Alex wasn't around when this happened, as he has already sneaked out of the school wall early during the day.

The school was in a sober mood all through Friday evening when the incident happened. Nobody could study or play.

Alex sneaked back in on Sunday and entered his classroom where he met some of his friends, but they weren't studying, but instead, they all looked dull and sad. He asked them what the problem was? No one answered. He kept on asking and asking them to stop all this rubbish they are doing and tell him whats up. The friends realized he didn't know what happened on Friday, then told him.

Instead of feeling sad, Alex burst out laughing. "Una dey joke abi", "which kin rough play be this na", "Make una no dey use this kin thin play o"

His friends told him it was the truth, why would they joke with such?

Alex got upset and told them "una dey crazy?" Just as i was climbing the steps to this place i met Michael on his way down the steps. I said hi but he didn't respond, but just kept walking. Na so me sef leave am begin climb up.

The moment he said this, and from the look from his friends face, he realized he just saw Michael's ghost. Come see as everyone scattered.

Such things happen, but right now is not the time to explain. Got to sleep

IyaTola:
eberex, am in ghana too. Check ur mail

Okay

Where is Tonto Dike? I expect to see her there with him/her

Shit happened to me too. I had a girl friend who I dated for two years. I proposed to her and she said yes, only to call back after two weeks that she is no longer interested. I asked why, but she couldn't tell me the reasons.

After many months of getting over the incident and moving on, we met and she opened up. Her folks on learning that I proposed to her sat her down and told her they were OSU and that she cannot go ahead with the relationship.

Even she herself didn't know she was one. Can you imagine?